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Dating Harry Would Include - 36

After a fight:

- Checking his phone every 10 seconds to see if you answered his numerous messages asking where you’re gone
- Walking through the whole house nervous, remembering and regretting all the things he told you
- Leaving lot of vocal messages asking you to come back home because he doesn’t want you to stay outside alone
- His body tensing when he hears the front door slamming, letting him know that you are back
- Walking quickly through the house to reach the living room and finding you
- His smile turning into a sad frown when you turn your head and ignore him
- A touch of sadness in his voice when he calls your name to make you look at him
- Coming site next to you, taking care not to touch you for the moment to not rush you
- Playing with his rings in looking at you time to time, waiting for a sign from you
- Touching your thigh with the back of his hand to tests your mood, your name escaping his lips in a whisper
- His deep sigh when you still refusing to look at him and turn your head  to the opposite side
- Resting his head on the back of the couch in looking at your back “The silent treatment?”
- Coming closer and caressing the back of your arm with his fingers in kissing your shoulder blade
- “Please, talk to me! You know how much I hate when you ignore me … My Love?”
- Resting his forehead on your back  begging you to answer him, even just a word
- Coming crouching in front of you, his hands holding your thighs, pulling on them to make you facing him
- His arms wrapped around your calves, leaving kisses on your knees and thighs
- The shy smile he can’t hide when you finally turn toward  him
- Looking at you during long minutes, his hands caressing your calves while waiting for you to talk
- Pressing his chest against your knees trying to catch your eyes when you look down
- The softness in his voice when you two finally made eye contact “Hi…”
- Taking your hand in his to kiss your knuckles one by one before pressing a kiss into your palm a frown in his forehead
- His voice cracking when he apologizes for making you cry during the fight
- Making him looking up to you in taking his face in your hands while leaning toward him
- Getting on his knees, his hands holding your hips to come closer to you
- Closing his eyes with a sigh of relief when you lay your forehead on his
- His long fingers sliding on your neck while he rubs your cheek with his thumb, a smile appearing on his lips
- Kissing you softly, letting his lips on the corner of your mouth while apologizing once again for what happened …

Cool Places to Stop on a Roadtrip
  • Local Diners
  • Flea Markets
  • Museums (many university ones are free)
  • Movie Theaters/Drive-ins
  • Pet Stores
  • Animal Shelters
  • Malls
  • Hiking Trails
  • Art Galleries
  • Fairs
  • Carnivals
  • Zoos
  • Bookstores
  • Garage Sales
  • Arcades
  • Trampoline Parks
  • City Parks
  • Somewhere to see the sunset
  • Aquariums
  • Petting Zoos
  • Farmer’s Markets
  • Sporting Events
  • Thrift Stores
  • Ice Cream Parlors
  • Frozen Yogurt Shops
  • Gift Shops


Ehh. Here goes. I don’t even know how long it’s been since I’ve REALLY blogged because I took a break from the bowl. I was already dull and not really into it because I was working myself hard. This particular date broke me. Ive just been exhausted y'all. To THEE worst date ive had since entering the bowl. (And I’m officially one now)

Kenneth (his real name..I did my research) is a very MANIPULATIVE and DANGEROUS man. Very dangerous ladies. He came to me on tinder looking for a SB right off the bat. It sounded too good to be true and I knew it was. I didn’t want to write this post and its extremely late but Im going to summerize because itd be waaaay too long and embarrassing honestly.

First and foremost for the one week i talked to Kenneth, he used the lure of money to threaten me get me to play his “game” his way. However, I could give a rats ass about a photo of money. Its not real money until its in my purse. The following happened the night we met for dinner…

Before meeting up, he asked what I was wearing. Assuming he wanted to match me or was “unaware” of the dress code I told him. He then asked me what panties I was wearing. When I wouldn’t tell him he sent me the pic of the money again and told me that not telling him would be dangerous. I ignored him but this was the first BIG red flag.

He blew my phone up with calls/texts the entire time I was getting ready and omw to the restaurant. I wasn’t even late…

He refused to eat and lectured/chastised me the entire night for having one glass of wine and for eating the bread at the table. He kept repeating about how alcohol is bad, how I’m going to be drunk, how I shouldn’t drive, that I couldn’t order anymore and to never drink while I’m out with him again.

