it’s also okay to be totally terrified at the thought of having sex with a girl- internalized homophobia affects all of us to a certain extent
it’s okay to want to make out with a girl for hours on end (seriously, it’s totally an okay thing to think about)
it’s okay to fantasize about girls, even in a sexual way. you are not dirty for doing this.
you can absolutely wear clothes that are stereotypically lesbian, such as flannels. in the same note, you can totally cut your hair short if you want. you aren’t perpetuating a stereotype, you’re embracing who you are
you can also completely stay away from any clothing that would signify you might be a wlw (especially if you’re in a situation where the suspicion that you’re a wlw could cause you harm)- it’s completely your choice, just don’t shame anybody that does decide to take on that style.
it’s okay to not immediately date a girl once you come out. take some time to figure out your feelings, it’s okay. you’ll find somebody that you want to date in your own time, or you can just decide you don’t want to ever date anybody. that’s also perfectly okay.
it’s okay to dream about a future with a wife
it’s okay to hold your girlfriend’s hand in public and be affectionate in public. it’s not gross or icky, it’s good and cute, i promise.
it’s okay to come out to everybody you speak to (there’s nothing wrong with you, and if people judge you, they’re the ones who are wrong), but it’s also valid to only come out to a small select group of people. both approaches are fine.
it’s okay to masturbate while thinking about girls. it’s okay, you’re not weird for doing this. it’s a common thing.
it’s okay to watch movies or tv shows with wlw, even the ones that are cliche and really cheesy. if they make you feel validated and happy, continue doing so.
please reblog this if you’re pro-shaladin, or at least are not anti-shaladin. i need to know that there are more of us out there, shipping and multishipping and seeing shiro happy with his paladins. also i want more shaladin-positive blogs to follow.
holy mother of FUCK i just read a screenrant article that mentions stuff about thanos’ relationship with Death (as in the personified entity) and how one of his main comic motivations is to impress Death and how in the after-credits scene of the avengers the alien guy explicitly says (about the humanity) “to challenge them is TO COURT DEATH” aaaand how on top of all of that, markus and mcfeely conspicuously dodged all questions about Death as it ties with thanos’ motivations SO NOW I’M JUST…. WHAT IF DEATH IS PERSONIFIED IN THE MCU….
MORE IMPORTANTLY… WHAT IF TONY “MERCHANT OF DEATH, WALKING DEAD” STARK, MR. “I SAW THEM ALL DEAD, NICK, I FELT IT” – WHAT IF HE INTERACTS WITH THE EMBODIMENT OF DEATH oh my GOD the avenger who’s THE MOST OBSESSED WITH DEATH AND DYING
WHAT IF TONY “I DECIDED THAT YOU JUST DIED, PAL” PHYSICALLY MEETS DEATH I AM SCREAMING
Isnt it funny how every girl associated with louis throws whatever job they had as soon as they start to date louis.. Briana with her"stylist" job, danielle not doing any acting n skipping a con to follow louis around n now eleanor giving up her fashion blog as soon as she started to date louis.. Almost as if they all had found another way to earn money.. Funmy coincidences, arent they?
“almost as if they all had found another way to earn money”