the biggest difference between natalie’s problematic behavior and other people’s is that immediately after she says something wrong, she acknowledges that what she said wasn’t right and apologizes. which shows that, like many of us, she’s consistently making an effort to unlearn the problematic behaviors that were probably normalized in her environment growing up. but a lot of you choose to ignore that and keep demonizing her which is pretty damn lame if you ask me

Originally posted by gurl

Have you ever thought that people pegged Natalie as fake on day 1 because they don’t believe a nice person exists ?

….because they’re assholes. The majority of us are assholes who believe genuine people can’t exist.

I can confirm that people automatically assume you’re fake af if you’re super nice to people. Then when people start treating you like shit hell no you will not sit there and take it.