my the following

stop waiting for him
to give you the world
when he hasn’t even
loaned you his heart.
—  by shelby leigh
See what your followers think!

BLACK = I would date you.
GREEN = I think you’re cute.
BLUE = You are my tumblr crush.
GREY = I wish you would notice me.
PURPLE = I don’t talk to you but I really love your blog.
TEAL = We have a lot in common.
YELLOW = I don’t know you at all.
ORANGE = I don’t like your blog.
BROWN = I don’t like you.
PINK = I think you are unattractive.
RED = I hate you with a burning passion.
WHITE = You scare me.
SCARLET = You have influenced my decision/thoughts on something.
MAROON = You taught me something new.
CINNAMON = You’re a really cool person and admire you from afar.
PERIWINKLE = You make me laugh
MAUVE = You are really talented
BLUSH = Seeing you on my dash makes my day a little better.
CYAN = We have very little in common
THISTLE = I only just started following you
INDIGO = I’ve been following you for a long time
FUCHSIA = Your blog content is gold
COPPER = Your blog content is trash (and I love it)
VERMILION = You make me feel passionate
HONEYDEW = I want to call you by a nickname
LAVENDER = You inspire me
CORAL = You’re a meme
UMBER = I want to know more about you
FORGET-ME-NOT = You remind me of somebody
RAZZMATAZZ = I would share my favorite food with you
ARSENIC = I don’t know how to describe the way I feel about you
WINE = You make me feel kinda funny, like when we used to climb the rope in gym class
SAFFRON = I love your ideas
TIMBERWOLF = I trust you
FALLOW = I want to run through the Northern wilderness barefoot with you
PLUM = I’d like to chat with you
TANGERINE = I love your aesthetic
SAGE = You make me cry
CRIMSON = We should collaborate on something!
VIRIDIAN = I wanna hang out on your blog
CHARTREUSE = You’re my homie
BURGUNDY = I get excited when I see posts from you

#and it [femshep] somehow happened by them not focusing on writing A Female Character bc shepard had to be unisex it’s so messed up #and then the few times they did focus on making A Female Character we get… that dress……. (via greytune)

grey u never fail to provide me with excellent tags. but seriously, that’s the thing about femshep that made her good! i talked about this exact concept with hoagie last night!!

bioware succeeded in writing one of the most powerful female characters of all time BY WRITING A MALE CHARACTER. 

femshep, for the most part, was completely unhindered by the male gaze and sexist stereotypes. she was badass, she talked shit, she did the right thing– or the wrong thing, depending on your temper– and she was a completely realistic soldier. from the way she walked and fought to the way she talked, she was written just as respectfully and thoroughly as a male character. 

and it was sort of an accident! they didnt put much effort into changing her character from malesheps because they didn’t expect her to become that popular! and in the process they literally wrote one of the most realistic and inspirational female characters i’ve ever seen. 

ohare-lane  asked:

6, 7, 15!

did 6 n 7 so i will just do 15 :)

15. who are your favorite simblrs/simblrs who inspire you the most?

OKAY well i am a v inspired person but here are some blogs i love <3

 @ohare-lane @cupidjuice @ghardenia @lifefroot @maxvillareal @theartofqueenie @blackthornsims @kotiij @surprisepeach @oasisgoth @yumaheights @strawberrymark  @noonicorn @our-dazed-sims @cinemasims @pinkcotton @graentea @sandy-sims @blursims @tophlair @eldrberries @literallywhothe@banana-sims @godneurosis @oasisgoth @witch-hammers @applepiedimples @zauglom @bratsims @cabsim @early-grape @kismet-sims @mummasim @calebvatore @simsao @boocreek @ceiuu @riice @femmeonamissionsims @femmesim @citrontart @loniden  @sixamsims @tofusaucee @ohkai-sims @treefish @fangflower @hsilmis @meisiu @quiddity-jones @sunnyfriendell @johnnyzest @fakefleur @wildlyminiaturesandwich @goldenpixels @alwaysimming @pickypikachu

ahh ik i forgot a bunch of people but honestly if i follow u i love ur content okay


Holy cow, man! I don’t even know where to start. I have reached an amazing 50k followers on this meme blog! All thanks to you lovely people of tumblr. I would have never thought I could make it this far. Just half a year ago I started tumblr and this blog, and I was so unmotivated. But I kept posting, and I am glad I did. I am extremely thankful for all the support I was given and this is more than I could ever ask for. I have gained experience from this journey and a few friends along the way. But there isn’t a destination for me, only a journey with no limit. So let’s keep on keepin’ on, my fellow memers! 🤗 Lemme give each and everyone of you fantabulous people a big, aggressive bear hug!


The worst feeling is sitting across the table of the person breaking your heart and not being able to do anything.
—  Random thoughts

my inner wolf -jimin

anonymous asked:

I genuinely hope you find happiness in England, and I hope the nhs can help you- free healthcare rocks :> <3

ME. FUCKING. TOO. this year has been a /catastrophe/ for me as someone chronically and mentally ill and not getting the healthcare ive needed…

man like the month i just spent in London w Sam was so good and it was so good FOR me…before i left i was so sick, i didnt think id be able to do ANYTHING while i was there…but it was amazing, being able to be with someone i really loved, who wanted to help me manage all my problems without any complaints (they went and bought a ton of food that i could eat before i even got there bc i have weirdly specific dietary needs lmao) and it was just. so nice. we were able to watch out for each other and we both benefitted from it so much. i was still sick, i still had pain and fatigue and anxiety but i also had THEM and they didnt hold any of my disability against me even once. and after a relationship where i was routinely manipulated as a result of the help i needed just to live with my illnesses, it was…world-changing.

and if i could get good health care ON TOP OF THAT boy oh boy we are in business i might actually be able to really focus on my art again and start living the life i WANT