I received this message from my mother today. I feel like I want to share it since it made me think. Really think.
"One of my patients has a great philosophy of life. She told me that she refuses to worry about the future. Because if she does it, she puts a lot of unnecessary energy on something that she knows nothing about and then she will have screw up all the days she live in right now when she is cancer free.
Same thing goes for with what you are sad about. Of course, you have the right to be upset and I can understand that you are, but if you’re thinking too much about the future of 1D it adds unnecessary energy from your side and you might miss to enjoy the music, and the guys who are left. We know nothing about the future, try to enjoy them instead of mourn.
There is an expression that is called self-fulfilling prophecy. If all fans are beginning to behave like the group broke up entirely then maybe that sends out bad signals to the remaining guys instead of signalling what you really are; Overjoyed that the four others are still there and are looking forward to their time together. Zayn will be missed but the other guys are still there. Try to enjoy it.
Love u ❤ ️