no i was right about you being right

anonymous asked:

hi tink! at the end of 6x20 dean says that they can 'fix it' and cas says 'its not broken'. After this time i still dont know what they were talking about? what they were trying to fix? id love if you could explain thanks for your time <3

Well, it’s their relationship. I mean that not in a shippy way, but, hello, have you seen my blog, lol, but no seriously, it’s their relationship that is broken because the TRUST has been broken. Then of course it’s the fact that Dean wants to fix the fact that Cas is working with Crowley but Cas doesn’t see it as the situation being broken because he sees it as being the right option of how to stop the Apocalypse mark 2 (which he was right about).

Dean sees working with Crowley as a bad thing that needs fixing whereas Cas sees it as the way out of his REAL issue which is Raphael / the Apocalypse.

The subtext is that it is also their relationship and the trust that is broken.

Cas then tries to fix things in 6x22 by appealing to Dean and asking him to stand behind him, citing all the times that he has stood behind DEAN. It’s basically a “I was there for you, will you be there for me” conversation but Dean takes it badly because of the fact that he has put Lisa and Ben in danger, he has been validated in seeing himself as poisonous and leading them to danger and he is terrified of them getting hurt, to the point that he rejects Cas because of it.

And where does that lead? To Cas doing it alone, IT IS NOW BROKEN, and where does that then lead them eventually???

Originally posted by babylaracroft

Originally posted by tinkdw

Yeah. It wasn’t broken, but it became broken because of the lack of trust and support in their relationship due to a lack of communication and understanding and that led to Cas’ death and the Leviathans and Dean’s whole arc of depression and going to purgatory in season 7.

If only they could learn to trust each other, communicate and tell each other the truth and stop trying to protect each other from the hardships of life.

I was talking to @margarittet about this the other day actually, how to have a healthy relationship Dean and Sam have to let go of each other, Dean has to let go of Sam as his child and take on a more equal level relationship with him.

Dean and Cas on the other hand have to come closer, for Cas to stop seeing Dean as his charge, that he is his babysitter (as Dean said in 12x23, so we are getting there too) and for them to also become equally footed. In season 12 it’s quite clear that whenever Dean and Cas work together as equals they SUCCEED (finding Sam in 12x01-02, in 12x07).

However when they try to protect each other rather than working together they end up in a worse predicament, e.g. 12x09 Cas killing Billie and cosmic consequences, 12x10 Dean putting himself in danger with Ishim, 12x12 Cas coming out from behind Dean, pushing him out of the line of danger and ending up impaled by Ramiel. 

Equal relationships for all based on love, trust and support is my endgame happiness jam :)

shoutout to george, fred, and especially ron weasley for realizing that harry was stuck in abusive and unhealthy household and, in spite of the massive trouble they knew they could get in, taking immediate steps to personally see him removed from that environment, something no adult in harry’s life did.

Honestly the Alana hate needs to stop. Leave the girl alone. You’re all awful.

She’s a girl, who in the time of tragedy, see’s that she, and others, are in need of something to grasp on to. One of the main ideas behind the show is people’s want/need to feel included when tragedy strikes.

She was alone. She tried so hard to make friends. She wasn’t rude, but she could be over bearing and that make people not welcome her presence. She looked at Connor and his situation and probably realized that it could have been her. She wears a mask, and it’s a genuinely wonderful mask. She knows that people are judgmental and she attempted to hide her weakness but over does it and it has the opposite effect. She felt alone, but she spoke up, and told people that she would be there for them, even if they weren’t there for her.

Also keep in mind she lost her grandmother not long before the start of the show.

She makes some mistakes, she does something that is honestly so horrible. That letter was private and she should not have shared it, but you CAN NOT criminalize her and stand to the side while Evan does what he does or Jared for that matter. I’m so tired of the women and POC getting criminalized while the white boys become your “cinnamon rolls” or your “sons”.

And trust me. I love Evan, Jared, and Connor just as much as the next person. I call The Sincerely Three my sons on the daily, but I’m also not out there acting like they are innocent while I throw Alana under a steamroller.

