need some fun in my life!

Lena Dunham wishing she’d had an abortion in her life is not something to praise as some great pro choice act. Abortions are not fun. I believe everyone should have access to them, I believe they should be safe and legal, but I also don’t wish for anyone to need one. I think that if I got pregnant now, I would probably get an abortion. That’s not something I have a lot of feelings about, but I’m still glad that it’s not a situation that I’m in. Wishing for one like it’s some kind of fun feminist rite of passage, it’s just shitty to people who have been put in situations they didn’t want, people who had to make tough emotional decisions, and people who were just inconvienced and had to sit through a medical procedure. Lena Dunham can stfu.

How to spend money

Okay listen up, this is probably super boring to a lot of you, especially those of you who still live at home, but remember this anyway because it will save your ass countless times and still leave room for fun in your life.

Never utter the words “I just got my paycheck so let’s go out” Never. It’s the worst fucking thing you can do to yourself.

Instead, save your money at the start of the month like you would at the end. Only pay your bills, maybe put some in your savings if you can, and only get what you need. Nothing extra.

If an accident happens, oh shit, you got some extra cash to help you with that.

But if nothing happens, you have extra cash at the start of the next month!

I call them “fun money” because I use them for fun stuff like going out with my friends, but they are also good for new shoes when your old ones die.

I learned this the hard way when I only had 100$ every month (and remember, things are ten times more expensive in Denmark than most other places) and this system was so effective I still use it to a lesser extent.

Please listen to this 32 years old lady. I promise you, you won’t regret it. It will save you so much stress.

The Signs with a Broken Heart

This post is essentially based on my/my friends’ real life experiences.I’ll also try to include some advice how to get over this struggle. Your Sun & Venus Signs matter!

I think that today, after having written some love posts, I had to think about those who spent this day alone, because they are comfortable with it, because they don’t need anyone, or maybe because their heart isn’t healed enough to start dating again. And it’s totally fair. Heartbreak is way too underrated lately in my opinion, we think about those with a sickness, we think about those who are poor, we say that as long as you are healthy, have a place to sleep, have something to eat, you must be happy, but sometimes an emotional wound is a lot harder to heal than a physical one. When you love someone, they become the most important part of your life. You share your days with them, you miss them, you decide where to go for a dinner together because you want them to be happy too, you basically change your whole lifestyle to fit theirs. And then if one day, they decide to take their love away, it feels like only half of your life is left and you ask yourself questions how it’s possible to make it stop just like that, from one minute to another. This is why it’s so hard to get over a broken heart. And sometimes it’s even worse to lose someone who never even was yours. You start questioning everything, why does life play such a prank on you and makes you meet them, like them, fall in love and all this for nothing, because they don’t share your feelings. A person questioning themselves, thinking that they aren’t good enough for a person they love, that someone else is and they aren’t, is probably one of the most hurtful feelings.

So here’s how I see the signs being hurt and hopefully this will help a few of you. Not because you will read this post and your pain will suddenly go away, no way, I just want you to know that there’s always someone to understand exactly how you feel, that you’re not alone.


As an Aries, you can be very emotional, but real feelings don’t reach you too often. Quite careless in your young years, you might be attracted to people physically, like them in different ways, call it love, feel sadness about losing them, but only the pain of a broken heart will tell you it was real. Because 

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xjustfandomx  asked:

Hi! So I always go to your blog when I need cheering up because it's so full of life and fun so I wanted to ask if you have any long fluffy pack fics with sterek just the pack sticking up for eachother I've had a rough time with my 'friends' this week and I just need some pack being close and loving thank you!

I’m so sorry about your friends. Hopefully things have gotten better. Either way here’s some pack as family fluff for you. - Anastasia

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Feels Like Belonging by nan

(1/1 I 2,513 I Teen I Sterek)

Stiles isn’t sure why all these werewolves think they have access to his bed. The explanation is just. Weird.

The Alpha by SereneCalamity

(1/1 I 2,683 I Explicit I Sterek)

People were sometimes to surprised when they realized who the Alpha of Beaconhills was.