A few gentlemen came to respectfully compliment me about how beautiful I was and how lucky he was to have me as a date. He then proceeded to tell me very loudly and explicitly in this QUIET FIVE STAR restaurant about how it turned him on knowing everyone in the restaurant wanted to fuck me. Seriously. Only 3 gentleman came to our table.. then he explained in great detail his fantasy of watching me have sex with older white men because he has a thing for interracial sex b/w OLD white men and YOUNG black girls.

Thoughout the dinner I noticed his flash constantly going off on his phone. I thought it was his text message alerts. I was annoyed but ignored it. Then after the 6/7th time he interrupted me mid sentence to again shout at our table “DAMMIT!”. I asked was he ok and this cockeyed fucker tells me that this entire time he’s been trying to take pictures up my dress but he couldn’t see anything because my legs were crossed and he wanted to see if I really had on panties. I didn’t even try to hide my disgust when I told him I was uncomfortable.

At this point I wanted to go home but he convinced me to go to a strip club. He offered me the requested compensation for my travels when we arrived. It was $20. I drove a truck………also it turned out to be a gay male strip club. The night was getting even more hellish by the minute. As we walk inside he hands me a single crumpled dollar and tells me to hand it to a stripper. I refused and told him it was degrading to both me and the stripper to entertain a single bill. He handed me another and literally pushed me towards the stage. I handed the stripper the money and got slapped in the face with his dick 😑😑😂😂😂😂. My pores hollered!

As i walked back he handed me a 20 and whispered about how that turned him on and how he had already masturbated to me several times that day and how he’ll get off on this too and how he hasn’t missed a single day of masturbating since HS. SOMEONE INSERT THAT NICKI MINAJ MEME OF MEEK WHISPERING IN HER EAR CAUSE THAT’S HOW I FELT!

A stripper walks up to me and asks if I want a dance. I ask Kenneth if it’s fine and he’s more for it than I am so I agree. As the stripper is dancing Kenneth is asking me if I’ll show the stripper was panties i have on. The stripper is grinding in between my legs and Kenneth is pulling up my dress. Im pulling my dress dwn and this struggle continues to go on as the stripper puts his hands between my legs. I move his hands. So I’m trying to keep my dress down and keep the strippers hands from between my legs. The stripper has me PENT down on three chair i can’t move or really breathe because his chest is on my face. Kenneth picks up my foot and is sucking my toes. IN THE STRIP CLUB!! Im trying to pull my leg away but he’s got a good grip, plus I’m trying to move the stripper to catch my breath and keep my dress down. The stripper must think he’s doing a good job because he’s moaning in my ear and all that extra shit. Finally he lets up to ducking kiss me on the mouth. That’s IT for me! I push him and tell him I’m done. I finally snatch my foot from Kenneth. Everybody is looking shocked like I wasn’t basically just gang banged in the fucking club. Kenneth gets mad because the stripper kissed me and because he was moaning in my ear. He had to be forced to pay the stripper and he stormed out. I followed behind him and he yells at me for 15 mins i kid you not about how I’m rude and disrespectful. How we were suppose to be exclusive and how I was plotting to meet the stripper at 2:30 am to fuck and his feelings were hurt. Y'all I’ve never been so blown in my fucking life! I cut him off at the 15 min mark and told him that if thinks I’m give his strange ass one more min of my time that he’s delusional.

On my way home he blew my phone up again with 5 calls and fucking TWENTY TWO messages ( broken up thoughout the night and next morning of course/ longest message in butt hurt POT History) and sent me yet ANOTHER photo of the SAME money with my name, number and the date and was basically pleading, bargaining, then threatening me then finally say “this was in my trunk. I was gonna give it to you tonight. You blew it. Continue to kiss and fool around with whoever you was before me”. Then he sent me one of those “Have a blessed day” gif with the bible 😂😂😂😂😂. I simply told him that I’m on to him and that I’d make sure he never finds another SB again.

I’ve never included a number in a blacklist but if you’re open to it, PLEASE call/ text this number to let him know he’s a piece of shit or whatever it is that you think of him.