Are you fucking kidding me?

I just saw a post telling people that they should be pissed about Koogi’s break

I.am.livid

“We have every right to be pissed”

“She took on this job - do it right”

“Stop treating koogi like she’s special and needs special treatment”

Are you for real?

Like…

This young, young woman creates content for you to drool and gush over weekly and you have the nerve to complain when she needs a rest?

We should be so fucking grateful that we even have Killing Stalking to begin with. 

Not to mention, In japan at least, making manga is an extremely taxing job. They don’t get a break. They literally work all damn day. Aren’t we just fucking lucky that Koogi, in Korea(not speaking for every manhwa artist), has the chance to even have breaks? Not only that, but I’m sure she doesn’t make that much money. So…pumping out this wonderful story, with amazing art, weekly, with little pay, doesn’t deserve a break?

Stop being so damn entitled.

And “treating her like she’s special” - you mean treating her like a human being?

Yeah, the fandom often babies her and worships her feet, but why is that a bad thing? This woman, whom we’re so grateful and appreciative of…who makes this story that we all love and adore…is there something wrong with admiring that?

For fuck sakes, I admire her for being able to even get the manhwa out weekly..

You do have every right to be upset about the hiatus, but pissed? Fuck right off.

Everyone deserves a break. Not to mention, if we never give Koogi a break, how mentally and physically taxing would that be? Working all the time with no break, but you’d have no problem with that, right? Because she’s supposed to be a “professional”, that’s what she signed up for, right?

“I stuck up for her hiatus the first time..but this time..no” Well aren’t you just special. Because she needed a break once, it was all g, no problemo, but a second break???TWO???? No WAY! !!! ! 

It’s.only.one.damn.month

You can’t expect everything to be handed to you on a silver plate without the server needing to rest every now and again.

I’ll say it one more time, stop acting so fucking entitled.

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“It is true that I have the habit of being always right - but I do not boast of it.”
– Hercule Poirot

So Something Happened at Phoenix Con

I’m not usually one to complain, or criticize, or speak out at all really. I’m one of those fans that just quietly sits in the corner and admires from afar, silently praising all the guys for what they do. But every now and again, someone does something that lights me up, and I’m off like a firecracker.

As I’m sure you’ve concluded, that happened recently.

I’m a Jared girl, but I love and respect all the actors equally. Respect being a keyword here. Phoenix con 2017 is going on now. As it so happens, that’s exactly where this incident took place. Yesterday. On the day mostly recognized as Misha’s day of the con.

Let’s all just agree that Misha is an incredible human okay? He’s actual such an incredible human that he borders on being a real life angel. He deserves all the good things in the world. Which is why I am particularly fired up because of what happened.

**Not naming names because this is not to bash anyone, just to draw attention to the fact that these are people with real, human emotions**

I’m going to summarize this the best I can because, honestly, the more I talk about it the angrier I get (and I’m not an angry person, this just really doesn’t sit well with me).

Long story short, there was a con-goer that had been to a con in the past and she had Misha sign her arm. Misha had said that if she still had the autograph on her arm the next time he saw her, he would buy her ice cream. No harm in that part. This is where things start getting…. Uncomfortable.

The girl then decided she was going to take Misha up on that (which, admit it, we would all try to keep Misha’s auto on us as long as we could, bet or not). But, instead of doing any number of options that would be considered safe and acceptable, she peeled off her skin, including the autograph, and preserved it.

Are you still with me? Hold on. I’m not done yet.

At Phoenix Con, she then adhered it back to her skin. Now, I’m not sure if she showed it to him during a panel, or ops, or autos, or where. But when she did show it to him, he told her to take it off.

**this is where I get seriously pissed**

So, she takes it off. AND FUCKING THROWS IT AT HIM.

This girl, who claims to love and respect Misha Collins throws a piece of her dry, dead, decaying skin at him. It lands in his lap and his handler has to come pick it up. She tries to excuse it by saying ‘it’s all in good fun’ and that he’s ‘used to her by now’, but let’s make a few things clear.

