never choose between two

garyscale  asked:

I'm in high school and considering auditioning for an independent drum and bugle corps because I want to challenge myself and want to pursue a future in the activity, however I don't want my friends to feel like I'm ditching the school marching band if I get in and have to choose between the two. Some people have said "never leave your school" or "you're only in high school once" but I also only have so many chances to be in a drum corps and challenge myself. Thoughts?

@clarinet-jesus and i are in agreement: do it!!!!!!

i totally understand how you feel. i’m taking college classes starting next year (11th grade) while still being in HS and i’m really worried how it will affect band and my friendships in school in general?

but i think in the end they will understand and even be proud of you for pushing yourself. i would def talk to them about it in advance and make sure everyone is on the same page but dO IT


2016 bones challengeday 5: favourite season(s) ~ seasons 5 and 9
“Nothing in this universe happens just once. Nothing. Infinity goes in both directions. There is no unique event, no singular moment.”

How it Feels to be the Signs at Their Worst
  • Aries: being so livid at someone that you literally can't think of any words to express your anger
  • Taurus: people only seeing half of who you really are
  • Gemini: constantly torn between two things and never being able to choose
  • Cancer: people joking about something you're actually insecure about
  • Leo: telling people what you like and getting a disgusted/judgmental look in return
  • Virgo: cracking a joke to a group of people and no one laughing at it
  • Libra: telling a story and then realizing no ones listening
  • Scorpio: everyone around you talking about plans to go out and not being invited along
  • Sagittarius: your parents yelling at you for what/who you want to be and what you want to do with your life
  • Capricorn: failing a test and having to tell everybody your score
  • Aquarius: no one listening to what you have to say or taking everything as a joke
  • Pisces: not being able to sleep at night because of a presentation tomorrow

anonymous asked:

I think the "problem" with the loverboy!au is that people don't quite understand how is it possible to "share" someone you love with another person. I get it, because I don't think *I* would ever be able to do it (and sometimes I get a little triggered by that too, like the thought that the person I love is also in love with someone else is just something I can't stand) but in the loverboy!au it's different, the undercuts are there for Yuri, and the three of them deeply care for each other(1)

Plus the undercuts love Yuri and they would do anything to make him happy, they would never make him choose between the two of them and Yuri needs and wants them both to be there for him, because it’s just how it is. They’re all happy as they are.(2) Ps my english is bad, sorry.

See, I’ve never even been in a poly relationship but to me, it’s not like an impossible thing to imagine. It might have actually saved some of my relationships if we had maybe been more open, but some people can do it and some can’t, for sure.  Mostly, I’m just tired of people seeming to want to write JJ out of the AU when he deserves to be there just as much. Like, this wasn’t something that I came up with was Otayuri and injected JJ into, it started as otapliroy and it’ll always be that way.

But what you said is so true - they’re all there for each other, and they’d do anything for each other. And none of them would ever make another one choose between any of them. They’re happy and content and it makes me happy and content <3


BSD Rarepair week Day 6: Too Little, Too Late//Future// “I hope one day you’re as happy as you’re pretending to be.”-Gnash, Leave A Message (song lyric)

After Odasaku’s death neither Dazai or Ango can’t enjoy each other’s company without scratching the wound of bad memories .

Ango has one wish, for Dazai to be happy and he tries so hard to be a perfect replacement for Oda. It is a small improvement since Dazai is always watched by him so his suicidal attempts lower their number but…there is still sadness in those big brown eyes and wide smile, and it hurts him to know, he will never be at least a quarter as good as Oda was for Dazai.

Dazai on the other hand has one wish as well, to be dead. So he would have never had to choose between two of his only friends he consider family.

