Why are (some) naturals so obsessed with having a visible curl pattern? If you have to overmanipulate, constantly re-style your hair and perform the max hydration method or other methods JUST to achieve a “visible” curl pattern then there’s a problem. The problem is that you still have an issue with how your hair already looks NATURALLY. Consciously or subconsciously, you do not find your kinky hair as attractive as curly hair. I’m not talking about naturals who do braid-outs or twist-outs as low-manipulation styles, I am talking about the naturals who go to extreme lengths just to loosen their curl pattern. Kinky hair with no visible curl pattern is just as beautiful as curly hair with a visible curl pattern. Please remember that.
plus do you fucking know i long it took me to accept the natural curl pattern of my hair YEARS. You thin its just hair because you've never been told that your hair and the way it grows out of your scalp is a problem. And im gonna need racist ass people and countries to stop using so much black culture, style and everything else until they accept black people period- 3/ p.s sorry i went on a rent this shit got me heated