Like, the infuriating thing about “men don’t get into women’s hobbies” thing is that it’s exactly the sort of thing that patriarchy theory is supposed to explain. The whole point of it is that people are reacting to incentives and social forces beyond their control and no one person or group of people is responsible for all of this. But of course all The Discourse wants is a cheap way to designate who The Bad People are and a list of mortal sins they can accuse people of.
I know it's not new information, but the longer the show goes on the worse the plot becomes. To keep their main characters involved they've had to retcon their own work over and over until it's just a big old mess. When the show ends I'd like to see someone re edit the show so every clip is placed in chronological order, no flashback stuff. Just so we can all appreciate just how fucked up the timeline is.