no matter how skinny you get

anonymous asked:

I'm a 13 year old girl, 5'5, and 180 pounds. I'm very insecure about my weight and no guy has ever asked to be my boyfriend bc I'm a "fatass" I've been wanting to lose weight for a while because I'm tired of crying myself to sleep bc people are bullying me of my weight. I love fattie foods and I try to eat healthy but it's so hard for me to make the healthy choices. I don't know what to do to reach my goal weight of 130 lbs. I know it's a lot but I need your help. What should I do?? ):

I think you should speak to your doctor both about how you’re feeling and regarding how to go about losing some weight in a healthy way.

You have your whole life ahead of you, try not to get too caught up in matters of weight. 

Boys like different things! Not all boys like skinny girls the same way that not all boys like girls carrying some extra weight. 

You’re beautiful too, darling 

anonymous asked:

I like the show but also am angry to writers because they made Izzy a slut.

I respect your opinion, but Izzy is not a slut. If you call someone who is infinitely comfortable with their body, who feels great in whatever clothes they wear, who goes out and gets what she desires because she knows she can–if you call a girl like that a slut, shame on you, my friend.

I’m tired of girls being shamed when it comes to appearance or how they present themselves to others. No matter how big or skinny, how you talk, how you walk, what you wear, and vice versa–you still get criticised and it’s disgraceful. And for a girl to love herself in a society where we are judged to the point where we no longer love ourselves, I find Izzy inspirational.

Momma’s Girl’s a Fucking Monster

Momma used to say nobody would love me if I didn’t love myself.

She used to spend hours drilling into my head that my value is based on how pretty I am and how obedient I can be, telling me that my opinions don’t matter in the world of men.

She used to remind me that men are wolves that prey on the weak, and that the only way to catch a good man was to be a good sheep.

She was full of oxymorons and helpful reminders. “Sit up straight”, “Be more polite”, “Cross your legs”, “Nobody wants a loudmouth opinionated bitch”, “Men like skinny girls, you’re getting fat”.

Momma used to tell me that if I had sex I was giving a part of myself to the other person, and I believed her.

When I got raped I could tell Momma blamed me, just a bit, even though she yelled at my Daddy when he told me I’d wanted it.

When I tried to kill myself Momma told me that no man wants a woman desperate for attention, and that if I went to therapy I was proving to everyone that I was weak.

When I got pregnant she lost all hope on me ever finding a suitable husband, and told me to “do whatever you want”.

So I did.

I stopped living by Momma’s rules. I stopped letting her mold me into a good little girl.

If Momma knew how I used my wit and charm to seduce men she would have a conniption. The men I lure don’t care about politeness, fatness, or crossed legs.

All they care about is how I preform in the bedroom. All I care about is what’s in it for me.

I learned how to have sex without giving away a part of myself, but taking a part of them.

That is a skill Momma never could have taught me. A skill Momma never wanted me to learn.

If Momma knew about what I do for a living, she’d think I was a fucking monster.

anonymous asked:

I'm going to get a lot of crap for this, but I hate being skinny. I'm as flat as a board all around and it sucks. People say how they hate being "fat" well I hate being "skinny" Everything I wear just makes me look so gross I feel so ugly.

I know everyone has issues with their body no matter what size or shape. But you are a beautiful human. Don’t let something like that bring you down okay? I know it’s easier said than done but you are beautiful!

charliemothertrucker asked:

How would you feel about having a skinny feedee to fatten up? They would eat whenever you wanted them too and the D get as big as you want them too

I’ve answered this a couple times so I’m sorry if I sound like a broken record. His starting weight wouldn’t matter! The smaller he is to start, the better. Just means I get to fatten them up even more!

anonymous asked:

i was just about to say something that kinda regards what you just reblogged. i find squish to be the cutest thing on other people, but i think i just look gross n fat and its making me sad :((

People always see cute things that other people have as flaws in themselves because it’s also paired with a separate self insecurity and it’s normal. You don’t hate fat in general you just ask “why do i look so bad with fat and everyone else looks beautiful. How could i possibly be the only person on earth to get the short end of the stick?” Truth of the matter is you’re just as adorable as everyone else. What you feel stems from low self esteem that’s occurring because you just don’t love yourself or respect what you have as much as you want to and that can come from any previous experiences in your life that led you to believe you’re bleh. Such as teasing or skinny idols you look up to or your crushes having a skinny boyfriend/ girlfriend or the media or that one time in PE. Or checkups as doctors offices when you need to be weighed. Little stuff builds and builds and builds

it’s psychological and its what people have been screaming at you since birth. Be thin be thin be thin. i swear you’ll see how beautiful you are the second you allow yourself to. You’ll have to work on it but i know you’re strong enough to get there beautiful bean. All fat people are big beautiful and deserve copious amounts of love

anonymous asked:

I think it's amazing that you promote the ordinary vegan diet (which is what I do I guess) but I hope you realise that you don't get any hate for it as you are naturally skinny so people listen to you when you say 'eat whatever you want as long as its vegan' but if you were naturally a bit chubbier or 'fat' then no one would listen or take you seriously.

when you are skinny people are inclined to listen to anything you have to say no matter what it is. the problem is in our society and the marketing system.
and youd be surprised how much hate i get for promoting “just” vegan food.

