no one is in charge of your happiness but you

Shades of pink! Send me one for a romantic question!
  • Ballet: What’s something you’re attracted to?
  • Blush: What’s a gift you want to give your partner?
  • Bubblegum: Describe one thing about your partner that you love.
  • Carmine: What’s your ideal date?
  • Cerise: Do you know what your ‘type’ is?
  • Cherry: Who was your first celebrity crush?
  • Coral: Describe as much as you can remember of your first kiss.
  • Flamingo: Favourite romantic movie?
  • Fuchsia: What’s your favourite romantic trope?
  • Garnet: Which couple is your couple goals?
  • Lemonade: Have you ever been broken up with via text?
  • Magenta: How long did you last relationship last?
  • Peach: Do you prefer to take charge in a relationship?
  • Powder: What’s your opinion on ‘true love’?
  • Punch: Do you believe in soulmates?
  • Rose: Do you ever plan on getting married?
  • Rosewood: Where did you meet your most recent partner?
  • Rouge: What was the last date you went on like?
  • Salmon: What’s the most romantic thing someone’s ever done for you?
  • Strawberry: Have you ever kissed someone you barely knew?
  • Taffy: Describe one thing about a relationship that you hate.
  • Watermelon: Are you happy with your current relationship status?
If you don’t take the time to invest in yourself, then no one else will either. You, and only you, are in charge of setting the foundations in which your self development builds upon.
—  Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin
A "Sending Love" Spell


hello, my loves! the purpose of this spell is to send your most positive energy and vibrations to the ones that you love whom you feel need it most (this can include yourself). here are the steps:

Supplies:

• a dish/cauldron/anything to mix spices in + a spoon

• nutmeg (or cinnamon), rosemary, lavender (you may also use lavender oil instead), salt, and several rose hips (or petals)

• a small quartz crystal

• paper/scissors/ + a pen

• a small bottle, jar, bag, or holder that you can close or seal

• optional: a pink, white, or red candle; lipstick

Note: Before creating my charm bottle, I put on some relaxing, atmospheric background music. For suggestions, feel free to ask me! And if you have a candle, light it beforehand.

Steps:

1). Begin by mixing your spices together in your dish! Add them in any order you please, a small spoonful of each: rosemary for love, lavender for peace, nutmeg (or cinnamon) for good luck and strong visualization, and salt for additional strength and protection. As you add each spoonful, begin to focus on what each spice represents, and how it will help the people you wish to send positivity to.

2). Now is the time to begin writing out your intentions for each individual you are hoping to help. On a piece of paper, in small lettering, write a brief note for each person. Ex: “Safe travels for ___,” “Positive mentality and moving forward for ___,” “A healthy recovery for ___.” You can write messages for as many people as you wish. When you are done, cut out each small piece of paper and fold them small enough to fit in your bottle/jar/holder. If you wish, anoint them with a little something - I sealed all of my notes with a kiss, marked in red lipstick!

3). This is where the rose hips/rose petals come into play. Add a hip or petal to your spice mixture to represent each person that you wrote a note for.

4). Mix your spices together. Close your eyes. Picture your good intentions flowing gently down your arm, your hand, flowing into the spoon, and then off of the spoon, filling your mixture with love and protection.

5). Add your spice mixture to your holder, minus the hips/petals.

6). After adding the spices, drop your notes and hips/petals in, one at a time. Go in the order (note, hip/petal; note, hip/petal; note, hip/petal…) The goal is to visualize that specific person as happy, glowing, and healthy as you drop their notes and rose hips/petals in, one at a time. Really take the time to build up a radiant energy while you close your eyes and envision them as cheerful. While in this positive, visual state, add your quartz crystal to the holder.

7). That’s it! Seal your holder, and place it in an altar, on the windowsill, or next to your bed. Shake it every so often to charge its contents with your ethereal, healing energy! 🥀💖✨💌💋

Self Love Jar Spell

Because everybody can use some self love, especially today.

You will need: 

  • Rose quartz 
  • Clear quartz
  • Rose petals
  • Lavender
  • Vanilla extract and/or vanilla beans
  • A jar!
  • A pink candle (tip: rose scented!)
  • A self love sigil
  • Pencil
  • Paper

Here is a self love sigil created by @birdblinder if you need one!

Steps: 

  1. Light your candle 
  2. Charge your quartz with loving energy
  3. Using the pencil and paper, write down a bunch of things that you love about yourself.
  4. Put all of your ingredients into the jar, including your sigil. 
  5. Put the paper(s) into the jar. 
  6. Seal your jar with the wax from the pink candle, you may also carve the sigil into the wax as well.
  7. Set it in a warm place so that it may be a reminder. 
Bts wanting you to ride their thigh Part 2

I’m just going to leave part one down and continue writing.

Part 1


Hoseok

Hoseok’s biggest turn on- overstimulating you. There was nothing, nothing that could replace the face you made when he was turturing you in different ways, most of which resolted in you cumming at least two more times.