DON’T JUST LIKE. REBLOG TO HELP YOUR SUGAR SISTERS!! I didn’t even want to write this post. It’s embarrassing to take such an L after a full yr in the bowl but it happens. I shared because I want to help so help me spread the word far. REBLOG!

kirk/spock fake relationship recs

Oh, you know how it is, just re-reading a bunch of Kirk/Spock fake relationship fics. Here are my favorites, all AOS, in decreasing order of how much fake relationship there is:

The Marrying Kind, by spicyshimmy | Mature | 42,318 words | While on a diplomatic mission to Delta IV, Jim flirts too much; Spock discovers the only logical solution to avoid the complications of jealousy between ambassadors is to allow the inference that Jim is already spoken for.

a sequence that you never learned, by annataylor | Explicit | 64,669 words | When Jim gets it in his head to adopt an eight year old Vulcan, Spock presents a logical solution to the issue of Jim’s humanity: marriage to a Vulcan citizen.

Dynamic, by coffee666 | Explicit | 16,970 words | Jim is tired of the crew assuming he and Spock don’t work well together just because they happen to disagree a lot. To prove them wrong, Jim convinces Spock they should start dating. Playing up their romantic relationship in front of the crew for spite should be fun. The hard part is that they’re both secretly crushing on each other.

When Light Shines, by awarrington and blue_jack | Explicit | 15,677 words | Kirk and Spock are negotiating Federation entry with the Athosian government while the Enterprise is away on delivery duties, when one misunderstanding leads to another.

the warp and weft of your being, by tardigradeschool | Teen | 7,697 words | When getting legally married to Spock is the only way to keep him on the ship, Jim is more than willing to do so. (In fact, upon reflection, it turns out that there are very few things he wouldn’t do for Spock.)

Challis, by yeaka | Teen | 3,968 words | Spock weasels into Jim’s mission via Mrennenimus Prime’s strange traditions.

the comfort you drew (from the light of the stars), by tardigradeschool | Teen | 5,331 words | When Jim agreed to pretend to be in a relationship with Spock, he didn’t realize exactly what he was signing up for. (See: incompetent aliens and broken bones. It’s not great, but Spock is.)

Not In Love Song, by waldorph | Explicit | 2,779 words | The five times Spock wasn’t in love, and the one time he couldn’t deny it anymore.

Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours), by kianspo | Teen | 10,927 words | In which Spock contemplates the laws of attraction and realizes what a slippery slope that is only after he has already fallen. There’s no help for him now.

Dating Harry Would Include - 38

Sullen mood:

- Frowning when you don’t react when he calls you and refuses to join him on couch for cuddles  
- Looking at you with a pout trying to figure out what made you this sullen today
- Calling your name until you react and turn toward him, blowing you a kiss when you look at him “Don’t roll your eyes to me Love! I see you trying not to smile!”
- Opening his arms for you, waiting for you to join him on couch
- Giving you begging eyes when you look at him for long seconds without moving
- “I’m will wait until you come sit with me! You know I will do it!” A smile appearing on his face  when you walk toward him
- Catching your hand to make you sit on his thigh when you are close enough “ What a stubborn little one you can be when you’re in your grumpy mood!”
- Rubbing his chest in giggling after you gave him a nudge “Why so much violence? You’re such a susceptible kitten!”
- His hand resting on the end of your back while his other one caress your knee
- Pushing on your arm with his nose, pressing kissses everywhere he can reach “But I can’t help of loving you!”
- Squeezing your body against his chest “My grumpy Little Queen refuses to talk to me but can she at least kiss me back?”
- Giving you pouty lips, his chin resting on your arm waiting to be kissed by you
- Pulling you closer to him, trying to reach your cheek whispering “I won’t give up so better kiss me!”
- His smile when you try to hide your smile when you bend down toward him and peck his lips
- Taking your chin and make you bend again toward him “Give me a real kiss … ”
- Laying his palm over your cheek, kissing you slowly, his tongue playing with the edge of your upper lip
- Nibbling on your lips with a smile, his hand sliding on your neck to keep you close
- His arm circling your waist when you kiss him back, his free hand sliding up from your knee to your hip
- Looking at you with a smile when you protest with a whimper after he broke the kiss
- His thumb passing gently over your pouty lips “You will have more if you smile to me, okay?”
- His pleased face when you try to not smile but end with a wide smile on your face “Here is the smile I love to see on your pretty lips!”
- Taking your arm to wrap it around his shoulder, closing his eyes when you start to play with his hair
- His lips brushing over your cheek, biting gently on your jaw while his hand slide under your shirt to caress the skin of your hip
- Playing absently with your fingers, interlacing his with yours for put them on his chest, his thumb stroking the back of your hand
- Making the back of his ringed fingers slides over the warm skin of your back, holding you closer when your arch your back
- His large hands holding your waist to make you sit across his legs, your body facing him
- Taking his face in between your hands to rest your forehead over his while his hands  slowly caress your thighs
- Kissing your palm with open mouth kisses, trying to bite you gently to make you giggle
- Laying his head on the back of the couch when you play with his hair, making him moan satisfied with your touches
- Kissing his chin and cheek multiples times before reaching his ear and thanking him for cheer you up with his sweet attentions

