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Civil discourse

When did the Golden Rule become, “Do unto others as they did unto you?” I’m so tired of, “Well, they called me names/attacked me first, so it’s okay for me to do the same back.” 

How I respond to an attack says more about me than it does about the other person.* Twice in the last month, I’ve gotten into an argument in AO3 comment threads–once on my own story, and once on another’s. Both times, I was told by friends that I was way nicer than they would have been. 

Friends, I was not nice either time. I was civil. I used polite language to make it very clear to the individuals that I did not feel that their comments were appropriate. One time my words got through to the other person, the other time they did not. But both times, it was clear to any onlookers that I was the better person.

*I’m not saying you have to take insults and derogatory language and abusive behaviour sitting down. I’m not saying you need to be a doormat. But you can defend yourself without calling the other person names and throwing that same vitriol back at them. 

And hopefully, it goes without saying that this does not apply to situations where your physical safety is in danger. If you can safely walk away from a physical altercation, do it. But if you need to hit back to stay safe, that’s an entirely different situation.

anonymous asked:

the phangate thing freaked me out for a minute but like u know for sure whoever the frick was on their team had to sign confidentiality agreements and shit like if this were someone on the team it would be illegal also wtf like it makes, no sense??? at all???, I hate it they're using phan conspiracies like may and whatever to """"expose"""" dnp why would someone on the management team use well known fandom conspiracies to state their claims who even

lmao honestly. the name of the blog is the funniest part tho like PHANGATE ARE U KIDDING ME. ngl as a joke it’s lowkey funny though

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•For my Auron~~ because I like these questions for him, but don’t be surprised if I go ahead and do the other two eventually!

▌FACE CLAIM: Oded Fehr tbh

▌NAME: Auron 
▌AGE: 35 (tho I headcanon he aged himself more than that as an Unsent because he felt older…)
▌HEIGHT: 6′0″ (which is actually how tall I am, relatable??)
▌SPECIES: Hume (Unsent)
▌NATIONALITY: Spiran (tho if Spira is split into countries/provinces, Macalanian) [real world equivalent would probably be Nepalese]
▌BIRTHDAY: (I’m self-indulgent and headcanon the Spiran equivalent of the end of February because that’s when my birthday is and winter suits him imo)
▌SUN SIGN: Pisces (8D)
▌RESIDENCE: Mountain village in Macalania > Bevelle > D.Zanarkand
▌MARITAL STATUS: Single and only wanted to mingle one time but dang that didn’t work out.
▌ALIGNMENT: Chaotic good.
▌DRINK: Whatever happens to be in that jug, and Braska’s tea.
▌FOOD: Bread and sweets. You would think he hates rations from travelling all over the world, but they’re still his favourite. Oh! And peaches!
▌DAY OR NIGHT: Admires night for solitude and stars, but is truly happiest in the sunshine.
▌SNACKS: Trail mixes with a lot of different nuts. Candy. Cigarettes if they count. 
▌SONGS: Hoo boy! Here’s part of my playlist.

▌PET: None, nor can I really see him with one. Maybe an irritable old one eyed cat that he could relate to. 
▌COLOUR: Red, gold, black and blue.
▌FLOWER: Desert Agave, blue flowers, red leaves. Protection from abuse; awakens the instinct for self-preservation. Awakening body, vitality, enthusiasm; physically and energetically present to create life. Going through battle to recover vital force and dignity. 

▌SEXUALITY: Demisexual. 
▌ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Homoromantic. Possibly biromantic?
▌BODY TYPE: Strong af, but not really cut toned muscles. I personally like to think he has a slender waist and flat feet. Really strong legs. 
▌HAIR COLOUR: Black (and then silver.)

Tagged by: @machina-queen Thank you darlin! <3 
Tagging: @summoners-path, @spiras-sunshine, @yunafied, @crimson-legend, @notionsandhellebore and @pxine~~~ and if anyone else wants to just say I tagged you =3=

thathilomgirl  asked:

IzuOcha, TodoMomo


  • Name: Toshiro
  • Gender: Male
  • General appearance: Looks more or less like a male version of his mother, but with green hair. Rather on the lanky side.
  • Personality: Outgoing and upbeat, and tends to view the world through a very positive, hopeful lens.
  • Special talents: He can control gravity like his mom, and is stronger than average, but not as strong as Izuku.
  • Who they like better: He likes both his parent’s evenly, but he can find Izuku to be a touch over-protective at times.
  • Who they take after more: He takes after his dad.
  • Personal headcanon: He loves science fiction movies.
  • Face Claim: N/A


  • Name: Akira
  • Gender: Male
  • General appearance: He has father’s quirk, so he looks like a bird.
  • Personality: Rather introverted, and a touch shy. Self conscious of the fact that he looks like a bird.
  • Special talents: He has both his parent’s quirks.
  • Who they like better: His mom.
  • Who they take after more: I suppose his father.
  • Personal headcanon: He likes classical music.
  • Face Claim: N/A

Tagged by: @pierssureshotnivans
Tagging: @selfmedicatingmayor @deathclawjunkie @pistolpxckinmama @lxmpliighter @lastofthepast @gentle-historian and anyone else who wants to do it!

