So I came out to my mum officially at the start of the year but she’s known I wasn’t cis for a while. Anyway I told her I want top surgery and she started crying because she “doesn’t want to loose her little girl” and that she’s going to need to “grieve” for a while before she’ll come around like ??????? I’m still your kid ????? I AINT DEAD ???????
israeli design house layoudesign’s breezy, summery, airy fashion styles are ideal for a warm summery day — or night! check out their dresses, tunics, tops, pants and more for neutral pieces that look comfy and stylin’ layered or alone.
Two Spa Day swimsuits recolored in WildlyMiniatureSandwich’s unnatural and neutral palettes. The bikini top swatches all have gold accents. I may try to make some with silver accents later. Standalone recolor, Spa Day required.
im starting a capsule wardrobe on saturday and i think its going to be so good for me autistically
i’ve realised that i only really feel comfortable and confident + like myself when wearing leggings and plain-ish dark neutral tops. so my wardrobe will basically just consist of comfortable basics that can be dressed up and down.
im hoping it will relieve some of the pressure of clothing-related sensory issues and executive dysfunction, as having less choice + more of what i know i like/know i feel comfortable in should make it easier to choose outfits + get dressed on a morning (i’ve always had big big problems with confidence + body image and getting dressed has always been so stressful that it often triggers meltdowns + a lot of the time i end up melting down and then cancelling all my plans/ditching all my responsibilities)(so hopefully my mornings will be a lot less stressful which i know impacts my functioning ability greatly).
the aim is to reduce the amount i own enough that i can hang all my everyday/outdoor clothes on hangers in my wardrobe so that they’re visible + easily accessible, and then to have all my pyjamas and loungewear (home clothes) and seasonal stuff (like umbrellas + wooly hats) in the drawers underneath which i’ll label.
im still trying to work it all out logistically but im so excited to hopefully make my life a little bit easier. ive cut down a lot of my physical belongings lately + am living a little more minimally and being more considerate of my purchases and stuff and its honestly made such an improvement to my mood and executive functioning at home. so im really excited to do this with my clothes too!! especially because clothes and getting dressed has always caused me so much grief
also like realistically in times of peak burn out i could genuinely assign outfits to days of the week.. how nice would that be
so anyway yeah thats happening and im excited + above is a little moodboard ive been working on to try and help myself work it all out/visualise it (all the images are from pinterest, so if you see an image that belongs to you and would like it credited, please let me know)
“you didn’t have your morning coffee today and the uni lecture and teacher you had were not helping with your cranky mood so as you burst out the doors of the cafe with your well needed coffee we bump into each other and your coffee spilled over both of us so you start cursing me out until i manage to calm you down” au
genre: fluff?? / warning(s): idk bad writing ig *lol*, written in lapslock, a little swearing
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note: wow i actually wrote something not angsty since the kisses drabble :0 reader’s a bit of a jerk in this yikes. but sorry for mistakes and enjoy??