We hear about little dates and being little in public a lot, but for many littles, the whole idea of it can be confusing, scary, and overwhelming.
How would you go about this? What happens if someone notices? Will people make fun of you?
Well I’m here to give you a few little ways to be descreetly little in public!
💜👕 Onesies: 👕💜
A plain onesie paired with a skirt or a pair of pants just looks like a tucked in shirt. The patterned onesies may be a little harder to pass off, but you can always wear them under a dress or a shirt and pants/shirt and skirt if the weather’s cool enough.
💜🎒 Backpacks: 🎒💜
Even if you aren’t school-aged, a backpack is still a fairly commonly used storage divice. If you’re feminine presenting, the mini backpack trend is your friend, but if you’re looking for a more gender neutral look, look no further than a regular old backpack.
💜🔗 Keychains: 🔗💜
Keychains and backpack charms are a great way to express your little self without drawing too much attention. Beenie boos have a great selection of keychain stuffies, as does toki doki. And a little crown or a charm that says princess or prince isn’t too out of the ordinary. (You’d probably have to order the gender neutral versions custom, though 😢)
💜🧦 Socks: 🧦💜
Cute tights, thigh highs and knee high socks always make me feel little, but if those aren’t your speed, there’s annother way. Wearing patterned socks under long pants or high boots lets you have a little bit of littleness no one else can see.
💜👟 Sneakers: 👟💜
I don’t know about you, but I’ve always thought of sneakers as a very little thing to wear. Luckily enough, sneakes are 100% a normal thing for adults to wear!
💜👕 Oversized Clothes: 👕💜
Oversized clothes give the feeling of being physically little, and of all the oversized clothes, oversized sweaters, jackets, and shirts are the best options for everyday wear.
It’s okay if your pronoun preferences change. If you like one set of pronouns sometimes, but another set the rest of the time. Don’t ever let anyone tell you it’s too complicated - you are wonderful and your pronouns are great, and you deserve to be respected. Use whatever pronouns feel right for you at the time.
shoutout to enbies whose identities are erased because they are “too masculine/feminine” or use gendered pronouns. these don’t make you any less nonbinary if that’s how you identify! y’all are valid as heck. i hope all you strong enbies have a nice day and don’t let anyone tell you you’re not the gender you are i love y’all
Don’t feel bad or sad if you don’t have little aesthetic clothing or room. Don’t feel bad if you do. no matter your financial capability or housing situation/social situation you are an amazing little just as you are !!!
I will not apologize for being agender.
I will not apologize for being nonbinary.
I will not apologize for being transgender.
I will not apologize for being “difficult”.
I will not apologize for being myself.
Con from the nb Discord has come up with three fun little archetypes for enbies, so I’m writing up a post on cir behalf! ^^ Of course, these aren’t strict archetypes so it’s not like you fall into “just one” archetype (if any at all!), and these just stem from some of cir observations of the folks in the Discord (and just nb culture in general). Maybe you’ll find yourself relating to one, two, or all three!! Anywho, here they are:
i wanted to design the nb agents uniforms so heres a quick doodle..
3 and 4 are pretty much the same, they just have the long leggings option (bc thats common between both boy and girl inklings heh). 8 is just the two agent 8 outfits squished together, with shorts under the skirt but 1 leg is real long