FACE CLAIM • Chace Crawford
NAME •  Benjamin Asher
AGE  •  30
HEIGHT  •  6′1″
SPECIES  •  Human
GENDER •   Male
NATIONALITY  •  American
BIRTHDAY  • April 26
▌SUN SIGN  •  Taurus
RESIDENCE  • No permanent residency, tends to wander
ALIGNMENT  •  Lawful good / Occasionally chaotic good
DRINK  •  Whiskey, coffee
FOOD  •  Not overtly picky, does love a good deathclaw steak though

SNACKS  • Fancy Lads, gumdrops
SONGS  • He’s a general fan of Dean Martin, so most anything by him

PET  • None, though he’d love to have a dog
COLOUR  •  Red
SEXUALITY  •  Bisexual
BODY TYPE  •  Lean, but muscular
EYE COLOUR  •   Blue, but now also has a golden synth eye
HAIR COLOUR  • Light Brown

Hey, you see this kid? He’s a little boy. He has no control over what his father says and does. His father’s personality, language, and actions will not be changed by you cyberbulling him, calling him names, claiming he has a neurological disorders or otherwise challenging his mental state. Picking on him doesn’t make you edgy, it makes you as much of a bullying piece of shit as you’ve ever thought Trump was. His parents and half-siblings are all adults and can be judged for their actions, but he is a minor who has no say in any of this.

Leave 👏🏾 Barron 👏🏾 Alone👏🏾


Victor Nikiforov // History Maker ❉ 


since that Mountaindew post got so popular (why) I got inspired and here’s some more warrior cat OCs with terrible names 

18-year-old Sarah McKinley from Oklahoma had recently just been made a widow and single mother when her husband sadly passed from cancer on Christmas Day of 2012. The following week a man by the name of Justin Martin arrived at her door, claiming he was a new neighbour wanting to introduce himself. She did not allow him into the house. A few days later, Martin arrived at McKinley’s door once again. This time he was with another man and was carrying a large hunting knife. The two men knocked on the door and, for obvious reasons, McKinley would not allow the men to enter. They began to force their way into her home where McKinley was with her young baby. Fearing for their life, McKinley armed herself with a 12-gauge shotgun and a pistol, hid in the bedroom and called 911. While on the phone, she asked if she was allowed to shoot the intruder to which dispatch replied, “You have to do whatever you can to protect yourself.” She then shot and killed one of the intruders while the other fled. The shooting was ruled justifiable. You can listen to the 911 call here.

Big-name movie/tv producers with lots of money and resources: claim that minorities make less money and that nobody wants to watch content about women/ poc/ lgbtq people.

Small independent theatre troupe that relies on internet crowdfunding to create their shows: Makes a musical with a diverse cast, is female-led and has a female majority cast, includes a non-binary character and queer relationships without it being a big deal, posts it on youtube after its run is over and gets over 35,000 views within the first day.

Guys, it’s about time I make a confession to you all… I… I have been in denial with this for so long, trying my hardest to prove I wasn’t what I am, pushing an nonexistent hate towards it in a vain, painfully obvious attempt at maintaining the farce, but I just can’t keep this up, I just can’t deny what I am, that for the longest time many of you suspected, considering how paper-tin my actions were…

Yes, for you see, and many of you have already guessed what I’m going at at this point… I, Enrique Manzano, which for so long have shat on it, actually am…

A tiny sentient Tiger I tank, and my real name is actually Heinrich Apfelbaum, the latino I claim is me being some random dude I pay 5 euros a day to help me move around. 

“I don’t see color” when referring to race is not good. You shouldn’t mush all races and ethnicities together in a big blurry ball. You should acknowledge their differences. Acknowledge that poc face unique problems. Acknowledge white privilege. Acknowledge that the US oppresses poc. “I don’t see color” doesn’t mean you’re not racist, it means you’re ignorant.

ok so last night I decided I was finally gonna rewatch all of lazytown bc nostalgia and memes right? right but just ?????? sportacus????? is so extra??????? why is he like that

but also! the mayor told stephanie that there used to be a superhero that lived in an aircraft with the number 9 on his suit. but like sportacus??? he’s number 10. but clearly sportacus isn’t an immortal being and the mayor just forgetful, as robbie rotten is also old enough to remember this number 9 as he incredulously exclaims “there’s another one??” which begs the question what happened to number 9? why did he leave lazytown? what happened to the eight before either of them? was 9′s name also sportacus or did each of these heroes claim their own name?  is sportacus number 9′s clone? how has he survived alone in a blimp for so long?

what is sportacus hiding?

a quick note to everyone who claims that all the weasleys are named after arthurian characters

there were no popular round table knights in the legends and retellings named william, charles, fred, george or ronald (though in some versions ron is a shortened version of the name of arthur’s lance, rhongomyniad) 

or molly, for that matter, and ‘ginevra’ is a strange choice for guinevere if that was the intention behind the name - jenny is probably actually a name closer derived from guinevere.

although i do want to see an au where ron is called bors, just because that is a silly name