Since the beginning we wonder which world Rory will choose between Lorelai’s and Emily’s. And i think this is gilmore girls’ main theme and concern. Rory has discovered both sides during her love life, Lorelai’s one (Stars Hollow) with Dean, a young man from Stars Hollow (who enjoys living in this small town). This man has no ambition and wants a simple life with his own perfect little family. And Emily side, with Logan a rich young man who comes from a good family, plus a family close to Gilmore’s.
In the middle you have Jess, like Screwball Television book says he’s an outsider and “ seems to be able to make a home anywhere”. He may not be an ambitious person but he has been capable of doing his own name and publish a book (maybe more than one since season 6). He has the same intellectual interest as Rory and he still has strong ties with Stars Hollow.
As we all know, Rory will never truly choose between these two worlds. She will find her place between them, in her own world, and that is why i don’t see anyone more capable of be her partner in life than Jess.

sangrites  asked:

11, 12 and 18?

11. Who is your current OTP?

Drarry or Tomarry. I can never choose between the two <3

12. Who is your current OT3?

Given the above Tom/Draco/Harry seems a good bet but it’s super rare to find. I also love Draco/Harry/Blaise

18. What ship have you written the most about?

Drarry, by far. I love writing Tomarry but I don’t seem to write it as often as I should. I’m convincing myself now though that I need to write a Tom/Draco/Harry fic

(and from your other ask)  20. Any ships which you surprised yourself by liking?

You got me liking the idea of Sanguini and Pyrites which is surprising only because they’re minor characters xD And I have some ships like Harry/Lucius and Harry/Graves which are weird but tbh I’m not that surprised because I do love dark and twisted ships a lot (Drarry gets called out for being abusive or whatever and I’m just here with my other Harry pairings that make Draco look sweet haha)

Send me a fanfiction question?

Sentence starters: Fortune cookie edition (pt 2)

“Patience makes lighter what sorrow may not heal.”

“Think like a man of action, and act like a man of thought.”

“There is no security in life, only opportunity.”

“Where there is no vision, the people perish.”

“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination.”

“Even the toughest of days have bright spots, just do your best.”

“Tough times never last, but tough people do.”

“If you must choose between two evils, pick the one you’ve never tried before.”

“It takes less time to do a thing right than it does to explain why you did it wrong.”

“One look is worth ten thousand words.”

“You are on the verge of something big.”

“Watch out for little problems that cough get a lot bigger.”

“People are naturally attracted to you.”

“First learn to ‘give’ and then the universe will reward you.”

“Your virtues are your priceless treasures.”

“A leader is powerful to the degree he empowers others.”

“Real is all a vision. You have to see it for yourself.”

“The surest way to have nothing to give is to give nothing.”

“Fate loves the fearless.”

“Do not be overly judgmental of your loved one’s intentions or actions.”

“Procrastination is the fear of success.”

“The human body was designed to walk, run, or stop; it wasn’t built for coasting.”

“Nothing motivates a man more than to see his boss put in an honest day’s work.”

the signs as Vampire Weekend lyrics

Aries: I don’t wanna live like this but I don’t wanna die.

Taurus: Is this the fate that half the world has planned for me?

Gemini: Never pick sides, never choose between two.

Cancer: The truth is, she doesn’t need me to protect her.

Leo: Your not a victim, but neither am I.

Virgo: Here comes the feeling you thought you’d forgotten.

Libra: Wisdom’s a gift but you’d trade it for youth.

Scorpio: How am I supposed to pretend I never want to see you again?

Sagittarius: We saw the stars when thy hid form the world.

Capricorn: There’s a lifetime right in front of you.

Aquarius: I was made to live without you but I’m never gonna understand

Pisces: You and me, we’ve got our own sense of time.

It’s either you lose or get lost in the battle
where hearts tend to reconcile
but still slip off your bare hands.

It’s either you fall in love or fall out of love
as if you’re just knocking thru the window
instead of doors
because keys didn’t match on the locked holes.

It’s either you forget or they forget you
wherein oblivion takes place,
gradually consuming you
making you feel as if you’re lost and gone
deep within the depths of the past.

It’s either you leave or they leave you
in the midst of the trail you forgot to get through
and see yourself walking in the subtle aisle—alone, forgotten and stuck.

It’s either you live in the past or try move on
and look forward for what tomorrow brings—
may it be sunshine or rainfall,
you can never really tell.

It’s always either choosing in between two things
where uncertainty lies beneath a fine lining
And the ending of our story awaits
where the aftermath takes place.

In-betweens by @dentedheart and @sheismnwb