Since he was too lazy when he came back from the long long tour, Hoseok thought of a genuis idea. He gave you your phone and opened the ‘bts smut’ tag on Tumblr. Not knowing why he did this, your eyes were becoming curious and curiouser. He simply smirked at you. “I finally thought what to do with you. You know, the routine gets quite boring. So this is what I thought about. Instead of having the pleasure of my cock inside you, you’ll be a good little slut and read this to yourself. As an exception I will permit you to touch yourself. But, I don’t want anyhting to come out of your mouth. Was I clear enough? No toys, no voice. You’ll only have the privillage of your fingers and your phone. So go on. Daddy will be in the kitchen. I’m hungry.” And so he just left. 

You couldn’t disobey him and to be honest the smut really made you feel something. As if he choose it really carefully. It represented the situation you two were in right now. You, touching yourself and doing a wrong move only for Hoseok to punish you by making you cum on his thigh. So, it was a play and not a reality. Hoseok wanted to overstimulate you, by you sitting on his thigh.

Fast, wihtout even touching yourself, you moaned Hoseok’s name. “Y/N!” The door was kick-opened and a furious Hoseok was standing on the frame. “So, you caught up, you naughty girl!” he smirked evily. “Come here Daddy. You’re princess wants you thigh. It’s going to be my trophy, for being a smart princess.” “Good. I’m all yours.”

Jimin

He had found his way of fucking you when he was really lazy. You were a little whiny, always needy baby. So, he was giving you your phone, a Tumblr app, a smut section and his thigh. Boy has huge thighs, so when you really wanted to fuck, but he didn’t want, all you did was sit on his thigh and move your clit on it.

It was pure heaven for both of you. Most of the times Jimin layed back and enjoyed the show. You’re naked form on top of him, without the need for him to move even. Sex was taking a lot of effort, which he sometimes lacked. So, everyone were happy. 

He was jolting his thigh form time to time, making you explode with emotions. All those emotions resolted in you cumming, once, twice, three times.

Most times when you cummed more than once, Jimin snapped, fliped you on the bed and fucked you into oblivion, until you couldn’t remember you’re name.

Taehyung

Kim Taehyung had two sides of himself - a puppy and a daddy. Depends on his mood he was either making ove to you or making sure you won’t be able to walk for days.

He had the first one when he arrived home. Happy, in all ways. So happy to hug you again, to hold you in his arms. Guess what happend when he heard your moans from the door, then when he saw you touch yourself on his bed, moaning his name like a mantra. He snapped.

Daddy was in charge. He watched you for a little while, until he was so hard, he couldn’t take it. Tae Daddy bursted into the room, scarying the shit out of you. Without saying anything, his hands wrapped around your ankles, pulled you to him, lifted you up and put you on his thigh. “Finish off yourself fast. I don’t want to intrude in the middle of someone’s business. Finish. On my thigh. No where nearly against my cock, darling. Nowhere near there.”

Jungkook

It was a punishment. Jungkooks ego was hurt and boy got really angry over the fact that you choose to read fictional stupidities instead of having the real deal.

For the first time since you were in a relationship, his eyes shouted danger. “You haven’t met my alter ego. I thought I will never have to use it. You think I can’t be rough, that I can’t leave reminders on your body of who I am? I can Y/n. And you will see it now. Undress. Fast. And don’t make a sound am I clear?” “Yes, Kookie.” “Yes what?” “Yes, Daddy.” “Good girl.”

Undressed, you were sitting on the bed, excited and waiting for your man’s next command. 

“Sit on my thigh.”

Your looked at him in shock. So he knew. He knew that you secretly always wanted to try coming off his thigh. Fast, without other questions, you found yourself moving eagerly on his thigh. Everytime he jolted his thigh, the friction got better, your brows knitted together and Jungkook only smirked happy that you won’t read those stories again.


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My Fake boyfriend Part 7

Summary: After receiving a very rude letter of your ex on the mail saying that he is going to get married. You see yourself not knowing what to do, you can just let it go or accept the help of your hot neighbor and pretend he is your boyfriend.

Paring: Bucky x Reader

Words: 2273

Warnings: SO MUCH FUFFLY

A/n: Thanks to @drinkfantasy for being my beta. You rock.

credits to the gif owner

Originally posted by winterwldow

Bucky gets off of the bench, offering you his hand. You accept gladly smiling at him, but his mind can’t focus on anything now. Would you let him kiss you? Would you be mad at him for asking? Maybe you would just politely decline; he wouldn’t blame you for not being attracted to him.

In the dinner room everybody is already sitting waiting for the two of you, including an old couple that he assumes to be Lucas’ parents and the way they are looking at you leaves him no doubts.

He sits by your side on the table watching as you smile at him and he kisses your hand. It is a small gesture, sure real couples do this all the time but it was also a way for him to say that things were alright between you two.

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witch tip ✨

can’t remember what a crystal does? can’t figure out what a person’s aura color means? what color candle do i use for a protection spell again? 

colors are always universal! whether its gemstones, candles, auras, flowers, or even sometimes chakras, colors typically help assign everything similar traits. its great to have a general knowledge of colors and i think its something almost every witch should know! its another thing that is personal to you. how do certain colors make you feel and what do they mean to you? your color meanings don’t have to resemble other witches’ lists. i know there’s lots of color lists out there, but here’s my own short list with wiggle room.

