my gender is 18 charisma

Playing D&D last night with my androgynous bard character and:

“Wait… what’s your character’s gender?”
“18 charisma.”
“….Got it, doesn’t matter.”

(And yes, we made it through the entire session with no one actually figuring out my bard’s gender, or figuring it even mattered. Even the DM was just like “the absurdly good-looking musician takes 1 damage” instead of bothering with pronouns.)