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My Reward System

Okay. So. Whether you’re a little without a CG or a CG who has no idea how to care for a little, odds are you’ve at some point had trouble figuring out a point system that works! This is the one I used when I was a little and may use again when I find a little!

There are a few categories. Each category allows you to earn a certain number of points.

Sleeping:
8+ hours = 10 points
7-6 hours = 8 points
5 hours = 5 points
4 hours = 2 points
-4 = 0 points

Eating: (Note: To be considered a meal there has to be some sort of veggie, grain, and protein!)
Ate 3 meals = 10 points
Ate 2 meals = 5 points
Ate 1 meal = 2 points

Drinking Water
8 glasses = 10 points
7-6 glasses = 8 points
5 glasses = 5 points
4 glasses = 2 points
-4 glasses = 1 point
0 glasses = 0 points

Other: (This category should be tailored to fit you individually! I’ll include mine as an example though.)
Did homework = 8 points
Room was clean at the end of the day = 5 points
Showered = 1 point
Washed face twice = 3 points
Brushed teeth twice = 3 points
Exercised or danced = 3 points
Read a chapter of a book = 1 point per chapter

You’re supposed to aim for a certain number of points a day. Like, 30 points is good, but 40 points is great! If you reach that, you can cash it in for small treats, or you can go the extra mile and get 250-300 points total for the week!

Rewards:
Extra desert = 40 points
Pack of stickers = 40 points
New stuffie = 100 points
New coloring book = 100 points
New onsie/diaper/binkie= 300 points

The points for the rewards are set really high so that rewards still feel special, and you don’t have to break the bank, haha.

I hope this helps someone out there! Best wishes!

How to Get a Little to Stop Procrastinating:
  • Me: I miss you Daddy.
  • Daddy: I miss you too, are you doing your paper?
  • Me: Kinda...
  • Daddy: hmm?
  • Me: I just wanna color :(
  • Daddy: Color later
  • Me: But... but... Daddy...
  • Daddy: Paper
  • Me: Uggggggggggggggggggggggggg
  • Daddy: Come on now Kitten
  • Me: I so literally just want to not do it.
  • Daddy: No
  • Me: I'm doing it. Just lots of breaks to cry about how much I hate this
  • Daddy: awwww. I'll reward you if you finish it.
  • Me: Oooo what kind of reward?
  • Daddy: New stuffie
  • Me: ... Daddy.... are we being serious here....
  • Daddy: One big enough to cover your bed... maybe
  • Me: Daddy....
  • Daddy: Hm?
  • Me: Don't mess with me here. This is serious business you're talking about
  • Daddy: Maybe not that big. But a stuffie.
  • Me: Well now I have to finish this paper even if it kills me.
Ways to make an age regressor happy

- Reward them for doing a good job even if it doesn’t seem like that big of a deal

- Fix a bottle/sippycup/etc. of their favorite drink without them asking

- Give them tummy rubs (this can be good as a relax thing but also helps with menstrual cramps!)

- If you’re long distance, text them “Good morning, my little [insert nickname here]” to let them know they were the first thing on your mind

- Surprise them with a new stuffie for their collection

- Or stickers!! stickers are good too

- give them forehead kissies

- Ask them about important health things like “have you brushed your teeth?” or “How much water have you drank today?”

- Play their favorite game with them

- initiate a cuddle session :3

-Play with their hair or brush it (it’s good for bed time routines cause it can be really relaxing!)

- buy them a small treat like ice cream or hot cocoa depending on the season

- Always tell them you love them!!

🌼 caring for a sick little 🌼

Being sicky is no fun, and littles can often find it very overwhelming. It’s important that we get the love and care we need!

• cuddles are essential!!! a sicky little is a clingy little!!!
• stuffies and blankies!!!
• we might get a little fussier than usual, so try and be patient!! we most likely don’t mean it!!
• that being said it’s important to continue to enforce rules and punishments - routine is very important!!
• make sure we eat our fruits and vegetables! (note: we’ll probably argue about it)
• liquids!!! drink up!!!
• those icey pole things with electrolytes! • paci thermometer! just cos!! • story time!!
• cgs your voice in general is a source of comfort for your little!!
• attentions!! if you can’t be there we understand, but please try to leave us little notes or text messages
• movies, books and colouring! small things to keep us entertained that don’t require tonnes of effort. gotta save that energy!!
• a small surprise or gift won’t hurt! eg a new stuffie, a piece of candy, or a drawing you made!!