☁️ white - purity, blessing, calming, cleansing. (crown chakra.. some see this as a richer purple or violet) 

🏴 black - rid of negativity, protection. (in some cases for auras it can mean bad signs, but not always)

❤️ red - passion, lust, anger. (root chakra)

🎀  pink - affection, love, relationships.

🌞 orange - confidence, joy, travels, success. (sacral chakra)

📒 yellow - happiness, intellect, creativity. (solar plexus chakra)

🍀 green - growth, luck, envy, success. (heart chakra)

💧 blue - peace, emotions, meditation. (throat chakra)

🔮 purple - spirituality, higher knowing, meditation. (third eye chakra)

🌰 brown - animals, home, grounding.

⚙️ grey - security, neither “good” nor “evil”, neutrality.

💰 gold - masculinity, success, solar magick.

⚖️ silver - femininity, divine, cosmic influence, lunar magick.

*remember for some colors a lighter or darker shade may be appropriate for different magick.

if something has more than one color, think of the combination of those two colors and how they will help you. need to protect yourself from those who bring you down? combine self love and protection with rhodonite! want some powerful grounding energy straight from the sun? charge some tiger’s eye in sunlight!

always make magickal meanings your own! happy color casting!

Originally posted by movedtomedicaltag

✨An Altar to Yourself ✨

Feeling especially down or inadequate about something? Not sure where to currently go in terms of your practice? Then, why not dedicate an altar to yourself? If you are anything like me, you began dabbling in witchcraft for deep personal reasons - it is a flexible practice in which you can choose a truly independent practice that is all your own. I have found that, in times of feeling stuck (“Witch’s Block,” if you will), I realize that I need to draw my spirit back to myself. Why did *you* become interested in magick? Who *is* the person that is so fascinated by this realm? In those instances of self-hatred, remind yourself of who you are. Of why you love the things you love, and of just how beautiful it is to be your own person, completely “you” in every way. Dedicating a small sacred space to your own unique spirit is a simple, lovely thing to do for yourself. Items to Include: 

 • Do you have an absolute favorite crystal, stone, or rock? Take some extra time to really charge your little pal with your own special energy, and place it in the center of your shrine. ✨

 • The same goes for incense or oils - what smell *always* makes you happy? Treat yourself to the beauty of smell by including a sentimental incense, oils, flowers, or candles that are extra special to you. 🕯

 • Altars don’t need to be limited to crystals, candles, and incense. Why not add some photos of people or things you love (including yourself)!!! Include some happy, visual memories - notes from loved ones, favorite quotes, photos of your pet, or even just clipouts/printouts of random things that make you smile. 🖼

 • Fill a small bowl with salt! Salt is protective, and adding some to an altar all about you will assist in the strengthening and guarding of your spirit. 🔮

 • Add anything - literally, anything - that is close to your heart or speaks to your soul. This could include special gifts you’ve received, an award that you’re proud of, a book you love, a statue of a favorite deity or animal, something passed down to you from a family member, a favorite toy or stuffed animal, a tarot card that is sentimental to you, a movie ticket from a film you adored! There are no limits here. :-) 💖

 • Get mushy - write a love letter to yourself! There have *got* to be things that you like about who you are, no matter how easy it is to get down on ourselves. Make a list of the little quirks that you fancy about yourself. On the other side of the paper, write a list of things you wish to change. 💌 ♡

💕 Charging a Stuffed Animal for Comfort 💕

Sometimes I like to bring a small stuffed animal to school with me for a bit of comfort. It’s usually pretty difficult to get through the day for me, but I’ve noticed that stuffed animals (especially charmed/charged ones) help a lot.

Materials:

  • Any stuffed animals of your choosing (preferably small – can be a favorite, a familiar, or Patronus).

Directions:

  • Choose a stuffed animal that brings you comfort or happiness and cuddle with it as you sleep. This charges the animal with feelings of comfort, warmth, tranquility, and affection. 
  • Carry the stuffed animal on your person, in your backpack, or in your purse to help you get through the day.
Suga Daddy: Part 3

Suga Daddy: Part 3

Word count: 7.8k

Genre: smut, angst

My computer is in the shop so I had to edit on my phone. Sorry if there are a lot of mistakes. ^^

Parts: one | two

Originally posted by bwiseoks

It was now Friday, the first day of rehearsal. You’d gotten there a little early, deciding to stretch and mentally prepare yourself, this would be your focus for the next few months. You’d gotten a text from Yoongi this morning, wishing you luck, so you felt pretty good about today.

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Dating Min Yoongi/ Suga would Include

1. I don’t know if anyone has asked already… But could we get a “dating would include” for us Yoongi stans? Btw I absolutely love your blog😍

2.  May I request you a “dating Suga would include”? Thanks in advance :3

Note: You both requested on the same day, and it made me very happy that I can finally write for my bias wrecker this BTS members. I hope you will enjoy! 

