no matter what someone will get hurt

Does this make sense? 03 (m)

Pairing: Yoongi x Reader

Genre: smut, drama, College! Yoongi

Words: 6,521

Summary: You meet the mysterious Yoongi at a house party and no matter how interested you tell yourself that you are, you can’t say no to him. Can you end up changing his playboy ways, or will you just end up getting hurt?

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You spent the next few days in a trance, not seemingly validated enough to feel upset about what you had found out. Instead, you just threw yourself into swatting up for your midterms.

How could you feel upset when you and Yoongi weren’t even together? What did it matter if he fucked someone else, you weren’t in a relationship, you weren’t in love with each other, committed to each other?

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anonymous asked:

Mister Gaster? The past couple of months haven't been good on me. I've been accused of hurting someone and overall feeling like I'm a bad person. I've lost some friends in the process and have been trying so hard to change over time but...I don't feel like that's doing any justice. I know I still have friends that'll back me up no matter what, but I just feel hopeless at times.

MY YOUNG ONE, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS…
THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY, SINCE I DO NOT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED, IS THAT I HOPE THINGS GET RESOLVED…
YOU CARE ABOUT THIS, THAT I CAN TELL. IF YOU DID NOT, IT WOULD NOT HURT YOU SO.
WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. WE MAY OR MAY NOT HURT OTHERS ALONG THE WAY… BUT WHAT MATTERS IS WHAT WE DO ABOUT IT.  WHAT WE DO TO FIX IT, AND TO MAKE UP FOR THE WRONGS WE’VE DONE.
AND BECAUSE THIS IS HURTING YOU, I CAN TELL THAT YOU DID NOT INTEND FOR IT TO HAPPEN. I AM SURE YOU DID NOT WISH TO HURT ANYONE…
AND THAT’S WHAT MATTERS, MY YOUNG ONE. WHAT MATTERS IS THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE UP FOR IT. THAT YOU ARE WORKING TO CHANGE. TO BETTER YOURSELF, AND TO NEVER HAVE IT HAPPEN AGAIN…
BUT YOU ALSO NEED TO CONSIDER YOUR OWN FEELINGS. IF THE PEOPLE WHO THIS HAPPENED WITH DO NOT WISH TO REFORM A FRIENDSHIP, OR REFUSE TO ACCEPT YOU, AFTER KNOWING YOU ARE TRYING TO BETTER YOURSELF… THEN IT IS BEST TO MOVE ON. LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES, AND TRY FOR IT TO NOT HAPPEN AGAIN.
IT IS NOT EASY. IT IS NEVER EASY TO LET GO OF THOSE WHO WE BEFRIEND… BUT IT IS ALSO NOT OKAY TO PUSH ONESELF DOWN BECAUSE OTHERS DO NOT WANT TO STAY.
FRIENDSHIPS COME AND GO… AND WE HAVE TO VALUE THE ONES THAT STAY. THE ONES THAT SEE OUR FLAWS, AND HELP US CHANGE. THE ONES WHO STAY TO HELP US BETTER OURSELVES, AND THE ONES WHO ACCEPT US WITH OUR FLAWS, AND WILL SUPPORT US IN OUR UPS AND DOWNS.
IF A FRIEND CANNOT ACCEPT YOU WITH YOUR FLAWS AND MISTAKES, AND DOES NOT WISH TO HELP YOU FIX SAID MISTAKES, AND HELP YOU OVERCOME YOUR FLAWS… THEN THEY ARE NOT A FRIEND YOU SHOULD WANT TO BE CLOSE TO.
PLEASE STAY AROUND THOSE WHO WILL BE THERE FOR YOU IN THE GOOD AND THE BAD. THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO WILL HELP YOU BECOME THE BEST YOU CAN BE. THOSE WHO WILL ACCEPT YOU AND SUPPORT YOU.

Tourettes awareness

It’s pretty up front and apparent to the point that every social interaction I have is affected by it. Due to the staggering lack of representation (even though it’s fairly common) I would like to compile a short list of what to do and what not to do.
-If someone says they can’t controls noise or movement, it doesn’t matter how annoying it is for you because it’s a hundred times worse for them. Get over it.
-Do not ask us not to curse around your kids. Cursing from tourettes is extremely rare and is uncontrollable.
-Do not ask if there are certain things to avoid when dealing with OCD. Having tourettes means having OCD. Many people are not comfortable with exposing that information because it is very commonly used to hurt us.
-Do ask what they do to deal with OCD. For instance, for example I have to “milk” people’s fingers if i am touched “wrong”. This helps to avoid shock
-Do try to educate others on what tourettes is. That means knowing that tourettes includes a motor tic (movement), a vocal tic (sound), OCD, and usually some kind of learning disability, dislexia, depression, and/or anxiety, but anything other than tics and OCD doesn’t always have to be there. They just usually are.
Thank you

anonymous asked:

I am in tears right now because my heart hurts for him. I cannot imagine how betrayed he feels. Someone he trusted and loved did not help him when he needed help instead she goaded him, mocked him, shamed him and broke him. She will get her comeuppance ten folds. I love Johnny no matter what because he is human. He is not a saint, neither is he perfect. No one is. But kindness, generosity and a good heart cannot be faked. That is why I will Stand with him and show my support always. I love you J

Course he’s not a saint! HE ABUSED CUPBOARD AND FRIDGE. BAD MAN.