37 little cute date ideas

• Share a coffee with me at a coffee shop
• Laugh with me at the movie theatre
• Hold my hand or hug me when I jump during a scary movie
• Go to a party with me
• Have fun eating with me at a cheesy diner, like Steak and Shake
• Take a drive around town with me, listening to music
• Cuddle in bed with me while we watch some show on Netflix
• Play a round of pool with me
• Swim with me
• Order take out with me
• Go bowling with me
• Make out with me while we listen to music
• Play a video game with me
• Go hiking with me
• Sit in a car and listen to music while just talking about our lives
• Lay a blanket out at night and watch the stars together
• Lay a blanket out at day and enjoy a picnic together
• Go jogging together
• Go ice skating together
• Go rollerblading together
• Just lay in bed and nap with me
• Let me lay on your lap while you play a sports game or a shooting game
• Go to dinner with our friends
• Or have a romantic dinner out with just me
• Make dinner with me!
• Brunch?
• Play some board games together
• Park by the lake and watch the sunset
• Watch the sunset and hang out with me so long that we get to watch the sunrise together too
• Make a list of every possible place to make out and then cross them all off as we go
• Snapchat each other our ugliest photos from right next to each other
• Go dancing in the rain with me
• Make each other breakfast in bed
• Go to the fair with me
• Browse the stores in the mall or any other stores nearby
• Take me to a library and watch me freak out over so many books
• Tell me your whole life story anywhere you want, as long as you want

an incomplete list of dating red flags

*note* these are a list of my PERSONAL red flags, if they don’t apply to you cool, but I don’t need to hear about it mmkay? :D

  • rude to waitstaff, ushers, bartenders, etc./ “it’s their job, they get paid to…”
  • doesn’t tip/makes fun of you for trying to tip
  • calls all exes “crazy” or “bitches”
  • refers to women as “females”
  • only talks about self/no questions about you
  • “women never go for ‘nice guys,’ women only want jerks”
  • “i need a traditional woman/woman who will cook for me”
  • orders for you without asking what you want
  • comments negatively about your appetite (“are you sure you don’t want a salad?,” “wow, you sure eat a lot”)
  • says “blacks” instead of Black people
  • says “gays” instead of gay people
  • uses “gay” as an insult/replacement for “stupid” or “uncool”
  • describes EVERYONE in their stories by their race (regardless of context)
  • is non-Black and says N word
  • “ALL lives matter”
  • corrects you on everything, even when they don’t know what they’re talking about
  • turns everything into sexual innuendo
  • puts down other women, even to compliment you (“you aren’t like OTHER women,” etc.)
  • can’t take “no” for an answer (not limited to sex)
  • no (real, platonic) female friends/claims women & men can’t be friends
  • refers to any women as sluts
  • rape jokes
  • *preaches* about personal lifestyle (vegan, going green, working out, etc.)
  • negging
  • general statements about women - “i hate when women [blank],” “all women like [blank],” “all women are [blank]”
  • negative opinions on people with mental illness
  • mentions (brags) where they went to school more than once
  • casually uses slurs like tr*nny, d*ke, q*eer, f*g, g*psy, etc. (ridicules you if you try to tell them why using these slurs are wrong)
  • fave book is “Catcher in the Rye,” “Lolita,” or anything by Ayn Rand

hey friends! especially sex worker friends, especially sex worker friends in portland:

if someone from a bad date list contacts you and you do not want to see them, PLEASE DO NOT SAY THAT IT IS BECAUSE YOU SAW THEM ON A BAD DATE LIST!

