I cannot tell anyone that everything will be alright. But I could draw happier things to take my mind off the bad. Drawing smol Viktor makes me happy, and I hope it’ll bring a smile to everyone who needs it today. 💗
Keep in mind this rant really isn’t aimed at any of you. You’re all beautiful, wonderful people. I just need to get this off my chest.
As yet another one of our amazing writers is attacked for not updating or not writing what the reader wants, I find myself getting more and more pissed off on their behalf. I don’t know why I rarely get attacked considering I take forever to finish things, but seriously. All these self-entitled assholes can take their whiney asses and GTFO.
There are ghosts that haunt one in company and those that haunt one in solitude; now it’s the latter’s turn, especially when it’s raining, chilly, and the yard is full of cab-drivers’ gossip. Nevertheless I wouldn’t mind staying here alone for several months in order to take stock of my position. Time passes, and one passes with it, pointlessly. It is rather gloomy, and one doesn’t even need any special aptitude to be constantly reminded of these things. I feel like brushing the hair off your forehead, and consulting your eyes on the subject, but the hand sinks as it approaches.
I never knew what to do with this ikea frame I got years ago. And the skull + jaw I got from a forest keeper who found it in the woods he takes care of. Got another set like this too. I cleaned it, but never really got rid of the discoloring. Anyway, got some moss ideas, and finished this this weekend. Just really needed to get my mind off of things.
so i’ve been noticing a trend in the phandom. it seems like people can’t go a few days without starting drama. which is frustrating due to the fact that it’s usually directed at me and my friends.
it truly boggles my mind that people actually take the time to foster negativity and bitterness in an environment meant to take people’s minds off of the things going on in their lives. the most ‘recent’ of this drama affected me the most due to recent events happening in my personal life. it affected me so much i sobbed for a long time and contemplated even worse things for a few seconds. i rashly decided to ‘quit’ my blog (obviously not the case but i genuinely enjoy running this blog contrary to the drama that happens).
but the thing is ‘phandom drama’ was what lit the fuse to my breakdown. that shouldn’t be happening ever. for anyone.
people that are in this community come online, on tumblr, to have fun. to take our minds off of what’s happening in our lives at least for a little bit. we blog about dan and phil for fucksake. it’s really not that deep. but the past few weeks have been full of negativity? and thats really not okay?
so like. i don’t know. this is everyone’s personal choice. but i think it would be cool if people would stop trying to start drama or at least be mature and directly message people to sort out disagreements. vaguing and negativity got me down bruh. positivity is nice and good
sorry for being slightly waffly and sad. i’ll try to keep it to a minimum from here on out. much love and hugs
hi nbv! my boyfriend is in law schoo full-timel, and i'm the one with the less-taxing job and lifestyle for now. obviously, each person's wants and needs are different, but do you have any tips for The Care And Keeping Of Your Law Student? What do you wish someone would do for you? Thank you!
I don’t know if you’re living together or not, but honestly the things that come to mind immediately are domestic—I would love someone to cook for me and do my laundry. Both are so necessary to daily life, but they take so much time. Rather than use up my energy,I end up putting laundry off for weeks and eat terrible food. I just don’t have time or the brainspace to spare unless it’s an emergency.
If you’re not living together or aren’t at that point of your relationship, then I think the biggest thing would be—work with your Law Student’s schedule and give them as much advance notice as possible. For me, between school, work, journals, etc. my free time is limited, and I generally fill what time I do have with homework/studying.
So when a friend texts me randomly on a Thursday night to ask if I want to go out, my first reaction is no, I have work I have to get done. Whereas a friend (who knows me very well) texted me weeks ago and said she was going to be in town, did I want to go to dinner Sunday night? To which I happily replied, yes, of course, put it on my calendar, and planned my whole weekend around seeing her.
You can’t plan everything in life, but understanding that your Law Student has a lot on their plate and might not be able to drop everything for just anything is key.