It’s all in good fun? I’m sorry, I have never once in my life have gone around throwing preserved skin at people for the fun of it. And I’ve asked some of my friends (the ones that wouldn’t call the cops on me for asking such a question) and they all said the same thing. I don’t care if you’re a celebrity or Mary Jane that lives next door, people don’t like having dead skin thrown on them. Especially a stranger’s skin.

Secondly, no matter how many times we meet them, they really don’t know us. They don’t know if you’ve got any diseases. They might not even recognize you, really. How many times have you seen someone at work over and over and over again but don’t really know them? I have. I’ll admit it. And you know what? It is my job to interact and build report with customers. And I’m not a celebrity – I don’t have millions of people begging for time with me.

I guess I made this post for a few reasons:

1.       Is my anger justified or misplaced? Taking into consideration that, while I’ve never met them (Pitt Con is so far away), I do love them like they’re family

2.       I’m open to opinions.

3.       I want to make a PSA that Jared, Jensen, and Misha – hell EVERYONE – are human. Don’t do something to them that you wouldn’t like having done to you. If you wouldn’t like have dead animals thrust into your hand, don’t make them hold one. If you wouldn’t like someone to throw decaying organs on you, don’t do it to them! You paid money for a ticket to the con. You did not pay money to abuse them.

I know I’m going to probably get hate for this, and to be honest, I really don’t care. If you think I’m right, great. I’m glad someone sees this from where I’m at and finds it just as wrong as I do. If you think I’m wrong then… well, you keep doing whatever you think is right. We’ll agree to disagree.

tl;dr – Don’t throw your decaying, preserved skin at Misha because he’s a human and it’s disgusting on so many levels. Show him respect. Show all of them respect. You know Misha is too kind to say anything about how uncomfortable it makes him, so just save everyone from being awkward, and save the fandom from feeling like we have to apologize for the actions of a single fan.

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LOIS:  Look, Clark, I know that I got a little thorny when you raised the red flag on A.C.
CLARK:  I was just trying to look out for you.
LOIS:  And I appreciate it.  I’ve just never had someone to help guide me through the shark-infested ocean of romance. … Not that I can’t fend for myself.
CLARK:  You know, I think I was wrong about our friend A.C.

Honestly? Jin and Jimin are /adults/. They’re not catty teenage girls going behind each others backs and insulting each other, this was a part of a /game/, where the point is to roast someone basically.

Obviously, no one is trying to say that the statement that Jin made was okay or not uncalled for in any way (it personally made me cringe, and yeah, I’d rather it not have been said). But to criticize those kinds of statements means you should criticize them when they’re being used against anyone, including the /countless/ times they were used against other members i.e. Jin.

Going back to the adult thing, Jin and Jimin work and live together, and have for almost 5+ years. All of the boys are very close, and if there is an issue, I am sure at this point they are mature enough to address it with one another and talk it out.

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Happy 56th Birthday to Michael J. Fox (June 9th, 1961)

“I really love being alive. I love my family and my work. I love the opportunity I have to do things. That’s what happiness is.”

A thieving roommate and a "haunted" Xbox.

Warning:Long, but totally worth it!

During freshman year of college I roomed with my cousin and our friend Dan. The three of us happened to be quite the marijuana enthusiasts and enjoyed smoking…a lot. As great a luxury cannabis is, it wasn’t cheap, especially to three college kids. So naturally, when we wanted to smoke together we’d all chip in an equal sized nug so no one ended up getting short-changed and to obviously save a little cash here and there. As time went on, Dan began to run out of money due to his constant smoking. No money=no weed. So what went from rolling a spliffs everyday suddenly became smashing bowls and scraping resin off the shards of glass and mixing it with tobacco to get high. In our very small and cramped room, I had a mason jar filled with a baggie of my weed hidden in a spot that NO ONE (I thought) knew about. After class one day, I wanted to sit back and enjoy a smoke when I pulled my stash out of the hiding spot to find that the weed was missing. Instantly, I knew Dan did the dirty deed. My cousin wasn’t struggling too bad financially at the time so it couldn’t have been him. But before I pointed any fingers, I decided to wait it out and be 100% positive.