you’ll never love me the way I love you you’ll never love me as much through the hard times as you do the good times. I love you unconditionally no matter what we go through but the feelings clearly aren’t mutual. when you love someone you can’t just leave when things get hard and come back when it’s convenient. that’s not how a relationship works. I just wish you loved me like I love you but you never will because I’m not enough for you. I’m not nice enough not cool enough not pretty enough not skinny enough I’m just not enough for you, but apparently she is since you always go back to her. maybe she just has something I don’t.

riverkissed asked:

Evens

Sigh

2. You talked to an ex today, correct? - Nope
4. Is trust a big issue for you? - Ehh, kinda?
6. What are you excited for? - Saturday :3
8. Do you think it’s disgusting when girls get really wasted? - It depends on how they act, but it’s annoying when anyone gets to that point
10. What is the last beverage you had? - Water
12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans? - I don’t really own any other kind
14. What are you going to spend money on next? - Probably food or a Valentine for my mom
16. Do you think you’ll change in the next 3 months? - Of course
18. The last time you felt broken? - Recently
20. Are you starting to realize anything? - That I don’t matter to certain people as much as I though
22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks? - Ehhh? Maybe?
24. What do you want right this second? - Warmer weather pls
26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color? - Lol nope
28. What was the last thing that made you laugh? - My book (The Lunar Chronicles by Marissa Meyer)
30. Does everyone deserve a second chance? - It depends on what they did to screw up the first time
32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do? - I would hope so, since I’m dating the dork
34. Listening to? - Starset
36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is? - Yup
38. Who did you last call? - Ashley
40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed? - Cause I kinda sorta like his stupid face
42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today? - Everyday
44. Do you tan in the nude? - I don’t even tan really, so no
46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night? - Nope
48. Do you sing in the shower? - Sometimes, usually….yes
50. Ever used a bow and arrow? - Yes and I am horrible at it
52. Do you think musicals are cheesy? - God, yes. But they’re great
54. Ever eat a pierogi? - No?? What is this?
56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid? - Rock star lol
58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling? - A few, yeah
60. Wear slippers? - No
62. What do you wear to bed? - Boyfriend’s shirt and usually leggings or yoga pants
64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart? - Target
66. Cheetos Or Fritos? - Both
68. Favorite Taylor Swift song? - “How You Get The Girl”
70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing? - Whatever they’re happy doing, I’m good with. Unless it’s illegal
72. Ever won a spelling bee? - Not that I remember
74. What is your favorite book? - Currently The Lunar Chronicles
76. Regularly burn incense? - Nope
78. Who would you like to see in concert? - Hmm. Taylor Swift, Fall Out Boy, Panic! at the Disco, or Halsey
80. Hot tea or cold tea? - Both? Both. Both are good. 
82. Favorite type of cookie? - Chocolate chip
84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose? - Yes
86. DJ or band, at a wedding? - Eh. Depends on budget
88. Ever have plastic surgery? - No, and don’t plan on it
90. Opinions on sex before marriage? - You do you, as long as no one is getting hurt and you use protection. Safety first, kids
92. Do you want to get married? - Eventually, yes

Rants rants rants

I was just talking with some friends and we got on the topic of this guy I like and one of them said he had “chicken legs” to which everyone laughed. At first I was just like “bruh, I think he’s cute af” but now that I’m thinking about it, thats a not only a rude thing to say, but also super toxic. Like I get that he wasnt there and he probs wont ever hear her actually call him that, but like…
1) Why does it matter if he’s skinny??? Like it’s non of your business??
2) Thats really rude
3) BODY SHAMING!!! What if he struggles with how he looks??? What if he stuffs himself TRYING to gain weight??? You never know!!!

(Also like its kinda hurtful to me bc i think he’s cute and I’m 1000000% fine with her not agreeing, but she doesnt have to insult his body?? Also out of all the guys she likes I’ve never insulted them and I just want the same treatment for the ONE time I actually find someone attainable to be attractive)
((Also, the fact that she has no problem saying that is also kind of upsetting bc now idk what she (or any of those people) actually think of me when they have all said in the past that i look “great” or “nice” to my face but i have no idea what they would say behind my back….))

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What are your biggest health and fitness regrets? What do you wish you had done differently?

Personally, as a skinny fat, I was of the mindset that cardio and restricted eating was how I would get the muscular body of my dreams. I would do an insanity video, followed by a 5 mile run, and then basketball and then not eat anything after. Being unsustainable and just flat out stupid, I would binge eat, and then repeat the whole deal. What sucks is that I could have put in so much work to get so few results. I could have put in half the work and made the progress I am now. Proud to say that reddit fitness educated me about what a healthy lifestyle was really all about, and have been bulking for the last 5 months making great progress. What are your stories?

I was at barnes&nobles the other day and I found a book literally called the book of insults and I was hoping it’d be creative but cudnajuwbskra. there are insults for every characteristic you can make an insult on. it’s divided into segments, for example, skinny insults. each segment has a whole list of insults. like dang you can be the nicest person on the planet and have good hygiene and work hard and treat others the way you want to be treated and people will still try and put you down. try not to get upset if someone tries to insult you bc no matter how hard you try there’s always gonna be people like that.

no matter how you dress it up, the fact remains, that i have been bullied as a child for being fat

by assholes at school, by teachers, by my family, by my parents and by my siblings 

and the fact that i still waver between these 60 pounds on and off is annoying and exhausting, i have 4 months, its ok, breathe in, exhale, i will dominate myself on this matter because its an issue that has run its life span for too long

this body cant stay, it will either die or get skinny