They Were Pack by Shippings_galore

(1/1 I 3,544 I General I Sterek)

Stiles gets the new pack to go to prom. Lydia invites the old pack members (that we all miss and love), not telling him (or the new pack) that she had also invited a certain Sourwolf.

Building Blocks by Lisztful

(1/1 I 5,417 I Teen I Sterek)

Stiles doesn’t exactly mean to start cleaning up after everybody, it’s just that, well, sometimes he thinks Derek turned them into actual animals.

hooked on (dangling by a yarn) by extantecstasy

(1/1 I 19,132 I Teen I Sterek)

One hundred days, ten scarves, one Christmas, and Stiles’ dormant magic has to ruin everything.

ladybugs by thepsychicclam

(1/1 I 20,273 I Explicit I Sterek)

It’s Saturday night, and Derek Hale is at Toys R Us. Shopping for Leapfrog games. If asked, it wasn’t exactly how he pictured his life. Or his Saturday nights.

In which Derek and Stiles have been married for ten years, have two kids, and are planning their five year old’s birthday party.

The Hale House of Mythical Creatures by Demimonde (Katherene)

(16/? I 38,224 I Mature I Sterek)

Stiles is eight when his mom dies.

Stiles is eight when his dad drops him off on the Hale’s front porch and then leaves him there.

This is the story of a little lost Spark growing up in a place that might have been made for him all along.

Living With Lycanthropy by WhoNatural

(1/1 I 44,095 I Explicit I Sterek)

Wherein they both own bakeries, Stiles tries not to run his grandmother’s legacy into the ground, Laura wants to be a better alpha, and Derek can’t seem to get Stiles’ attention the regular way - so naturally, he accidentally initiates a prank war.

(Or, if Teen Wolf was more like Gilmore Girls, with everyone far too invested in whether the Hale boy and the Sheriff’s kid will work it out, and Laura Hale wrote a handbook for alpha werewolves.)

The Littlest Alpha by triedunture

(16/16 I 52,508 I Explicit I Sterek)

Derek and Stiles have taken out the Alpha Pack and pretty much saved the world. Okay, the town. Okay, their remaining friends. But the Alphas left something behind: a baby. And this baby is an Alpha too. Derek is determined to take care of the abandoned child, and Stiles is stuck going along for the ride.

But Stiles doesn’t expect the ride to include seeing another side of Derek, or to find another way to say “family.”

Future Dreams by littlefrog1025

(14/14 I 74,773 I Explicit I Sterek)

Stiles accidentally summons he and Derek’s children from the future to the present.

between the click of the light and the start of the dream by thepsychicclam

(10/10 I 105,192 I Explicit I Sterek)

A twig snaps, and then Stiles hears breathing and the rustle of leaves. He strains to get a better glimpse into the darkness, but it’s pointless. There’s nothing but a black void.

It’s Stiles’ senior year, and he’s trying to concentrate on normal things - like the lacrosse championship, spring break, prom, graduation (and definitely not Derek) - when he starts having nightmares and waking up in the middle of nowhere. Oh yeah, and he’s being haunted by a hag. Great.

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I hate when people refer to my drug addiction as “partying”. The party stopped long ago before the addiction began, it hasn’t been partying since the very beginning  of my drug use. I may be high, but it isn’t fun anymore, certainly no where near a damn party. I need to invade my veins with smack and my lungs with crack just to function normally enough to start my day.  My life is consumed by addiction. Partying is a part of most peoples lives at some points on weekends or late nights, addiction is such a massive part of my life that when the weekend ends and the night turns to day I’m still trapped in the brutal cycle of drug addiction, this is no fucking party, it’s a nightmare.
—  journal entry 11-13-16
Jumin’s Bad Ending Guide

So, because a lot of people are asking me about Jumin’s bad ending, I decided to write post about it.
First, I apologise for my bad English :( I know my grammar is poor :( Hope you guys can understand what I’m saying xd

In this post I’m going to tell you how to achieve bad endings (yes, there is more than one) for Jumin and also show you some screenshots, so it may contain spoilers!