Disclaimer: I don’t own the gifs/images used. 

In the Daytime

Originally posted by yoonkooks

  • This lovable man is going to be the best boyfriend on the planet
  • Waking up in the morning consists of you telling him that you both need to get up and his response being “five more minutes” for the next half an hour as he holds you in his arms.
  • Him not being able to function until he’s had a cup of coffee
  • Him kissing you on the cheek everyday before he leaves for work
  • Unless you’ve had an argument
  • That’s when you know shits serious when he doesn’t give you that “goodbye I’m off to work” kiss
  • Him having a busy schedule, but always making time for you in his day even if it means he loses out on sleep
  • Him working long hours into the night in the recording studio to write songs for BTS
  • It isn’t unheard of for you to go there to find him asleep in the most uncomfortable positions
  • You bringing him home because you don’t want him to have a crippled back before he’s reached 30
  • Him writing songs for you that no one ever hears except for him and you
  • Lost of humming, rapping and singing around the house. 
  • Especially while he’s playing the piano. 
  • Which you never get tired of watching because oml who can resist the way he looks so passionate when he’s playing music and his long fingers are pressing against every perfect note
  • If he’s feeling generous he’ll let you sit on his knee and teach you a few simple songs to play on the piano
  • Him being private about your relationship but still taking you out on dates because he knows you love it
  • Hates being teased, especially when you’re around
  • “J-Hope I will kick your fucking ass if you don’t shut up.” 
  • Him getting embarrassed when the others tease him about his sex life
  • “I saw {y/n} had a few hickeys on her neck earlier, there was like one or two… or ten.” 
  • “J-HOPE!”
  • Him making you playlists full of songs that remind him of you, the relationship or times you’ve shared together. 
  • Smiling when it brings you to tears of joy because nothing makes him happier than seeing you happy. 
  • Him holding your hand when he’s nervous. 
  • His thumb will rub the back of your hand and his clasp will become tighter as his nerves run high. 
  • Being the most supportive person on the planet.
  • “If you want to do that Jagi, I will support you the whole way through.” 
  • Him taking secret photos of you when you’re not looking because those are what real beauty is to him. 
  • Like his lock screen is a picture of you looking up in awe at a fireworks display and he treasures it more than life.
  • Min Yoongi being the best fucking boyfriend on the damn Earth. 


At Nighttime

Originally posted by bwiseoks

  • Since he’s busy in the day time most of the time your true hanging out time will more than likely be in the evening 
  • The two of you cuddling on the sofa and watching a film together
  • Except the film is long forgotten about since you started kissing
  • Him leaving small kisses all over your face and neck to show you how much he loves you in smaller gestures
  • You sitting between his legs as you play video games together
  • Him ticking your sides when you’re about to win to he can catch you off guard and take over. 
  • “You cheated!”
  • “N’aww c’mere Jagi~” 
  • Hugging you tightly until you’re over your grudge which usually lasts about 5 seconds let’s be honest, who can be mad at him?
  • Him taking you out to basketball courts in the dead of night because no one else will be around to see you two together
  • Him teaching you how to score a basket
  • His arms holding the ball with you from behind as he teaches you how to position yourself and aim the ball. 
  • Picking you up and spinning you around when you score your first basket on your own. 
  • Him taking you out for night time drives when there’s no one around
  • Blasting music out the windows because it makes you both happy and who is around to judge or give a fuck?
  • backsteat car sex
  • The two of you cuddling up in bed gives him life
  • But sometimes he needs to be more intimate
  • rough sex
  • You telling him you’d like him to be more dominant and thinking he’s forgotten about it until he pushes you up against the wall and starts showing you whose really in charge. 
  • marks, scratches and love bites that get you both into shit
  • “Yoongi, how many times have I told you to stop getting those ugly marks.” 
  • “How many times have I told you I really don’t give a fuck what you think about my ugly marks, Jin.” 
  • Smirking when he see’s the other member’s jealousy, or Jungkook’s blushing, because you’re his and nothing will change that. 
Modified Witch Tips

Have stretched ears? Wear stone plugs that correspond with your intent for the day! The possibilities are endless, and it’s great for broom closet witches because literally no one will know unless you tell them.

Got an exam coming up? Tiger’s Eye will help with clarity and taking the test in confidence.

Going out on a date? Rose quartz!

Personally, I’ll wear a pair of turquoise plugs regularly to help keep my anxiety down.

Cleanse and charge your plugs just as you would the rest of your crystals and stones; be mindful of which types DON’T like water, sunlight, etc while charging to ensure your plugs have a long and happy life with you. 💜

audinolol  asked:

companions react to a sole who's.... really not good at taking care of themselves but takes good care of their companion and is kinda self destructive and covers it up with jokes.

Cait: “Hey.” She catches their arm one day and turns them around to look at her. “I know you don’t give a fuck, right, but I do. If you go off and fuck yourself up, who’ve I got to keep me in line, hm? Take things a little more seriously. I… I know I’m not a good example of taking care of yourself, but think of it this way - whatever I’d do, don’t.”