No I’m sorry, on a serious note - watching that broken down man trying to avoid his wife because he was upset at something she did, watching her turn on a camera and adjust it perfectly, watching her push, and push, and push until he finally even acknowledged her presence was absolutely horrifying to watch.

I won’t be surprised if he settles because he’s sick of the abuse she’s inflicting on him, now on an incredibly public scale, but God almighty I need him to fight this. I need him to keep his mantra about truth in mind. And I also need him to keep his thoughts about William Saroyan’s prologue in his mind. He said a while ago:

‘Fantastic! Unbelievable! Just … crazy. Beautiful. And perfect. And a kind of—for me, like a bible. A bible because, yeah: ‘The time of your life’—which is tiny—live! And don’t hold anything against others. But if someone comes in and you have to take care of it, you have to take care of it. Take ‘em out.’

I know, I’m hard to love. I know, I’m a horrible person sometimes and I know, I fuck things up a lot. But there will never be a person, who loves you as much as I do.
My love is pure and rare. I don’t love people usually. Hating is so much easier for me or not caring at all, that’s what I do all the time. But I never really love people… Maybe because I’m afraid of getting hurt. I know I can only love too much.
If I love someone, I love everything about them and I love them more than myself.
If I love someone I can’t resist forgiving them, no matter how hard they hurt me.
I love someone until it completely destroys me. I never give up on people I love and I never stop loving someone once I started.
That’s why I’m so afraid of being in love.
I just hope you know, once I have fallen in love with you, I will never stop. I will rather kill myself, loving you, than walk away..


And I know, I’m a complicated person, but I never want to hurt you.
I’m a person, who will argue a lot and even if I know, I’m not right, I will not stop until you agree it’s your fault. I will let you apologize for mistakes, I made. I don’t know why, I’m just a little fucked up. It’s hard for me to show feelings, to change my ways, to apologize, to say thank you and even if I’m jumping up and down on the inside because of joy, I probably won’t show it. I’m a sarcastic asshole, who will probably hurt you sometimes with stupid jokes, but I swear I didn’t mean to.


I probably won’t ever change, but for you I will try.
I will try to drink less, show more of my feelings, show you some love, stop being ignorant, apology for my mistakes and take responsibility instead of just blaming it on you.
It will be hard for me to change and I will need time and every now and then I will fall back into my bad ways… But I just want you to know, I will always love you.

It’s not Jumblr without Jew on Jew hate and mob like mentality. I try to keep low. I try to monitor what I post thinking about what others will think. “Hmmm should I share this? Nah, it will offend people”. Look, a lot of the things I share, it doesn’t mean I agree with. Sometimes I can’t even reply to the blog and I’m sharing it to spread the word. But to be honest it doesn’t matter what you say, you will always piss off someone.

I have this problem where I can’t open up to people, even my own boyfriend because I’m afraid I will hurt their feelings, offend them, and or get judged. Turns out you can’t post anything on Tumblr for the same reasons.

I follow right and left wing Jewish blogs. I love reading all sides. I thought this site was about discussion and learning. No, if someone makes a mistake it’s cut throat. I really hope no one on this site is a judge…

ask-manda-of-the-6  asked:

The Commander's comm pings and suddenly Recruit Manda's panicked voice is heard: "Commander! Commander please, you need to stop Blackwell! He's got a rifle... it's really old... from EXALT. But that doesn't matter. What matters is that he's gonna leave to find someone and his rifle's not calibrated properly!" There's a hitch in the recruit's voice, not unlike a sob. "Please Commander! I'm being sent to AWC. I- I'm too hurt. I can't stop him. It's too dangerous. He's- gonna get himself k-killed."

cuteiplier007  asked:

I know I can't help, and I know your in pain, if your reading this I hope that you understand that I too am suffering, tbh i never actually thought that I would see someone else suffer the way I do,I don't really have any words to make you feel any better because if there were such words I'd tell you, I'm telling you this because is to tell you that your not the only one, and it hurts to see someone else suffer the same, all I'm asking for you is to smile, even if it makes your cry just smile.