Also, though I hope this bit of advice isn’t necessary, please also make sure that your needsare taken care of, and that your Law Student is not taking advantage of your understanding and generosity. It is perfectly okay to tell your Law Student, “I’m happy to do your laundry, but you need to be responsible for cleaning the bathroom and vacuuming the carpet,” OR “this event is really important to me, I am telling you with plenty of advance notice so you can make time for it,” OR “you can pick the night but it’s non-negotiable that we do something together once a week, even if it’s just a netflix night.”
I definitely have been known to use “oh man, I have so much work” as an excuse to turn down social invitations or skip events I didn’t want to attend. The truth is that they simply weren’t priorities for me.
Law school is a priority, of course, but so are you and your relationship. Don’t let one distract entirely from the other.
are currently at the Beckham’s house alone with Brooklyn. He sits at
his desk, writing something on his laptop, while you sit on his bed,
reading something for school. “When are you parents going to be
back?” You ask your boyfriend.
don’t know. Not soon, I guess.” Brooklyn says, still highly
concentrated. A smirk forms on your lips as you put your things on
the floor and get up. “Why are you asking?” Brooklyn asks. You
don’t answer and just spin his desk chair around so that Brooklyn is
you know… it’s just my head hurts and I could really need something
to take my mind off.” You explain as you unbutton the buttons of
your flannel that you are wearing. Brooklyn bites his lip, looking up
at you, and puts his hands on your hips, pulling you down to him. You
straddle him as you start making out. Brooklyn pulls your flannel
down your arms and you pull his shirt over his head and throw it onto
the floor. You take a deep breath when he leaves a wet kiss on your
neck. Brooklyn stands up, carrying you over to his bed. Your legs and
arms are wrapped around him as he lays you down on his bed. Brooklyn
fully undresses you and you change position. You sit on his stomach,
only wearing underwear and your bra, as you lower you body to attach
your lips to his. You and Brooklyn continue to make out as he pulls
his sweatpants down. When you pull apart, you pull his sweatpants and
boxers down completely. His erection springs free and you sit down
between his legs. When you touch his knees with your hands, he takes
a deep breath. You take his hard cock into your hands and start to
stroke it up and down before you take it into your mouth. You stroke the part that doesn’t fit in your mouth as you start to give
him a blowjob, licking his cock and moving your head up and down.
I need you!” Brooklyn groans and sits up. You quickly take off your
underwear and throw him on the floor before he puts his hands on your
waist. You put your legs on either side of his body and then lower
yourself on his dick. A moan escapes your lips as he starts to
thrusts in and out of you. You start to ride him in the same rhythm
and Brooklyn puts his hands on your boobs squeezing the skin and
making you moan loudly. You and Brooklyn start to moan loudly and you
can’t hold yourself up any longer. You fall on his chest and his
hands move down to your ass. He squeezes it as you rest your upper
body on his. Brooklyn feels your boobs on his chest as you start to
suck on his neck, giving him a hickey. He has his eyes shut and you
shut yours when Brooklyn lifts up his hips and start to thrusts in and
out of harder.
my god!” A sudden voice exclaims and you hear the door close. Your
eyes snap open and quickly get off Brooklyn. He sits up and covers
you with his bed sheet before standing up and pulling on his boxers.
was my mum.” He mumbles, his cheeks blushing bright red. You blush
and cover yourself up with the bed sheet when you hear Victoria and
David talking. David saw it too. Victoria AND David just caught you
and Brooklyn having sex.
normal, Victoria. He’s a boy. We both knew that one day it would
happen.” David says and it seems that it doesn’t hit him as much
hard as it did his wife.
course I knew that… but-but he’s my son.” She says.
it’s fine.” David calms his wife down and then you hear them walk
so sorry.” Brooklyn says and comes back into bed. He kneels on the
bed next to you as you sit up.
saw us having sex, Brooklyn. They saw how-how I rode you.” Your
point out the obvious.
at least you rode me really good.” Brooklyn says and you can’t help
it but laugh at his dumb comment.
