never stops

infp secret #43

self care is not selfish.

how many times have i heard that before i really knew what it meant?

as an infp, i tend to be a little too altruistic. i tend to stay in toxic relationships and bad situations because i don’t want to hurt the other person. 

almost a year ago, i got a tattoo that says love yourself first, inspired by Jared Padalecki’s Always Keep Fighting campaign. and up until a week or so ago, i never really understood what that means either. 

whenever people ask me what it means, i say something along the lines of, “it means to love all the parts of yourself, even the ugly parts that you don’t like. because if you can’t love yourself, you can’t love others.” and that’s true, but i’m slowly learning there’s so much more. it means that if someone is hurting you, you have the right to leave. it means if you’ve given too much of yourself by overcommitting and overextending, you have every right to take those pieces back. it means that you deserve happiness. no matter who you are or what your past is or how you feel or what’s been done to you, you deserve love. you deserve a boyfriend to a girlfriend you adores you, friends who support you, and people who have your back. it’s about knowing when you come first. and it’s not all the time, but if your mental, physical, emotional, or spiritual health is at stake— you have every right to be “selfish”. 

and don’t let anyone ever tell you otherwise. learn from my mistakes.

I saw someone legit try to argue on reddit a while ago that VM could have beaten Vecna if Scanlan had kept his beholder anti-magic ray on him and then remained a beholder for eternity.

:’D

ikon as preschoolers

jinhwan- paints/draws inside the lines, acts cute 24/7, says ‘no’ but then changes his mind, keep an eye on him bc he will fall at some point and will need a bandage ASAP

june- listens rlly well, do not give him sugar tho if you kno whats best for everyone, just does his own thing, likes to sing during activity time, and doesn’t rlly make a mess

hanbin- hates playing by himself, knows weird animal facts and will randomly bring them up in convo, never remembers how to get down from play structures, and runs everywhere

donghyuk- always willing to help, wants to read books out loud to everyone, always tells you his opinions abt colors, crouches down to point at things, picks flowers alot and just hands them out to everyone

yunhyeong- hates getting in trouble, friends with everyone, always knows what day of the week it is and is super excited to tell you, gets upset if his parent doesn’t say goodbye

bobby- LOVES show & tell, “is it snack time yet, teacher” , will always somehow end up with paint on his face, rlly mischievous but still listens when you tell him to stop

chanwoo- says ‘wow!’ at everything, loves plants, always smiling, needs to hold someones hand, and is fasinated by clouds

@chanlerberats and me are brainstorming a much better calendar. Stills from the show to go with the months the events actually happened. Helpless for December. Yorktown for October. Ham’s death for July. Etc.

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Hi I literally don’t want to leave Zora’s Domain for more than like two minutes and I’ll give you three guesses why

(I’m not content with hylian(?)sidon yet his hair looks like a dr pepper but I’ll keep workin on it)