If it’s a smile you want boo, It’s a smile you’ll get :)
*holds you tight* Im sorry you’re suffering buddy boo. I wish i could help you too. but no matter what you hold on and you stay strong too ok? I hold your hand and.. yeah. just want to say you got my hand in this. you hang tight, keep your chin up and stay strong.

Depression..

Ever feel like you’ve tried to keep that special someone in your life and no matter what you do they somehow just leave anyway… I’ve always tried to do what I could to to make and keep em happy but it always backfires? I feel like a ghost in this sad ass world. what hurts the most is that I have a big heart and when I first get with someone it’s all good then next thing you know l get abandoned for someone else or something comes up and I end up heart broken… what ever happened to loyalty, trust, respect, honesty, and being faithful? Why does everything have to be based on sex? Or how you look? I just don’t understand anymore on why or how shallow people can be now a days… i honestly don’t even wanna be alive anymore im sick of getting hurt or lied too…seriously just wanna cry… i give up on trying no matter what I do it always always falls back on me

dissolving-worlds  replied to your  post :

I think you nailed it. He wants to be treated…

Jared is quite the hotspur, isn’t he? It doesn’t matter how charitable he is, inciting a lynch mob on a private person is just beyond ethical, no matter what a jerk that bartender was…

Yeah, he clearly crossed a line there. His post was full of false equivalences and made him look like another spoiled diva. Even forgetting the ethical side, I just can’t get over the stupidity of his action here. Like, what exactly was he trying to achieve? Petty revenge? Doesn’t he know that he will get called out for this? I just don’t get how someone who is otherwise intelligent can do such stupid things.

Anyway, look at how the said lynch mob is reacting? They are all “she hurt Jared, she must pay” and its sorta scary. Like, I get not calling Jared out on his post or being silent about the whole issue because you are his die-hard fan or something, but supporting him like this? It’s such a cult mentality with them. I’m just waiting for them to blame this drama on Jensen now. (you know they will)

Little Thinking on Dark Arts, Cursing, and Hexing.

So there are witches and pagans out there who don’t agree with these terms, totally fine. There are witches that this is their specialty, which is also totally fine. But I think there’s a misunderstanding in general on the whole concept of all of these things.

Now, some view this as ‘oh, you can’t curse, that will hurt someone!’, okay, valid viewpoint. Some view this as 'it will come back to you three fold’ or it requires evil spirits to guide you. Now, everyone has a different set of beliefs, so if you believe that, it’s fine.

There are some too that cursing is a way of getting back at abusers for hurting them, there are also some that curse for the sake of preventing negative energies. No matter the reason, the point being is everyone has a reason for why they do what they do, which isn’t anybody else’s business but theirs. Do you have to agree with the other person’s viewpoint? No. But don’t boss each other around over it. Everyone has their own path, the only person you can control is yourself.

But anyways! Back on point, cursing and Hexing and dark arts are all a matter of perspective. As I brought up before, some do it as a matter of revenge or a matter of protection. But that’s just it; for some, cursing is a way of protective act for themselves and their loved ones, especially if they’re still in a bad situation with someone of the physical or spiritual variety. For some, they curse abusers so that they stop getting actively hurt in the same ways. For some, it is sending off a warning towards bad spirits or people so that they can be left alone. Cursing does not have to mean death or serious injury, and cursing can also be done with your own power without the help of evil forces.

And even if they did, that’s their business. If you don’t believe in that or you don’t like or agree with it, don’t associate with that person. If you don’t like the negativity, walk away, you don’t have to be a part of it. It might not be easy sometimes, especially if you care about the person, but if it hurts you that much, you have to do what’s best for yourself and take care of yourself. If it doesn’t work for you and it hurts you or makes you uncomfortable, find a way away from it. You can’t control another person’s practices, that’s just the way it is.

But either way, some see it as protective themselves and loved ones, some see it as getting rid of negativity, some view it as using one magnetic to push away another equally strong magnet of the opposite polarity. To them, that causes good things.

It’s all a matter of perspective. Nothing is the same right or the same wrong for everyone. For some that view is as a wrong, it might be a right. That’s all a matter of opinion for each individual. We must keep that in mind as witches and pagans and to accept that one another is different and has a different path, but that’s how we can come together and learn and build up our own craft, what that means to us as people.