UT US UF Skelebros come home to find their s/o sobbing their eyes out on the couch, going throw boxes of tissues. Their favorite tv show just killed off their favorite character. How would the bros comfort them? (This just happened to me, please, i need something to heal my poor broken heart)
I’m sorry that this took so long. I hope your poor heart is ok :(
UT:Sans: He wraps you up in a blanket and teleports out to get you some food from grillby. Puts on another happier show to watch to take your mind off of it. Maybe even some episodes of the same show but where your fave is still alive. Lots of jokes and puns to cheer you up. He’s not the kind of person who’d react this strongly over something like this. The resets have taught him that good things don’t last. He still understands your sadness. He’s there for you as long as you need it.
UT!Papyrus: He gets really sad too. He might not even know the character but death makes him really uncomfortable and that mixed with you being an emotional wreck right now kind of sets him off. He wants you to do something that can take your mind off of things (his too, but that’s not important) this might involve a physical activity of various degrees depending on how up for it you are. He suggests going out for a walk, anything to get you out of the house. If you really don’t want to he’ll understand. Still wont let you sit on the couch for the rest of the evening. Anything else is fine.
US!Sans: It stresses him out a lot. Chances are he’s very informed on the subject of this tv show from you telling him about it. He might have even watched an episode once or twice so he gets really upset too. Ends with you two grieving together. He gets you tissue boxes and lots of water since he doesn’t want you to get dehydrated. Lots and lots of cuddles. He puts on a disney movie to take your mind off of things. Depending on the movie he choose this might be for better or for worse.
US!Papyrus: Look, he really likes watching tv shows with you. It enables him to do sappy couple things while laying on a couch. He’s watched pretty much every show that you’ve ever been into. He’s low-key salty that you watched the episode without him. If it was a show that he was actually into and actively following he’s high-key salty that you watched it and also spoiled it for him. Takes pity on you in your grief though. He’ll just silently grab you another box of tissues and some comfort food and then cuddle up with you. Might put on a movie or something with your fave characters actor. (After making sure that they don’t die in it)
UF!Sans: He just um… He wasn’t prepared for this. He’s not really the best at emotional support or comfort. He’s doing his best though. Awkwardly sits beside you and pats your back because he is really not sure what to do right now. He listens to you rant about how stupid the show is for killing them off and how much you loved the character. If it’s something he’s good at, it’s being angry so he hops onto your anger. When you’re done crying and are just kind of hiccuping he gets you a glass of water and puts on a movie. If the show that made you cry is supernatural, he might tell you that there’s like a 50% chance that they’ll come back again. This comment is more likely to earn him 10 more minutes of ugly crying then anything.
UF!Papyrus: The bastard just rolls his eyes at you. Tells you to get over it already, crying over a tv show is just unnecessary. (He is such a hypocrite, he cried watching a disney film once. Romantic dramas are what really gets him though) When he notices that you’re actually upset he softens a little. Gets you something to drink and holds you for a while. He usually makes dinner by himself to ensure that it turns out perfect, but this time he asks you to help him. He needs to get your mind off of things for a while. And by asking you to help him I mean that you’re allowed to hang around and watch him cook. If you’re real lucky he’ll let you chop some vegetables. He’s a perfectionist so not doing everything by himself stresses him out a little. Still, he’s willing to suffer a little for his s/o.
Do you think you could do something with Mccree where his s/o had a really shitty day and just sorta shuts down? Like they go mute and stuff? (This is usually my reaction to very overly stressful things, my mind just kinda shuts off and I just need someone to hug and cuddle, and maybe help me take a bath)
- He will let you vent to him if you need it
- will calmingly talk to you, and tell you everything will be okay
- He’ll probably help you develop signals with him so that he can talk to you if you ever go nonverbal
- When you get home from a bad day, he’ll start running a bath and order in some of your favorite food for you
- He’ll cuddle up with you, not even looking at his phone or anything else until you feel better
- he’ll put on the radio for you, on your favorite station so that you can listen and relax
- if you want him to help you bathe, he’s happy to oblige, even having special things for the occasion
- he goes to lush more now that you’re with him, buying things like lotion, bath salts, and bath bombs so that you can really relax
- He’ll make sure to get your favorite scent too
- He is honestly so nice and loving and caring towards you when you’re upset