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Kinda irked

So I came out to my mum officially at the start of the year but she’s known I wasn’t cis for a while. Anyway I told her I want top surgery and she started crying because she “doesn’t want to loose her little girl” and that she’s going to need to “grieve” for a while before she’ll come around like ??????? I’m still your kid ????? I AINT DEAD ???????

How I got insurance to pay for top surgery

I live in a state that does not have laws requiring insurance companies to pay for transgender health needs. So how did I get my insurance company to pay for my top surgery?

Long story short, I got pretty lucky and kind of cheated the system a bit, but for anyone out there that might be in a similar situation as me:

I was eligible for a breast reduction because of my size. I was a 30E, but anyone who has large breasts and have experienced shoulder/back pain or any other problems stemming from your boobs might be eligible!

There was a MINIMUM amount that needed to be taken off for insurance to cover the procedure. BUT THERE WAS NO MAXIMUM. So, I was lucky enough to have a really cool surgeon and I explained my situation to him. I told him that I didn’t want ANY boobs because I didn’t even identify as a woman in the first place. I told him that I would like a man’s chest and showed him some pictures and he felt comfortable that he could give it to me.

So I ended up getting a double mastectomy COVERED COMPLETELY BY INSURANCE. Even though they really just think that I got a breast reduction because of my back pain.

Feel free to share so that anyone in a similar situation knows that this is an option! Let me know if you have any questions :)

M'name’s Holland. Portland, OR androgyne/gender-neutral lesbian. Top surgery in t - 38 days! I do integrals by hand in my free time (take that, Mathematica!) and I’m afraid of mailmen. I suppose that’s the “show-don’t-tell” way of saying “I’m a giant dork.” Huzzah.

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