I unlocked three endings but maybe there is more ??? Tell me if you know, please.

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“I came here looking for Rose Quartz, not some runt who can barely dress herself.”

“Make up your mind!  Are you looking for practical fighting wear or a faux-emo aesthetic?  Who even wears two pairs of tights over each other?  You probably go through three sets a day, those star-shaped holes must rip open constantly.

“You think you can just keep showing up and making fun of the way we dress?  Why don’t you get a life?”

“FASHION IS MY LIFE!  It’s what I was made for!”

“It’s what you were made for too, you hideous scene disaster.”

“So?  You need to learn to branch out, Jasper.  Trend obsession drives you nuts after a while.”

“And I can dress myself JUST FINE!”

“Well, then, let’s see the rest of your wardrobe.”

“Look, I’m just gonna beat your face in, okay?”

Library Games (Woozi Hogwarts AU Smut)

Summary: He was just a Slytherin and you were just a Ravenclaw. Except, not at all. He was unlike any Slytherin you’d ever seen before - unlike any Hogwarts had seen before. Your ready mind wanted desperately to figure him out, and it turns out that took unraveling him one (clothing) layer at a time. Smut. 

(AN: I had way too much fun writing this. It’s longer than my dick (8500 words long) and you may need to get some snacks or take a bathroom break before you start it. Harry Potter is my life and always will be and that’s clearly reflected here. The smut is kind of at the wayside but I tried really hard, so… please enjoy it? And of course, @livingthroughtheexperience has pointed out to me the real world logistics of having sex on a leather couch…but this is fanfic. -Tanisha<3) (Also smut warning) (also i’m SCREAMING BC that picture is perfect and i’m so glad i found it)

The idea of putting students in houses in the first place seemed strange to most. Other schools didn’t do it, so why did Hogwarts feel the need? Especially after the devastation of the war - the long, painful year it had taken to rebuild the school, the many lives that had been destroyed because of prejudice and the hunger for power - the house system seemed almost ludicrous, null in void. But the new Head Mistress, Minerva McGonagall insisted that the tradition was one of the core values that school was founded on and needed to be carried on if the students were to have a ‘proper learning experience’.

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Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life (Starters)
  • “Wow. Winded!  Haven’t done that for a while.  Felt good.”
  • “I feel like this is the time to be rootless and go where life takes me.”
  • “Do you even know how Twitter works?”
  • “Why on earth aren’t you on Xanax? It was invented for you.”
  • “I don’t need a child, I have you.”
  • “I have fun. Look at all the chairs I get to put on tables.”
  • “Oh crap! I’m going to therapy with my mother.”
  • “There’s a lot being said in the silences.”
  • “He’s like a superhero, but his power is that you can’t remember him no matter how much time you spend with him.”
  • “You know, some people might say drinking coffee in the middle of the night could hinder your sleep.”
  • “People are dumb.”
  • “Explain to me again who that person is.”
  • “I don’t know how to do this.”
  • “Hanging out is not permanent. Marriage is permanent.”
  • “Sorry, did I accidentally step into 2003?”
  • “This adult stuff is hard, isn’t it?”
  • “I don’t have a great sense of humor. I know that. I’m working on it. I bought a joke book!”
  • “This is it. This is what I’m supposed to do!”
  • “Develop a creamy filling and I’m all yours.”
  • “My love life is a disaster.”
  • “Dial 911, I’m going insane!”
  • “I’m protecting you for some reason.”
  • “That’s it, we’re breaking up. Except we can’t break up because we’re nothing.”
  • “It’s never or now.”
  • “Basically I’ve been alone for 12 hours and I’m already nuts!”
  • “You never really needed rescuing … You know that.”
  • “I thought I knew exactly  what I wanted, where I was going, what I was doing and why I was doing. But lately, things seem hazier.”
  • “Everything in my life has something to do with coffee. I believe in a former life, I was coffee.”
  • “I don’t care what anybody says. Needing space is never a good thing, ever!”
  • “I think we should get married…it’s all set.”
  • “I’m gonna need some donuts for this.”
  • “Knowing when to admit defeat is one of my better qualities.”
  • “I’m not broken. Maybe just a little chipped.”
Thoughts on Quiet People

