Two Spa Day swimsuits recolored in WildlyMiniatureSandwich’s unnatural and neutral palettes. The bikini top swatches all have gold accents. I may try to make some with silver accents later. Standalone recolor, Spa Day required.
So I came out to my mum officially at the start of the year but she’s known I wasn’t cis for a while. Anyway I told her I want top surgery and she started crying because she “doesn’t want to loose her little girl” and that she’s going to need to “grieve” for a while before she’ll come around like ??????? I’m still your kid ????? I AINT DEAD ???????
isn’t it funny how a cis girl can get dangerous breast implants and ppl are like “oh but it’s to help her self esteem and body image” but if a transguy/non binary person wants top surgery ppl are like “how can you be sure you won’t regret this” and they have to prove they have a “identity disorder” and nobody cares that while they struggle to get through a system designed to stop them every step of the way their self esteem and body image is negatively affected everytime they look in the mirror
“you didn’t have your morning coffee today and the uni lecture and teacher you had were not helping with your cranky mood so as you burst out the doors of the cafe with your well needed coffee we bump into each other and your coffee spilled over both of us so you start cursing me out until i manage to calm you down” au
genre: fluff?? / warning(s): idk bad writing ig *lol*, written in lapslock, a little swearing
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note: wow i actually wrote something not angsty since the kisses drabble :0 reader’s a bit of a jerk in this yikes. but sorry for mistakes and enjoy??
I live in a state that does not have laws requiring insurance companies to pay for transgender health needs. So how did I get my insurance company to pay for my top surgery?
Long story short, I got pretty lucky and kind of cheated the system a bit, but for anyone out there that might be in a similar situation as me:
I was eligible for a breast reduction because of my size. I was a 30E, but anyone who has large breasts and have experienced shoulder/back pain or any other problems stemming from your boobs might be eligible!
There was a MINIMUM amount that needed to be taken off for insurance to cover the procedure. BUT THERE WAS NO MAXIMUM. So, I was lucky enough to have a really cool surgeon and I explained my situation to him. I told him that I didn’t want ANY boobs because I didn’t even identify as a woman in the first place. I told him that I would like a man’s chest and showed him some pictures and he felt comfortable that he could give it to me.
So I ended up getting a double mastectomy COVERED COMPLETELY BY INSURANCE. Even though they really just think that I got a breast reduction because of my back pain.
Feel free to share so that anyone in a similar situation knows that this is an option! Let me know if you have any questions :)
I honestly do not understand it. Like there have been regular-ish songs in Eurovision before (i.e. ones that could play on a radio and not be immediately recognised as something from Eurovision imho), but they were always full of pizzazz and Eurovision hype. Portugal’s song sounds so boring to me, and the singer reminds me exactly of this asshole indie musician I know who shits on everyone else’s music choice. No offense to Portugal, congrats on last summer’s EM, but fuck the ESC results.