no more tags please

ok i’m lowkey trying to follow more general ya lit blogs because my dash is Kind Of Dead, so if u post any of the following please rb and i may check u out?? also if u put what u blog abt in the tags that’d be super helpful!! (and if mutuals could boost this i’d be grateful 💕)

  • simon vs. the homo sapiens agenda
  • six of crows
  • vicious
  • rick riordan books
  • generally anything ya with diverse characters?? so like nina lacour, robin talley, malinda lo… ygm
  • also aftg i guess i like that series whatever
Boyf riend calls the Winchesters AU
  • Dean: Wait, so you called me because there's a computer...in your friend's brain...making him cool?
  • Michael: yes.
  • Sam: We've seen weirder. Besides, isn't it...y'know helping him? I'd have killed to have something like that.
  • Michael: THATS NOT THE POINT! *shifts his glasses on his forehead,holding the bridge of his nose*
  • Dean: Then what is?
  • Michael: He's forgotten about me...become..rude?...it's not good...
  • Sam: Maybe we should at least look into it?
  • Dean: Whatever.

scottieisstressed  asked:

do you know of any good codependency and/or clingy fics? thank you!

you should check everything by fawkesflame123 and greenbergsays (AO3) :D

for more codependency (please check additional tags):

We Were Here All Along by giselleslash

After the events in DC Bucky shows up at Steve’s door. All Steve wants to do is hide him away from the world so when Natasha offers the use of one of her safehouses Steve takes her up on it. Now the two of them are together, and on their own, nothing but two ghosts haunting a cabin in the woods desperately trying to get back to each other.

the best thing i’ll ever do (is holding close to you) by hitlikehammers

Every man has his breaking point. And much as they tried; much as people tended to forget—Steve Rogers is no more than that: a man.

And no man can be expected to last long with his whole heart stopped on ice.

Or: in which Steve reaches the end of his line after trying to live with the consequences of Bucky going back on ice. Because Steve Rogers is only a mortal man. And mortal men have limits as to how much heartbreak they can stand.

Our Endless Numbered Days by hitlikehammers

They promised each other to the end of the line. But when they made that promise, they couldn’t have known it. They couldn’t have dreamt that their line might be infinite. They could never have imagined a world where that end might never come.

It’s an obligation they never could have foreseen, Bucky knows that.

Bucky knows that it’s wrong to hold anyone to that kind of vow.

near mint by liketheroad

Steve Rogers lets his hair down.

Einherjar by thecommodore_squid

But Steve was fine.

Sure, he hadn’t seen Bucky in months, and sometimes he was at the punching bag so long that his skin started to peel off to expose the bones of his fingers, and sometimes he couldn’t find the energy to drag himself out of bed, and sometimes he went weeks without sleeping, and sometimes he thought about throwing himself head-first off the nearest tall structure, but he was fine.

He was absolutely, perfectly, one-hundred percent, fucking fine.

AKA
In which Steve learns how to deal with his shit, and Bucky learns how to stop leaving.

all we have to lay on the line by tigriswolf

There is a difference between justice and vengeance, and Steve’s not digging any graves.

the actual file name of this pic is “Jon but like George Washington Werewolf”

I don’t really like how this turned out but??? the important thing is that I tried instead of giving up, so go me. Dynamic lighting is hard :( but the only way to get better is practice.

But the most important thing is the pun.
*wipes tear* i’m so proud.

“Hey all, this is Tiana Joy of Project Joy, and i’m bringing to you an all new modelling competition television show, named Catwalk. If you think you have what it takes to be on top, then please submit a small portfolio of yourself, a standard headshot, and answer the following questions.”

Name: 
Age: 
Gender Identity: 
Why do you want to be on Catwalk?
Describe your fashion style:
What makes you stand out from other models?
Describe your personality:

“Send these along to lnfinitesimTV for your chance to shine! See you all at the mansion!”

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

I checked the tag but... PLEASE TELL ME MORE ABOUT THE NAMELESS AU BECAUSE AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

I CALLED IT NAMELESS AU BC I DON’T HAVE A SUITABLE NAME YET AHAHHA

Originally it was like a crossover between LWA and Ib (a really nice rpg maker horror game, if you want then check out the game or a Let’s Play to it!)
But then too many things were added to this and by now it’s more or less an AU that was merely inspired by Ib, Steins;Gate, 11.22.63 and Life is Strange (if I count right ahahha)

If you want to read/see more to it, the original posts are here ( @saganthewitch has even contributed to it!):

Friend Art: https://azurathemagician.tumblr.com/post/161443332416/saganthewitch-azurathemagician-said-dianakko

Scenario Post by me: https://azurathemagician.tumblr.com/post/161431214641/ooooookay-the-ib-crossover-got-me-an-idea

LWA x Ib crossover art by me: https://azurathemagician.tumblr.com/post/161429506471/have-you-ever-loved-a-painting-so-much-that-you

(I wish I could shorten these links, but I don’t know how to do that on phone ahahha, probably gonna check out a HTML post to it.)