You wanna know what one of my absolute FAVORITE things is
The precious, adorable characters that everyone loves because of how amazing and kind they are
But then that one thing that really, REALLY matters to them gets taken away or someone they care about gets hurt
And they go from an Angel to absolutely FURIOUS
And they will stop at NOTHING to get what they want back
Thats one of my favourite things :3c

anonymous asked:

hey, I really hope you will feel safe and comfortable about yourself and around others. not sure if I'm able to use the right words for it, but it really hurts to see that you can't come out to your parents and the people around you. that shouldn't be the case, anywhere in the world. I truly hope that one day nobody will give a shit about who someone likes. you are just as important and beautiful as anyone else on this planet. stay strong <3 I love and support you, no matter what.

i’m hoping so too ;; 
we’ve made some progress though!! and it’s good to see news stories about cute couples finally getting married and more well-known people coming out and aaaaa !! i know it’s not quite as equal and safe yet, but it’s still good to see it. thank you so much for taking the time to send such a nice message :’)

[ Can we all just take one moment to remember that the fictional portrayal of a character doesn’t carry significance when compared to the actual living breathing feeling PERSON who’s producing the content? 

I’m just saying- if you decide to guilt trip/berate/harass someone based on head canons of a fictional character that doesn’t even exist, if you decide to make people feel like shit because they’re not giving you what you want/getting in the way of your “shipping needs” then you need to re-evaluate your own actions. Also it’s just you and a few select people idk but don’t be so presumptuous enough to speak on behalf of all roleplayers.

Mind you- their headcanons aren’t hurtful to you or anyone else in any way. In fact it’s kind of disgraceful to keep pushing for certain content when someone explicitly states that they are physically uncomfortable with it. So ‘no means no’ and the wellbeing of others doesn’t matter when compared to your own needs huh. ] 

Falling asleep with someone just feels so safe.. It’s like no matter what’s trying to get at you it can’t. If it’s invasive thoughts then you can always roll over and tell them you need to cuddle, or if it’s a monster of any kind you can wake them up and they’ll protect you.. Even on the phone you can hear them breathing, and maybe you can’t quite feel the warmth of their body next to you, but it’s still so grounding; It’s so safe, you know that as long as they’re here, no one can hurt you, and no one can hurt them. You never have to worry about monsters in the dark or the ones outside even the ones in your own head. And you can tell it’s them by the way they breathe or the way they curl themselves up next to you, and that’s all you need to fall asleep comfortably, the sound of their snoring, and the warmth of their body no matter how annoying they both may be sometimes. You know that they’re there and that they’re not leaving and what more could you need?

Long ago in a different world..

@voluptasnoah

He couldn’t see properly. Black spots blocked his vision as dizziness made it impossible for him to focus on someone or something near. The headache hurt a lot. He tried holding on to his head, as if it would release some pressure, but no matter what he did, he couldn’t get rid of it. He didn’t know why it hurt and why only his forehead hurt so much. 

The boy lay on the ground while tears stained his cheeks. Sniffling and wailing softly he couldn’t think of anything other than the pain. What was happening to him? He had been alone for a good year now, the only one willing to give him old bread from time to time being the baker two blocks away. He was an orphan, an eight year old boy who wandered the streets of the busy capital London. 

The pain ebbed away then, suddenly, as he feels a strange certain heaviness on his forehead. He didn’t realize what was happening at all as he felt a certain pressure leave his body, literally, since an almost invisible wave reached the nearest people. He didn’t bother looking at what happened to him, he didn’t know at this point he just made several brains explode from the sheer pressure from his forehead. 

anonymous asked:

I met this guy online on May 27th this year. We have talked non stop since and have even met up twice. He flirts a lot and has even asked me if I would ever become his gf. He always starts a conversation Everyday and has mentioned multiple time that he does not have a gf. Recently however, I found his gf's dayre (through stalking his name) and he's been with her long before he met me. I just wanna know why he would lie to me. Yes I did like him, probably still do, and it hurts so much.

Why? Because he wanted you to become his girl on the side. He had a desire and he wanted it no matter what. Would he have dumped her for you? Not likely. The distance played a key role in this situation.. Since you were far away this decreases the chance of him getting caught. He was planning this from the beginning. You always have to be aware. Just because someone smiles doesn’t mean they have your best interest at heart. Always be cautious.

anonymous asked:

Man I know this person is a minor and it shouldn't piss me off as much as it does but my biggest pet peeve are people who literally go around starting shit and when retaliation happens they get into fucking crytyping and LEA,e,eeVE meA LoNEeE stoP LuaHGing at ME -- like holy fuck don't? that's manipulative as shit?

i know this is old hat and foundtheaphobe is Certified Terrible. but as someone who types a lot faster when having anxiety attacks/episodes. i can relate. but what i can’t stand is people using their mental illness as a scapegoat to get out of owning up to shitty behavior. as someone who is extremely mentally ill, i know that sometimes i may say hurtful things. i don’t fall back on my mental illness as an excuse. i apologize. and try my damned hardest not to do it again, no matter how hard my illnesses may make that.