Codsworth: “Mx. Sole, I don’t know why you’d joke about such things.” He almost takes it as a capital offense, especially since its his job to look after them. “Missing meals is not amusing! You’ll lose weight, and in the Commonwealth you must understand that…” It’d be cute, if his genuine worry didn’t make Sole feel so damn guilty.

Curie: “Perhaps you could use a nurse, yes?” She’s tentative. She’s a doctor - she might not be able to diagnose the sickness, but she can see the symptoms. But she doesn’t want to make any rash judgments. Instead, she smiles at Sole’s jokes and gently suggests that perhaps they have something to eat, and relax a little? If Sole takes care of her, it’s only fair that she takes care of them.

Danse: “There’s something I was taught, in the military,” the paladin says sternly. “It’s all well and good to try and help your comrades. But you come first. You can’t be a war medic with a broken leg.” He plants his hands firmly on the table and looks them dead in the eye. “If you have a problem, we will deal with that problem. But I won’t see you sacrificing yourself for my sake.”

Deacon: It almost makes him uncomfortable. It’s too close to who he is. To what he is. Right down to his distrust of intimacy and two-handed finger guns. It’s a coin flip, to be honest. Heads, it’s too much for him to bear, and he leaves, with a wooden excuse neither of them believe. Tails, and Sole becomes the best friend he’s ever had, because they’re the one person who understands him.

Dogmeat: He might be a smart dog, but even he can’t fully understand what Sole’s dealing with - or rather, what they’re not dealing with. But he can always sense unhappiness, and he does his best to comfort Sole when they’re in a bad place, or just need a little friendship.

Hancock: Sole reminds him too much of how he was as a kid. All sass and ass and no thought for what people would do when he was gone. He’s never one to patronize or try to “teach” Sole anything, but he takes them under his wing. Passes on a few tips and tricks for when you fuck up a relationship or forget to bathe for a few weeks. He comes to think of them as part of his family.

Nick Valentine: He’s not the best at all that “human” stuff, either, though he at least has an excuse. He takes on the role of a father figure, trying to keep them on a schedule, or think of themselves as much as they think of their friends. “You think you’re helping me,” he says one day, frustrated. “But every day I see you destroy yourself - in whatever way - it hurts me just as bad.”

MacCready: At first, he doesn’t notice, mistaking their destruction for deprecation. But, over time, he gets worried. “H-Hey, uh. I don’t- I don’t know if you really want to hear this from me, but… When I see you, uh, not giving a shi- crap, about yourself, it looks bad on me, you know? Because I like you, but if you don’t like you… it feels like you’re putting me down for being your friend.”

Piper: Considering how much she looks up to Sole, it pains her to see their lackluster attempt at taking care of themselves. “Don’t you care?” she shouts, half-angry, half-sad. “You’re- You’re you! God, without you- where would I be? Where would everyone be?” She reaches and clasps Sole by the shoulders. “You matter. Now, start… acting like it, damn it.”

Preston: It’s hard to have high hopes about saving the Commonwealth with someone who gets anxiety whenever expectations are levied on them. “Sole, I…” He sighs, presses his lips together, and starts again. “As a soldier, I don’t think you’re ready to have others rely on you. But as your friend, it doesn’t matter where you are - in your head - or not. You can rely on me.”

Strong: There’s not much one can do or say to Strong to upset him. Recklessness in battle translates to fun, in Super Mutant. He doesn’t understand eating habits or relationship trouble. He’s just happy to stick by Sole’s side, blissful in his ignorance.

X6-88: “Sole.” He catches their hand, just as they’re about to do something stupid. “Being a bodyguard is made rather difficult when your charge  insists on finding danger where there is none.” He releases their hand. “You’re not saving yourself by giving into your fear, by becoming the person you think you are. You’re better than that. If you weren’t, I wouldn’t be here.”

Snog Me Senseless 4

A/N:  So this was supposed to be a one shot about kissing, but then it became so much more.  Thanks to @team-styles for the teamwork between author and reader.  Thanks, as always, to @little-black-dress-24, for the encouragement and for forcing me to have the courage to tell this story.  I am so grateful to @melissas173, @niallandharrymakemestrong, and @emulateharry for their amazing suggestions and ideas.  

For Soap, my tumblr little sis.  I hope this one doesn’t embarrass you too much.

Part 1  Part 2  Part 3

As soon as you hear the sounds of the other boys in the fraternity house stirring, you move to get dressed in your clothes from the night before.  Harry, being the thoughtful boyfriend he has proven himself to be, clears the hallway so that you can use the restroom.  And even though you wrinkle your nose at the smell of the place, and even though you are stunned at the amount of shaved whiskers in the sinks, and even though the room is as close to a garbage dump as you have ever seen; you still glide in with confidence because you know your boyfriend is guarding the entrance.  You take care of your needs quickly, washing your face clean of any makeup and sliding into your clothes from the night before.  You finger-brush your hair, hoping that no one really notices that you’re wearing the same clothes.  Then again, you’ve never done a walk of shame, and you’re strangely excited at the prospect.    