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good morning, it’s me: Bad Cat

Soooo….i was thinking about Wells today. And the line that always sticks with me is when he said: “I made a choice. If she hates me for the rest of my life, I made the right choice.”  And I couldn’t help but think of when Lexa made the hard decision to have Clarke brought to Polis to protect her. Not once had Lexa ever forced Clarke to do anything, that is why that decision was so hard for her. She knew she was the last person Clarke ever wanted to see, but in order to protect her from Nia…she had to make that choice.  

Clarke was being hunted, and not even the Skaikru could protect her if they found her because Lexa couldn’t protect the Skaikru. Nia wasn’t going to stop until Wanheda was dead and ‘take her power’. “I had to ensure Wanheda didn’t fall into the hands of the Ice Queen” Indra in 3x02: “If the Ice Queen gets her first, she’ll be dead, and we’ll be at war” This was more than just saving Clarke… it was saving Clarke, her people, and the grounders from going to war where thousands of lives would be lost. 

“I went to all that ‘trouble’ to save you [and if you hate me for the rest of your life…I made the right choice].”

Arophobic Microaggressions: On the Ace Community and Should-Be Allies

Just some technical things, before I start talking: The bulk of the post will be under the cut, and you can find a version in Google Docs here. Non a-specs need to keep comments in the tags or to themselves, as this is an intracommunity issue, and REGs need to keep their hands off: you are not welcome in my community nor on my posts. Please be aware that I do respond to replies, publicly, especially if they’re hateful or in disagreement. If you want a private conversation, message me. If you’d like to read more, check out the Google Doc linked above for recommended reading or my aromanticism page. Thank you to @aro-allo-positivity for his help in editing this post.

In the past couple years, we’ve talked a lot about ace issues - from oppression to validation, and from discussion to action. Activists have campaigned to be included in LGBTQIANP+ organizations and succeeded in being recognized to various degrees. As an aroace woman, I’m very happy to see issues I face being talked about, and action being taken to bring awareness to my orientation. Interacting with acespec bloggers also means I see the problems, and arophobia is a pervasive problem in acespec communities. I’ve talked about it in the past, a bit, but only at surface level. The last post I made about arophobia got 1,700ish notes, and is still getting reblogged today. After making that post, I started noticing more and more arophobia, coming from even large acespec bloggers. I decided to write this post to help people notice arophobic microagressions (the macroaggressions are pretty obvious, generally) and be better allies to the aro community. 

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What If I Kissed You

Characters: Jensen Ackles, Y/N Y/L/N, Misha Collins, Jared Padalecki, Brianna Buckmaster  

Pairing: Jensen x Reader

Warnings: A few adultish thoughts, Drunkish!Jensen, tipsy!reader, not much. Mostly fluff.      

Word Count: 1700ish

A/N: So I have been writing a lot of angst lately for my series and for and for angst day (yep I am gonna make y’all cry that day). So I kinda needed a change of pace. When I heard Temecula Road’s What if I Kissed You this one shot popped into my mind.

Thanks a billion to the bestest little sister in the world @mysupernaturalfics for betaing this one for me

Note hate against Danneel - I love her. For the purpose of this fic Jensen is single. 

Being around Y/N on set was bad enough, but tonight it was down right impossible for Jensen to focus on anything else but her. It was a beautiful night in Rome. All his friends, well work friends, were there. Misha and Jared were laughing and talking about something right next to him, but Jensen didn’t pay attention to them at all.

His eyes were solely fixated on Y/N and the way she was laughing and dancing with Brianna. Hell, he couldn’t even hear the music over the sound of her bell like laughter ringing in his ears. He was drunk and not only on the “apple juice”  he had been drinking all day, but on her. She filled his senses and Jensen allowed his mind to wander as he watched how the short summer dress she was wearing clung to her curves in all the right places. Her tanned skin was almost shining in the lights of the club and her hair was swaying with her every movement. She looked happy and free.