We live in a society that worships the loud, the bold, the aggressive, and the big personalities. I have always felt a sense of shame for the way I am: complex, thoughtful, shy, and occasionally quiet. Some people say, “What’s the big deal? You’re quiet, so what?” but if I felt accepted then I wouldn’t feel the need to put myself down for being this way. I have felt this unspoken resentment towards quiet people my whole life. Teachers tell me to talk more in class. My friends tell me to be more outgoing and I’m the one they forget to invite to the party. My parents say, “you were such an fun, energetic kid, but you’ve changed so much.” I’m overlooked by boys my age who gravitate towards the bubbly, spontaneous ones. People tell me to be more assertive, mean, and to fight for what I want. I feel guilty for loving alone time to just sitting silently and thinking reflectively because this is a “waste of time.” Of course I should be hanging out with friends, climbing the social ladder, and improving my social skills, but all I want to do is to escape that overwhelming pressure to perform because even when I’m trying my best to be accepted I still fall short. It feels like everyone at parties and social events is there to prove something to the people around them. It’s as if life is a competition to them. Conversation revolves around putting other people down and elevating yourself. I feel like I must speak up not because I have something that I want to say, but just because I want to be heard. I want to be liked. I want to be accepted. I want to be like those careless, outgoing people who get all the attention and love. 

Occasionally, I stop and think about how twisted my thoughts have become. 

That’s when I realize that quiet people where never the problem, it our society that needs to change. Just think about how much better life would be if people valued quiet people. Sure, there might be less talking, but there would certainly be more thinking. People would become more considerate of other people and think about how they are feeling. Greater value would be placed on intelligent,  thoughtful minds. More people would take the time to think about who they are, who they want to be, and what decisions they want to make. It would help people to start loving themselves for who they are instead of trying to compete for attention and acceptance. Conversations would go beyond surface level and it would be normal to talk about your hopes, dreams, passions, and view on life. And maybe quiet people would gain the courage to break out of their comfort zones, stand up for themselves, and speak up. 

So, I know what you are thinking. This sounds great, but how can anything be changed? 

Quiet people need to stop being quiet and start a conversation. The more this subject is talked about then the more people will recognize its negative impact and open themselves up to change. People need to promote self love among quiet people and stand up against negative statements against quiet people because…

Quiet people are worthy of acceptance and love just the way they are.

gerudoschiefs  asked:

Bruh I just came across your blog and it's fabulous. What's your opinion on all the more main characters in each race of the present day in BotW (so Sidon, Yunobo, Riju, and Teba)? I absolutely love all of them.

I love them all! Like, wow, so much. (also thank you!!)

But here we go, I’ll do in order of when I met them:

Sidon: He is so positive?? And pure?? Like, what? He grew on me super fast, and I always go back to Zora’s Domain to visit him. I need me some emotional support like that in my life. Also the segment when we ride him is honestly my favorite companion moment in the game, it was so much fun. 100% super in love with Link.

Yunobo: I loved him from the start. He is such a sweetheart, the actual embodiment of a cinnamon roll. He is such a nervous bean and needs to be protected at all costs. Link and him are best friends, fight me.

Teba: Tbh I was actually surprised they would include a married companion. After Sidon and Yunobo I though everyone was a single pringle. It was actually super cute, and I love his family, they’re adorable. He is adorable. 

Riju: Get this girl a medal, goddamn. To be able to successfully rule over a people is impressive enough, to do it when you're 13 is a goddamn gift. I love her so much, like wow. Her people adore her, and she is incredibly intelligent and knows when to make tough calls, at her age is just amazing. Can’t drive a sand seal for shit though.

A quick gb thing~

I don’t know why I ever paused drawing star trek guys ds9 is the love of my life

Fic Rec vol 5

I’m a little late this week thanks to the flu, but here are some Olicity fic recommendations. What a fun week in the fandom. Keep being awesome, ya’ll! 