Tips on dating for when YOU have BPD

I’ve seen so many articles and posts on “how to date someone with BPD”, or worse “warning signs your partner has BPD” or “how to recover from dating someone with BPD”. But I could only find ONE article giving advice to people WITH BPD in relationships. So, I’ve made my own. Here are some tips on maintaining a good relationship when YOU have BPD:

  • Be open. I know you’ll be scared that if you’re too honest, you’ll scare the partner away. But you need to be truthful, or you’ll end up bottling things up, and then they explode.
  • Saying that, sometimes it’s okay not to express your fears. Small fears such as how your partner hasn’t texted back as fast as normal, don’t need to be expressed when they occur. Once you’ve calmed down, take the time to express it. Say “It makes me a bit sad when you don’t reply fast, but I understand that sometimes that happens” This way, your partners understands your fears, but also knows that you understand their limits too. Sometimes our fears are small and go away if we wait, so take a minute to thing logically (if you can).
  • It’s okay to show symptoms! Don’t be mad at yourself if you have a mood swing in front of your partner, it;s not your fault
  • Avoid expressing when you’re splitting. It’s hard not to let every things out when we’re mad and splitting, but try not to if you can. Try and suppress for a little time and express your feelings once you’ve settled. This way you can express them neutrally, without bias, and make sense when you do so.
  • Keep reminders of your partner’s care for you. Screen shot texts and keep them in a folder. When you feel unloved or the person isn’t responding, read through these to remind yourself that they love you
  • Ask your partner to give you small reminders. Ask “every now and again, can you remind me you love me?”. This isn’t a big ask- a small text once a day is not manipulative or needy, and your partner should be ahppy to as this makes you happy
  • Set guidelines. It’s okay to have certain things you get paranoid about. Tell your partner that there are some things you don’t like- e.g. “I don’t like it when you use full stops, it makes me think you’re angry, could you avoid doing so? I understand if you mess up though.” A relationship is about caring for each other and making each other comfortable, so your partner should be ahppy to make small changes to make you happy, just as you’ll make small changes to make them happy!
  • Be prepared to compensate. Sometimes we get paranoid about things that we just have to let happen. We get worried when our partner talks about other people, when they see other people. It’s okay to express this, but we have to learn that we can’t stop our partners doing this. This is hard, and something I struggle with myself, but it’s needed to make our partners feel comfortable. If your partner is out doing something you don’t like, distract yourself. 
  • Find someone else, with BPD is best, to vent to. I have a close friend or 2 who I vent my worries to, and they have BPD as well. They understand and validate my fears, so that I don’t feel needy or mean. This way you can express these fears without controlling and hurting your partner. E.g. I say to my friends “My partner is seeing his ex today. I get that’s his right to but it’s pissing me off and I just wanted to tell someone.” 
  • Remind yourself it’s okay to express yourself. Telling your partner you’re scared they’re going to leave you isn’t automatically abusive or manipulative, it’s true.Tell them you feel suicidal isn’t manipulative, you deserve support and love.
  • When splitting, learn to distance yourself. If you notice you’re splitting for an unfair reason, it’s okay to distance yourself. It’s okay to walk out a room, to stop replying for a minute to compose yourself. This way, you won’t lash out, and you can avoid getting more angry. Inform your partner you are splitting, so they can give you space.
  • Don’t let yourself be invalidated. If your parter says something invalidating, mean, or hurtful, tell them. We get scared that if we tell our partners they hurt us they may leave, but it’s important not to let our partners hurt us.
  • Tell your partner about your BPD- and if not that- about your symptoms. Tell them you split (you sometimes hate people for no reason), tell them you have abandonment fears (get scared they’ll leave you). This way your partner can adapt and help you. Give them tips to help you. e.g. “If I’m scared you’ll leave me, tell me you love me, and tell me why you love me”
  • Learn to say sorry. Sometimes we lash out, sometimes we get irrational and hurt our partners. this may not be our fault, but it is our responsibility. Learn to say “I’m sorry I lashed out”.
  • You deserve someone who’s willing to help you. You deserve someone who is willing to send you little messages, who is willing to validate and support you. Don’t settle for someone who gets mad at you for your mood swings or invalidates your feelings.
    We deserve a kind, loving, supporting relationship as much as anyone else.
Well I didn’t see that coming.
—  Me writing a story written by me.
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