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He was the first person to put his life on hold to be in Coldplay. That’s because he’s brave, he’s Scottish, he’s a true fucking legend. - Chris Martin.


I think it’s always been our goal to make good songs […] That’s always been the important thing for us, to enjoy the music that we’re making, to make good songs, to be good musicians, and to be honest. - Guy Berryman.

How should I even begin this? Thank you for putting your life on hold for Coldplay, thank you for gifting us with amazing basslines every album, and thank you for being a (very fundamental) part of Coldplay. I just want to wish a happy 39th birthday to our president of bass and taste, to the most handsome dark horse ever, to the model in charge of the sales of Coldplay’s calendars, to the one and only Guy Berryman. I hope you’re happy wherever you are and that you’re healthy. Don’t worry, you’re making great songs and we enjoy the music you make along with you. Can’t wait for whatever comes next!

It’s Friday!!! I’ve been introduced to a few new writers this week and gah! I can’t wait for y’all to read ‘em too!! 

If you would like to see your fic/s featured on fanfic friday, please tag me in your stuff. If I don’t like it within 48 hours, it means I didn’t get the notification. All fics that I’m tagged in are included in this post! 

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Witchy Ways To Protect Yourself/Protection Spells

NOTE: Many of these are my own invention, just thought you should know. 

By protection I am referring to spiritual protection and protection from negative energy and bad spells. I am also suggesting the use of these (not in place of actual psychiatric help) for people with anxiety disorders and other disorders that can cause paranoia. Using these for nightmares could also be beneficial.

For these you don’t need ingredients (except two of these of course) so even closeted witches can do them. 

Plant Helpers

-If you want to use something alive for protection then ferns and cactuses might be a good plants to use. Keep in mind this is my own invention but blessing the plant by charging them can help keep bad things away. Put an emotion (a positive one such as peace, love, happiness, etc.) Into the plant. You don’t necessarily have to touch the plant themselves but you can touch the pot they are in. Close your eyes and picture a light of the color of your choice surrounding the plant. Imagine that light going into every part of the plant and then spreading out to touch you and the room. Picture a lock in the middle of the light that locks itself to keep you safe. You can also whisper this to the plant: “Dear little friend, keep me safe unto the end.”

-Imagine your heart. See it beating within your chest. Envision a flower of your choice flowing from it and wrapping you in its roots. Repeat to yourself: “All is well and I am safe, from here to every space. The plant shall hold me safe and sound, to protect me from what’s around.”

Animal Helpers

-Put snake statues at every corner of the room you sleep in. This is what the Ancient Egyptians did to fight off nightmares.

-Picture your heart (it doesn’t have to be anatomically accurate). Envision a glowing ball of light flowing out of it and transforming into an animal that brings you comfort, be it a real or mythical animal and in the color of your choice. See that animal gently leaping from your chest to the floor of the room you are in. Imagine that they are encircling your body in a blanket of light that surrounds all parts of you almost like a mummy. As they tuck the last of the blanket around you, slowly repeat these words: “Friend of joy, friend of light; keep me safe each day and night.”

Misc.

-Imagine a light comes from within your heart or brain and envelopes you in a bubble. Feel the warmth of this bubble around you and see the way it holds you safe and sound. Know that all bad energies will bounce off the bubble and not reach you. 

i. falling in love is a change of pace. it’s being accustomed to your own company and then suddenly letting someone else take charge of your happiness. it’s falling asleep with your foot on the gas pedal. it never ends, it never ends, it never ends. it keeps going even when you beg it to stop.

ii. falling in love with you was like lighting a match and watching it devour my whole house. i didn’t mean for this to happen; believe me, i didn’t. but i was still the one who held the flame.

iii. falling in love doesn’t mean you have to lose yourself in the process. falling in love shouldn’t hurt. pain doesn’t mean it’s real. pain is a stop sign. when you put your hand on a hot burner, your body jerks you away. remember you don’t have to stay.

iv. sometimes you love and love and love and you are not loved in return. don’t let that stop you from loving.

—  four things i learned the day after i watched you walk out the door
Vampire Monsta X

wjsn version: coming soon!

Shownu: 

  • he’s the official leader and “father” to the pack but he’ll also listen to direction from others and take in what they’re saying
  • he doesn’t mind cuddles and hugs, which may seem surprising since his exterior tends to look cold and stoic. but, no, he’s a big cuddly bear
  • when you, new to the pack, have trouble settling in; he goes out of his way to make the pack feel like your home
  • he makes sure the others talk to you and will even bring back blood he knows you’ll like, just to make you smile
  • those caring gestures are how he treats all his friends so you think nothing of them, willing yourself to ignore how he made you feel
  • until a certain incident
  • where an enemy attacked you and suddenly, that big softie was gone and a ferocious leader was in their place. he ripped that vamp to smithereens and nursed you back to health, since he kept snapping at the healer who was supposed to
  • he didn’t trust you in anyone’s hands but his
  • you soon realise why and as he’s changing your bandages one day, you rest your hands atop his; “thank you for caring for me. it’s no wonder I’ve fallen for you, you’re so kind.”
  • he smiles shyly and his cheeks bunch up to his eyes and he laughs a little. but says nothing. there is no need for words. you know he’s yours and you’re his