A Step too Far by @felicityollies -  Susan’s latest big news story rubs Oliver the wrong way.

Felicity Smoak - A Path of My Own by @marytagus - Felicity leaves the team and returns to a familiar place. 

Understanding by @hope-for-olicity -  Post 5x15 fic Oliver needs to talk to Felicity about Thea leaving as she is the only one who understands him.

Pressing Your Luck by joyfilled_life -  Felicity Smoak is down on her luck. She heads to an underground casino to make some quick cash but ends up running into an old flame. Is her luck starting to change or has it finally all run out? I’m intrigued by this fic and can’t wait to see what happens next! 

Every life has a Moment by @laurabelle2930 Oliver and Felicity have been best friends their whole life. Oliver wants more, but Felicity’s past causes her a lot of intimacy fears. So great! 

Tell me on a Sunday by Mellowyellowdiamonds Oh my gosh, I love this fic! Digg is the Hood and Felicity is his sidekick. She accidentally rescues rich boy Oliver Queen who then proceeds to follow her about like a lovestruck puppy dog. Fun AU. 

Falling in Love by Ingret Felicity fell in love with a man she met at a coffee shop and not long after they were married. However, she starts to realize shortly afterward that the man she loves, Oliver Queen is hiding many things. 

A Day In the Life by @tdgal1  - I don’t know if I’ve recommended this one before or not, but if so, I will again because Oliver’s grammy in this story made me laugh so hard this week. Felicity and Oliver pretend to date to impress his board and grandmother. 

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Band-aid Solutions by me! -   Oliver and Felicity have and argument about her actions with Thea against Susan Williams, and they say some things they needed to say. Adult conversations that are much needed. 

They’re Already Gone by me! - Thea and Felicity leave after 5x15 and both end up in Vegas! 

Toxic (Cover)
Me and my awful voice
Toxic (Cover)

When I’m sad, I sing and play. Sometimes I just sing.

So here it is my second cover. It took a while for me to post it because like I said before I hate my voice. But I just love to sing and I feel like I need to sing everyday, you know?

I decided to cover this song because it’s a song that always make me smile and maybe it doesn’t make any sense to you that I’m singing a Britney Spears song, but I’m a very eclectic person and I thought I would have some fun recording it?! And I was right.

Anyway, I feel pretty anxious everytime I post a cover, but I really wanted to share more of it with you guys. I trust you all with my life and the way you guys supported me in my first cover made me so happy.

Hope you guys have a great day. Love you all.

P.S.: Sorry about the “wind” sound. It bothers me a lot and I know it can bother you guys as well. Sorry!

Good grief, have some fun in life.

Yesterday I ate lunch with some of co-workers. Yes, real people and not my dogs. A guy complained about a doctor appointment where an intern or student accompanied the doctor. More or less he felt it was beneath him that someone without years of experience would perform the exam. With all the fussing and worrying they do I figure guys like that have shorter life spans. Too much stress.

Long ago I needed an x-ray. A young technician brought me to the x-ray room. She looked nervous. Her preparation seemed to take extra time. Finally she looked up and said, “I’m sorry it is taking a while.” She smiled and added, “This is my first shift by myself. Just double-checking some things.”

Fine with me. If we were guaranteed to never see professionals with short-term experience there wouldn’t be anyone to do the work at all. They all need to get training and experience somehow.

“I’m in no hurry,” I told her. Actually I sort of was but if she wanted to make sure the setting is Three Mile Island instead of Chernobyl let’s give her the time she wants.

When she was almost ready she explained what would happen and added “You won’t feel any pain or discomfort.” This wasn’t my first x-ray so I knew that already. Plus if I asked for Valium the nurse outside would only laugh at me.

The technician turned off a lamp or dropped a pen on the floor. I don’t remember what it was that made the loud click but it certainly wasn’t the x-ray machine.

I squealed “Owwwww!”

The horrified look on her face was priceless. “But I didn’t even…”

With a laugh I said “I know. I just had to do that.” She grinned. Moments before she pressed the button for real she giggled from behind the protective shield. “It’s going to hurt. A lot.”

Best x-ray ever.