this puts the person who made the report at risk (or anyone he may THINK made the report) and it isn’t exactly cool to do to me as people have been successfully sued for libel simply for publicising that a convicted rapist was a rapist.

For this to work bad dates and black lists need to be shared only between us and NOT with clients.

if you are the person who recently told a client he was blacklisted in working it, please know that you did me and the other worker a big disservice. try and rectify it if you can, but also PLEASE NEVER DO THIS AGAIN.

Dating Harry Would Include - 37

Him being protective:

- Calling you to look up at the shirt he was looking at and frowning when he realises you’re not next to him anymore
- Searching after you in the store to find where you gone when he wasn’t paying attention
- His frown disappearing when he finally found you watching with attention different watches
- Observing you from away, playing with his lips,  waiting for you to choose which one you prefer
- Coming slowly behind you and looking above your shoulder “You like this one? Wants me to buy it for you?”
- His arm wrapping around your waist when you jump surprised by his sudden question
- He slightly laugh while squeezing your body against his chest, kissing your temple “It’s just me Little Queen!”
- Teasing you about your reaction before looking closer at the watch you seemed to like
- Faking to not know what you are talking about when you tell him to not buy it for you
- Rolling his eyes with a half smile when you scold him and insists for him to not do it
- Assuring you he won’t before leaving to another part of the shop but always keep an eye on you
- An annoyed sigh leaving him when he noticed a group of paparazzis waiting for him
- Instinctively start to look after you and feel his body tensing when he can’t find you around
- Walking quickly through the shop to join you while you’re looking nervously at the paparazzis waiting outside
- Sliding his hand in yours, his calm voice whispering  "I’m here! You have nothing to be afraid of, okay?“
- Squeezing your hand with a reassuring smile when he sees you becoming even more nervous when you two walk toward the front door of the shop
- Walking out first, keeping you in his hand to protect you from  the flashes of cameras all around you
- Looking back at you when he feels you holding his hand tighter and call him
- Pulling you closer to him, his strong arm coming around your shoulders and guiding you through the crowd
- Feeling him stop walking, his tensed body pressed against you when he sees a paparazzi pushing you
- Losing a bit of his patience when  become scared because of the situation
- His hand on the small of your back, making you reach the car , opening the passenger door to allow you to come in first
- Squeezing your hand a last time before closing the door, knowing that you’re now safe
- Joining you in car as fast as he can because he knows how much you’re not comfortable when those moments happens
- Looking at you to check if you’re feeling okay, his hand holding yours on your knee "Sorry for that, I know how much you don’t like when it happens…”
- The guilt on his face when he sees you looking down, repeating you how much he’s sorry to impose it to you
- A sigh of relief when you look at him with a smile while holding back his hand
- Kissing your hand before leaving a small bag from the shop on your knees, knowing already what you gonna find inside
- Winking to you with smirk when you push on his shoulder trying to hide your smile

It was so bad, I know! Sorry for that!

There’s a *very* christian book about dating in our school’s library which is supposed to be 100% serious, but is actually funnier than most comedies I’ve read.

●It has a list of date ideas, which includes:
- inviting a non-christian couple to a fair and teaching them about God
- literally kidnapping your significant other (???)
- washing a neighbour’s dog
- letting your girlfriend drive a car while you run behind it
- praying

●It also has a list of flaws your SO shouldn’t have, but it’s literally just seven deadly sins. That’s it.

● According to this book, using autocorrect and doing drugs count as witchcraft.