Originally posted by wonhontology

Wonho: 

  • very focused on each of his tasks. this is why he’s basically second in command and shownu’s right hand man
  • he gets tasked with the harder, more difficult jobs. one being training the newborns to control their thirst
  • out of the three newbies, you were the only one left. the others had gone mad trying to ignore the hunger and went rogue. this is what piqued wonho’s romantic interest in you
  • you had always been his friend before this, or his pupil in a way. but your will to survive, how well you learn, how hard you try to not just mindlessly kill humans; makes him think ;)) hey ;;) what’s good?
  • he was always flirty, but in a friend way, until he realised those feelings. now his sarcasm and humour is always just to make you smile, to hear your laugh
  • he doesn’t waste too much time of the flirting tho, asking you out soon after ;)

Originally posted by wonhontology

Minhyuk: 

  • the opposite to how you imagined a vamp being
  • he’s LOUD and happy and warm and kind. he loves making friends and putting a smile on ppl’s faces, whether they’re a vamp or a human
  • which is why he’s in charge of scouting
  • he can mingle in with the humans no problem, able to fit in with the times despite the fact that he’s older than most of the castles he walks by
  • he spots you in front of one such castle, or more so, he spots the vampire eyeing you up. you were an easy target, not paying attention, and at the edge of the crowd. if you were lured away, no one would notice your absence until it was too late
  • he couldn’t let that happen. you seemed nice, too nice to die like that
  • so he introduces himself with an easy going smile “hi, I’m minhyuk! what’s your name?”
  • a friendship blossoms but he tells you nothing of his real identity, until that vamp resurfaces and starts a war by telling you everything. he’s trying to provoke minhyuk’s pack and doing it through you was a brilliant way
  • minhyuk was furious that you now knew, that you were scared of him. his pack went to war, winning after a few months, and then he could finally return to find you
  • he crept into your room one night, shaking you awake: “please, don’t scream! I won’t hurt you. I lied to keep you safe, since I care so much about you. But I’ll be honest this time, I promise.”
  • if you decide to trust him or not is up to you

Originally posted by j00h0ney

Kihyun: 

  • smol and grumpy but cute
  • snaps at the less experienced newborns and if he doesn’t like the order given to him, he’ll be in a bad mood the entire time he’s doing it
  • one such order was to track down a newborn that was terrorizing a nearby village
  • he stomped into the place, hopping over dead bodies until he found you huddled in a cave, sobbing without any tears
  • then he softened
  • “ah, look, the blood lust is hard at first. but you’ll get better. if you come with me, I can help you”
  • he takes you under his wing and although he’ll still grump and frown at you, his touches are gentle and no matter how many mistakes you make, he’ll help you not make them again
  • the boys like to tease him for that and he’s EXTRA GRUMPY but blushing (if he could) since omg shut up what if y/n hears?!?!?!?!
  • you get to see softer, warmer side to him. he’s like that always but he covers it up since vamps are meant to be tough. not the type to sing lullabies to you when you’re upset he swears he doesn’t do that but u know different

Originally posted by kihqun

Hyungwon: 

  • rubbed you the wrong way at first. he was blunt and not shy about pointing out your mistakes, which made you feel unwanted as a new pack member. that was just his way of looking out for you tho and helping you learn
  • once you get to know him better, you realise he’s such a sweetheart and feelings form
  • but he’s oblivious, continuing to laugh and joke with you, unaware of how you were falling more and more in love
  • you should prob confess asap bc if he figures out you think he’s hot then you’ll never hear the end of it lol
  • and w you being the straight forward one for once, he’s surprised and shy and if he could blush he would
  • “you want to go on a d - date? sure! I hope we find a restaurant that serves blood” lol

Originally posted by kihqun

Jooheon: 

  • a vampire aegyo king
  • over the years in the pack, you’ve worked your way up and if there’s a time when the pack can’t hunt for whatever reason, it’s your job to ration the blood supply
  • and suddenly jooheon is attached to your hip, flashing his dimples and cute voice and asking for seconds. and who could say no to that? :”)
  • at first, the relationship was just him wanting tasty blood but you grow to become friends from it
  • he’s welcoming and warm so even tho he’s kinda using you, it’s not out of badness. and you recognise that, growing fond of the child within that ancient body
  • a time came when you needed a favour from him and he did it w/out hesitation. you know that you can trust him and the bond between you is so strong that shownu often sends you on missions together
  • more time together = stronger feelings
  • but he was too afraid of them not being returned so you two tango around the emotions while EVERYONE else knows how you feel
  • eventually hyungwon sets you up on a date and the rest is history ;)

Originally posted by garisanee

I.M: 

