Because this week’s episode will disparage both girls, it will cause a rift in this community, it already has. Just remember that they are sisters, and they love each other. Everyone understand that this is a result of poor writing, and G.R.R.M would never do this to the Stark girls.
Sansa remembered a time when Arya followed her just as much as her brothers. It was when she still had all her milk teeth, and some baby fat remained. Arya would beg Sansa to read her a story, or clutch her hand when Septa scolded her. She used to let Sansa braid her hair and kiss her nose. Before Jeyne called her horse face, Sansa used to tell Arya how pretty her eyes were. Before Sansa cared more about her dresses than playing, she used to let Arya clumsily braid flowers in her hair. They used to play in the snow, run screaming through the gods wood and play come into my castle. Then one day Sansa refused to let Arya braid her hair, they had guests in Winterfell that day and she wanted to look pretty. Another day Arya glared at her during one of Septa Mordane’s lectures and Sansa did not reach for her hand. It was small things at first, until one day Jeyne called Arya horse-faced in front of Sansa. She looked so hurt, Sansa wanted to say sorry but instead walked away when Arya glared at her instead of Jeyne. That was first night her bed had been sheep-shifted, and the first time Arya had decided to sleep in her own room.