●It says you can’t fuck a girl if you don’t have her father’s written permission

●It teaches you to praise your gf for having traits which make her similar to Christ (?¿)

● “Does your lover like WILD PARTIES? ”

● There’s an entire paragraph warning you that holding hands leads to sex. I wish I was joking.

● The first two pages is basically “have sex with whoever you want! whenever you want! however you want! do wat u want!!!”, which is pretty odd considering the previous point

● The back cover is a picture of two teens holding hands surrounded by this speed meme blur thing (idk what it’s called but I hope you know what I mean)

dating calum would include:

- sharing headphones on every car ride
- post workout mirror selfies
- pet names including “angelface” “babe” and “gorgeous”
- “my next tattoo is gonna be your initials”
- him always having some contact with your butt
- late night deep talks about your future together, your ambitions, and goals
- you being the only person he really opens up to
- him sometimes becoming distant due to jetlag, stress, and just being busy
- but you’re always there for him to come back to
- always taking your showers together because he insists on “"saving water”“
- him walking around the house naked a lot
- you both sleeping naked but not because you had sex just because you like to admire each others bodies and he loves how you’re so comfortable around him
- you always tracing his tattoos when you cuddle
- hot makeout sessions before shows to get him pumped up
- him writing you cute songs while he’s on tour and sending you videos of him singing them
- sending you gifts while he’s on tour
- car sex
- passionate sex with music playing in the background and him grinding his hips to the beat
- let’s be real you guys would definetely have a lot of kinky sex in weird positions
- being best friends with his sister
- him being protective but only when he needs to be; he likes you to be independent and have your space
- long cheesy goodnight text messages
- probably way more calling than texting because he likes to hear your voice
- you would literally be his rock and whenever he gets stressed you would be the only person who could calm him down
- him always taking you to the studio because he likes you to see him in his element
- wearing his tank tops all the time omg
- “babe why are you staring at me”
- “cal your arms are so veiny and your jaw line is so chisled its incredible”
- making him blush when you compliment him
- idk calum would be so sweet and good to you im upset :(

Relationship asks

1. What’s your relationships history?
2. Are you in a relationship now?
3. How long did your longest relationship last?
4. How long did your shortest relationship last?
5. Have you ever experienced true love?
6. Have you ever been invited on a date?
7. Describe your first kiss.
8. Has anybody ever brought you flowers?
9. Have you ever fallen asleep while cuddling with somebody?
10. (Old but gold) Describe your perfect date.
11. Do you like being in a relationship, or do you prefer to be single?
12. Have you had any romantic or sexual experiences with the same sex?
13. Have you ever broken up with somebody?
14. Has anybody ever broken up with you?
15. Do you have a crush on anyone right now?
16. Would you like to get married one day?
17. Describe your first crush.
18. Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love at first sight?
17. Have you ever been cheated on?
18. Do you think it’s possible to remain friends after breaking up?
19. Going to a club full of people for the whole night together or going to the empty beach alone for the whole day together?
20. If you had the chance to get back to your last boyfriend/ girlfriend, would you?

Idea by my-love-and-my-reason

Dating Harry Would Include - 35

Long day:

- Coming home after and long and tiring day, craving for one of harry’s comforting hugs
- Hearing him welcoming you before you can call him, the sound of his voice making you smile
- Walking slowly to the living room to find him sitting on couch reading a book, a wide smile appearing on his lips
- The immediate frown when he sees your tired face, asking you with a soft voice “ Hard day my Little Queen?”
- Moving slowly toward him in noding, A tender smile on his lips while he opens his arms for you
- Catching your body in his arms when you sit on his laps, pressing your body on his chest
- Hugging you tightly against him in kissing your hair “ Very bad day indeed! … Let’s see if I can make it better for you! ”
- His palm rubbing gently your back, following the line of your spine to rest on the small of your back rubbing slow circles upon your hip
- Taking delicately your chin in his fingers to make you look at him “ Want to talk it out?”
- The smile on his lips when you kiss him out of guard instead of answering, wrapping your arms around his neck
- Looking at you in biting his lips when you break the kiss, his large hands resting on your thighs
- His long fingers stroking your legs up and down before sliding along your leg to reach your knee when he bends toward you
- His lips begging for more contact, making your lips brushes on each other nibbling playfully the corner of your mouth
- His hands leaving your legs to wrap his arms around your waist and pull you toward him
- Whispering almost intelligible above your mouth “Lips please…” when he can’t make you kiss him
- A smile on his face when he sees you reacting with a smile, happy to cheer up your mood
- Bending toward him to kiss him, a light moan vibrating down his throat when your lips catch his upper lip
- The light bite on your lower lip to keep you close when you try to pull back
- His hands moving to the side of your neck, his thumbs rubbing on the edge of your jaw
- His stare focused on your lips when you break the kiss, his tongue passing over his hungry lips
- Pulling on your neck to make you lean toward him and make the tip of his tongue following the edge of your upper lip
- Pressing a warm kiss on your lower lip, his hand on your shoulder blade to keep you as close as possible
- Your hands gripping his shirt when he pulls back, a smirk on his lips to see you this needy for his kisses
- His worked breath coming out as a light laugh, his lips now red because of  the intensity of your kisses
- Trying to catch his breath in laying his forehead on your cheek when you hug him
- Taking your hand and resting it above his chest while pressing your forehead on his, smiling to see you feeling better
- The seconds becoming long minutes without a word, delicate pecks being spread all over your face
- Laying your head on his shoulder, one of his arms holding around your waist while  rubbing gently your cheek with the back of his fingers
- Pressing his lips in a soft kiss over your forehead “ What about a hot bath for my Little Queen and I?”

Dating Bambam would include

!! oops sorry i wasn’t clear haha i meant can you write a “dating bambam would include” list😅❤ hehe thank you❤

Note: Ah I see what you mean! That’s what I get for not reading things properly! I’m very, very sorry! Here is your request!


Originally posted by younggjaebum

  • Him asking for your opinion on his hair before anyone else after it gets dyed because 1) your opinion means the most, and 2) it gives him an excuse to send you selcas and 3) nothing fuels his ego more than being complimented from you
  • So many messages 
  • Especially when he’s on tour
  • You’ll have so many updates through messenger, snapchat and snow - which makes you question how much work he actually gets done during the day. 
  • Him dedicating a day to cuddling with you when he gets back from tour because god knows he’s needy and wants those cuddles
  • So much skinship
  • Kisses on your face and hands and the rest of your body
  • His band members spending about 80% of their time telling the two of you to get a room or teasing you both
  • Bambam ignoring them because he’s “too mature” for them
  • Grumpy maknae
  • But always cheers up when you give him a reason too, mainly through kisses and hugs and spontaneous dates
  • And that’s what he loves so much about you because you spend so much time dedicated to making him happy and he fully supports that and does the dame for you. 
  • Expect random presents from him, especially after tours because- 
  • “I saw it and it made me think of you”
  • Which can sometimes lead to you having very strange, random objects in your house. 
  • “What an interesting ornament you have there, what it is {y/n}”
  • “Honestly Mum, I haven’t got a clue what it is.” 
  • Him loving to travel with you and taking you to places you’d never been before 
  • Taking you on a tour around his home town in Thailand and teaching you some simple phrases in the language 
  • Being so proud when he finds out that you love it all. 
  • Honestly, just being the cutest couple ever tbh
  • Him holding your hand and kissing you in public when you’re anxious because he knows it soothes you 
  • Doesn’t really give a shit about what the press says because he loves you and that means more than everything to him. 
  • True happiness when the dating ban is lifted even though he’d been dating you for ages before that anyway

Night time

Originally posted by mauloveskpop

  • This maknae may looks as though he’s all sweet and innocent but don’t be fooled
  • He can be very charming and seductive when he wants to be 
  • Not to mention sexy af
  • But you probably shouldn’t tell him that unless you want his ego to blow up like a balloon 
  • But putting all of the sexy stuff aside, he is very sweet 
  • And sometimes just really wants to lie next to you
  • It feels so real for him
  • Holding you in his arms
  • He can’t help but think about hos lucky he is to have you in his life and how you love him like you do
  • Sometimes he’ll just hold you in his arms, running his fingers through your hair and grinning because he’s just so happy about you and about life that he can’t help but just grin as he drifts off to sleep.