  • was distant and didn’t talk to you much at first. he was the latest to join the pack so you tried your best to make him feel welcomed
  • although he didn’t talk much, he would always listen to you and that felt nice :)
  • eventually, he grew out of his shell and was incredibly funny
  • he would always make you laugh, joking around and doing stupid things like impersonations
  • he would tell you about the time he was from and you him, getting a first hand glimpse of different decades and how times change
  • you often venture off together from the pack, walking through the woods or a crowded city at night, just to talk and be alone. you enjoy each others company and although he settled in well and is friends w everyone, you were still the first person he trusted so there’s a bond there
  • as he realises that his feelings are no longer those of friendship, he would try hard to show that without words
  • he’s always helpful but even more so now, doing anything to please you and make you smile
  • his willingness to help makes you suspicious and you curiously ask jooheon about it. he spills everything right away and maintains that you “interrogated” him but in actual fact he just couldn’t keep the secret in anymore
  • chankyun’s a bit annoyed but only bc he wanted to tell you first, when he felt more confident. but having you show up to his place out of the blue and kiss him was nice too so he can’t complain :)

Originally posted by wonhontology

anonymous asked:

What kind of marriage life would each gom member have? Also what kind of husband and father are they? Headcanons?

Sorry that it’s taking a long time to do these, but I haven’t forgotten about them! -Admin Mari

Akashi Seijuro

  • It would be a pretty comfy and lush lifestyle, but by no means is it something over the top or Kardashian-esque.
  • Since he took over the family business, he’s a really busy man, but he always makes time for you and the kids (if you have kids).
  • Honestly, you two would be a power couple and have a really strong marriage; people are always in awe and are quite envious.
  • Akashi is a caring and gentle husband, but he exudes this silent strength that brings you peace of mind. He’s a complete family man because he knows what it’s like to be lonely, even within your family.
  • He gently yet sternly reprimands the kids when need be. He probably gives them lots of advice since he’s pretty wise, and talks in metaphors sometimes.

Midorima Shintaro

  • Definitely a comfortable and modest life style too. He’s a doctor so you guys are pretty well off, but he’s pretty frugal with money too, unless it’s lucky items.
  • That slight tsundere part of his personality never changes, even after marriage. It’s still easy to make him kind of flustered over certain things, and you probably do it just to tease him.
  • Also a family men and even though he’s busy, he’ll make time for you and the kids. Even if he had a long shift at the hospital, he will never fail to call you.
  • He was pretty clumsy with his kids during their early years because he wasn’t entirely sure how to handle them. He probably secretly read a lot of how-to books.
  • He’s got high expectations for his kids because he always wants best for them. He doesn’t pressure them, but he definitely makes it obvious that he wants them to at least get good grades. (”Don’t be like your uncle Aomine.”)

Kise Ryota

  • You guys would definitely have an exciting marriage life. It’s never a dull moment with you two, whether it be going out on a date every weekend or going on a spontaneous road trip.
  • Probably have an IG account to document your lives and stuff, and there’s a bit of a following on it. You guys take the best pictures tbh.
  • Kise is an attentive, talkative, and caring husband. At times, he can be like a little puppy and it’s hard to resist. 
  • Also, he’s kind of useless when it comes to household chores except for vacuuming and folding socks.
  • Incredibly weak when it comes to his kids and will cave instantly. That’s why the kids go to him first if they want anything because they know he’ll buy/do things for them behind your back. (”Just this once. Don’t tell anyone I bought you this, ok?”)

Aomine Daiki

  • Surprisingly, a normal marriage life. Very relaxing and stable.
  • You both live a modest life, in a nice small home that’s perfect for your family. Safe neighbourhood, good income, etc.
  • Camping trips or going out into the countryside for the weekend is definitely a common thing. 
  • He’s still as lazy as ever tbh, that hasn’t changed at all even after marriage. He takes naps a lot, sleeps in, etc. But he’s a family man too, no doubt about it.
  • He’s a lazy, easygoing dad. He’ll just be like “no, listen to your mother” because let’s be real, you’re the boss. 
  • Teaches his kids basketball and how to catch crayfish and beetles. He’s super active with his kids and would rather teach them these types of things.

Kuroko Tetsuya

  • Very stable, relaxing, and loving marriage life. It’s very normal in the sense that you guys don’t do anything over the top.
  • You guys are a terrific team as a couple and people are really amazed at how you guys work like a well oiled machine.
  • Picnics and walks in the park are a regular occurrence. The both of you belive that the you don’t need to go anywhere far or have huge events all the time to show your loves for each other.
  • Kuroko is the patient, quiet, understanding father. But, he scolds the children gently when need be and they know to listen to him.
  • He loves reading his kids bedtime stories; that’s definitely his thing every night, hehe.

Murasakibara Atsushi

  • Honestly, it’s a pretty normal marriage with Murasakibara too. Nothing too lush, but nothing too over the top and lush.
  • You are the one in charge of the house, hands down. You’re definitely more responsible and Murasakibara is more than happy to pass that onto you. He trusts your judgement when it comes to crucial decisions (and he does give his input too).
  • Going on food adventures is totally a thing and you guys pick places out together, and keep note for the future.
  • Omg, you’re basically raising a house full of children because he’s that type of dad. The kids love him because he’s always in on the pranks and he always buys them snacks.
  • He leaves the scolding to you, but 8/10 times he’s getting scolding along with the kids, ahaha.