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a cog in the machine pt. 2

pairing: yoongi x reader x jimin

genre: robot!jimin, assassin!au, mafia!au, angst, smut

word count: 6,259

warnings: depictions of violence, language, substance abuse

Originally posted by the-rap-man

a cog in the machine:  a small or insignificant member of a larger organization or system

part 1 part 2

You felt their eyes everywhere they went. They stared at you in the hallway. They stared at you through mirrors in the training gym. You hated feeling like it was you vs them. Your new partnership deemed, unbalance and undeserved.

The week’s following Jimin’s debut in the training gym left you feeling more isolated than you did when you first got to the facility. At least then you didn’t know what it was like to have everyone hate you. You had taken to sitting in the very back corner of the cafeteria, in the very last row, in the very last seat. You turned your back on the table where you used to sit, not wanting to see the smiles spread across your former friend’s faces as they teased each other, stealing more than one bit of each other’s plates.

But things were different now, you had a new partner. A new not-so-human partner. Jimin’s true identity hidden beneath secrets and layers of real looking skin. Sometimes, you would watch the way his chest would pant in the training gym and wonder how a body made of metal could be so real. You would shiver at the sight of his reddened cheeks, only imagining what was going on underneath.

Jimin slammed his tray of food on the cafeteria table, but you didn’t bother to look up at your partner as he claimed the empty seat in front of you.

“When are you going to stop acting like a child?” he asked as he moved what was supposed to be mashed potatoes across his plate. Hoping that distractions hid the fact that he didn’t actually need to eat to sustain himself.

“Whenever I get new partner. An actual partner, you know with a heartbeat,” you quipped, actually shoveling a large mound of greens past your lips.

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VIP Package - Drummer!Dylan O’Brien

Author: @mf-despair-queen

Characters: Drummer!Dylan O’Brien/Reader

Word Count: 10,128

Warnings: NSFW, 18+, Oral (female receiving), Multiple Orgasm, Public Fingering, Spanking, Sneaking Around to Fuck

Notes: Drummer Dylan does things to me y’all. Send help. Special thanks to @writing-obrien because she was a sweet pea and proofread this for me while I am trying not to fall asleep. Because we all know not to let me proofread when I’m sleepy. 

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“On July 22, 1991, I called Jeff’s apartment several times. My mother had called to tell me that she has been unable to reach him, and that he had missed a promised visit to her house. The next morning, July 23, 1991, I called Jeff’s apartment at about nine in the morning. The phone rang several times before someone finally answered it. At the other end I heard a man’s voice, but it wasn’t Jeff’s.

“Is Jeff there?” I asked.

Jeffrey Dahmer? the man asked.

“That’s right.”

“No, he’s not here right now,” the man said in a guarded voice, as if he was being cautious about something.

“Where is Jeff?” I asked.

“He’s not here,” the man repeated, still speaking very guardedly. “Who is this?”

“I’m Jeff’s father.”

I could hear something catch in his breath.

“You’re Jeffrey Dahmer’s father?”

“Yes,” I told him. “Where is Jeff?”

“Well, your son’s not here right now.”

“Where is he?”

“Someone will call you, Mr. Dahmer.”

“Call me? What about?”

“A detective will call you.”

“A detective?” I repeated, thinking that Jeff had probably gotten into trouble again, perhaps because he was drunk, or worse, that he had molested yet another child.

“What are you talking about?” I asked.

It was then that the man on the other end of the line finally told me who he was, that he was a member of the Milwaukee Police Department. He hesitated just an instant, then let the hammer fall. “We’re investigating a homicide, Mr. Dahmer,” he said.

“A homicide?” I asked, and suddenly I thought that I was about to receive what I felt at that time must surely be the worst news a parent could ever receive, that someone had murdered his child.

“Homicide?” I repeated. “You mean Jeff’s been—“

“No, not Jeff,” the man told me quickly, my son’s name sounding like something dirty he did not want on his tongue.Jeff is alive and well.”