• cute bandaids work better than boring adult ones • and cute tissues! woo!
when it is a little's period (for daddy's)

•care for her, let her know daddy cares about her in your special way. such as; offering the heating pad, talking to the “monster” in her tummy (cramp(s)), cradling her in your arms and giving her your undivided attention as needed. ((also, offer medication if she’s in extreme pain.))
•comfort her, rub her tummy during those 3-5 days of hell and baby her, we may not say it but we love when we’re babied at that time, it makes us feel infant-weak and as vulnerable as can be.
•help her, if she’s impatient with putting on her pad/tampon, guide her and calm her down, especially if she’s running late for work and trying to be a Big girl.
•soothe her, lull her to sleep during these awful, restless nights when it’s painful for her to sleep.
•let her hold you, don’t push her/shove her to the side. let her hold you and let her feel loved during this time, she feels useless because her body is hurting her and she feels lifeless because it’s extremely painful.
-DO NOT SHOVE/PUSH HER AWAY/NEGLECT HER. SHE IS IN PAIN AND SEEKS TO BE LOVED BECAUSE SHE CANNOT CONTROL WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HER BODY.
•let her know you’re there for her by coaching her through a contraction (cramps DO contract, hence the reason that pregnant women call theirs contractions as well) and working your hand into her stomach (gENTLY) and if she cries, let her, THAT SHIT IS PAINFUL and she needs to let it out.
•ways to help her through it if you’re this far and are clueless about how
-don’t be a dickhead, make time for her (especially LDRS)
-give tummy rubs/tummy time, let your little regress in your arms through the pain, but note she IS in pain and does not want for you to just shove her to the side if she’s in pain and you’re horny.
-let her have all the chocolate in the world, this is fUCKING MISERY okay? bend the “no sweets” rule right hERE.
-sing to her, even iF you suck at it, so she calms down during her episodes at night (honestly daddy does this for me and that helps so much) and let her never forget that her daddy DOES CARE (!!!!!!!!!!!)
-give her a bubble bath - run warm (not bOILING hOT) water for her, make her get undressed and wash her off as she plays with her toys (preferably? get in there, this is a GREAT bonding method that will also lead to more memories in the future.)
-remind her to take her birth control (if she’s an older little/already on it) (honestly just do it, do NOT let her miss a day)
-LET HER EXPRESS HER EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS, if she’s tired, let her fall asleep on you. if she’s in pain, let her cry but dO NOT LET HER FEEL AS IF SHE HAS TO SUFFER THROUGH IT ALL ALONE. AS HER DADDY, YOUR LITTLE BEING IN PAIN SHOULD MAKE YOU TAKE ACTION AND GEAR YOU TO BE THE BEST DADDY YOU CAN BE AT THIS VERY INSTANT. SHE NEEDS YOU, YOU DICKHEAD.
-this one goes without saying ; but LOVE her.
make her feel loved, spoil her with maybe a new stuffie, cuddle her all the fucking time, give her baths, play with her, give her tummy time and times to regress, let her be a messy girl when she eats, the cravings are MONSTERS okay?
this … is your baby girl. these days come and go, but she will always stay.
be a good daddy and don’t be a dICKHEAD.

Not Here

Summary: Phil slips into little space during school. 

 Thanks Oli ( @omega-dan ) for being the beta for this. 

Word count: 1k

Contains: Daddy!Dan , little!phil 

 A/N: So hopefully this isn’t a fail and someone actually reads it. 

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Dan smiled as he walked down the crowded hall, dodging people left and right. He was taller than most people which gave him the advantage, however Phil, his boyfriend, was shorter than most people so he could never find him in the sea of people. Fiddling with his lip ring he made his way to Phil’s locker and smiled at him. 

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