Lionel Dahmer, A Father’s story

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Parallel Smiles ♥

BTS reacting to ‘Daddy’

@jiminbegin asked: How would BTS react to their s/o accidentally calling them daddy during sex?

Note: this is my opinion and I didn’t want to say they like it if I don’t honestly think so… Since, obviously, we can’t know for sure, all I can do is speculate and below you’ll read my personal opinion on how I think they would react.

Another thing: I don’t speak Korean, but from what I’ve gathered about the culture and social interactions there, I doubt that a ‘Daddy’ kink is a thing there.
For the sake of this reaction, I’m assuming they know about it (and it’s ‘Daddy’ in English, not like the Korean word for dad)


Jin

I honestly don’t think he’d be into it.
Like, I feel he just wouldn’t really understand it and wouldn’t see why you would want to call him ‘Daddy’ in bed. I feel like Jin is kind of a domestic person and it would just confuse him and make him think of children… (not the best thing to think about during sex)

In the moment I feel like he would be confused. “Daddy? What?” and you’d be able to tell he didn’t like it. If you kept saying it, I feel like he would you stop calling him that.

(edit: It could also be the opposite though, that exactly the inappropriateness of it turn him on and he’d love it, we can never be sure)



Rapmon

I think he would be all like ‘uhh what?’ and giggle a little in the moment, but he wouldn’t mind being called daddy at all, it was just unexpected.

I don’t think he would want you to always call him Daddy, but he’d definitely enjoy the occasional ‘Daddy roleplay’ and reeally get into it whenever you do it.



Suga

“…Come again?”
“uhh ”
“no, I mean it - say it again … I liked it”

Yoongi? I think he’d be into it. While I think he can be secretly awkward, I feel like he would definitely like being called daddy. I feel like he longs for more control and since having you submit to him in that way would give him just that it would turn him on a lot.

(However, I feel like he would have his days where he doesn’t want to be ‘Daddy’, but I think that’s understandable? If he wasn’t feeling great or just needed some sort of reassurance I think he’d rather just be yoongi to you and be more like intimate in a way?)



J-Hope

In all honestly, I don’t think he would be into it…

In the moment I feel like it would be more irritating to him than a turn on 
(not like he’d stop everything because of it though.)

I don’t see him being judgemental about you being into it or anything, he’d just not like being ‘Daddy’ himself?
However, being the sweetheart that he is, I think he would still occasionally play along if you really really wanted it, or on special occasions.

(Then again, especially with Hobi… we’ll never know for sure what he likes 👀)



V

Oh, Tae… our adventurous little pup. 

I can definitely see him be into it.
I feel like he’d just grin at the new name at first but not say anything, then when you call him by his name again he’d be like “what happened to ‘daddy’? I thought I’m daddy now!”

I think he’s just as playful in bed as is normally and therefore enjoy trying out different things and explore everything there is to explore. He’d definitely bring up ‘daddy’ mutiple times again but he’d also mess around with other things.



Jimin

For some reason it was really hard for me to do Jimin’s reaction to this BUT in the end he’s another member I don’t think would be a massive fan of ‘Daddy’.

While personally I see him as generally more submissive, I do think he likes to switch it up so with him it would depend on th mood. I just don’t think he would be a huge fan of being called ‘daddy’ but as long as you praise him enough and he starts associating ‘Daddy’ with you getting turned on way more, he might change his mind about it and get into it? 👀

In the moment I think he’d be like “whaa-”, blush and giggle a little, not sure how to react to it then and there.



Jungkook

*Processing* 

Honestly though, I feel like our maknae would just kinda ignore it in the moment, a bit confused, a bit Jungshook for a second, not sure what do with it.
However, I think he’d ask you about it later and then really want to try it out with you.

I feel like I said this a lot, but again I feel like he’d sometimes like it, depending on the context, but otherwise prefer his own name and keep trying out new things, finding what you both like together and integrating it all into your sex life.