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y'all… where is ksoo…… how is he doing…… is he eating well?? is he sleeping well?? is he getting enough love and affection?? is he lazing around in soft comfy sweaters watching a movie in his ipad?? or is he in a restaurant just eating his favourite food?? i miss he……………

im going all in bitch

mon-el is not a hero. and it doens’t matter how they try to put it, it doesn’t matter what ‘’great sacrifice’’ he’ll do in the end, he is still not worthy of being a hero. he’s a shit character. honestly, let’s go over mon-el’s story real quick here, bc he don’t even fit the ‘’bad guy who suffered so much and had a hard life so he did bad stuff but in the end redeemed himself’’ trope. nope, he’s not that. he doesn’t have a dark and painful past that haunts him and turned him into an asshole and he doesn’t ruin his own relationships and deliberately hurts people because he is in pain. nope.

mon-el was a prince. he lived it up, objectfied women (which is something that came directly from his mouth) partied and was so bad he was known by a 12 yo in another planet as ‘’the frat boy of the universe’’. he owned slaves, and he can say that he ‘’didn’t agree’’ with it all he wants, he was a member of the ROYAL family, and if anyone had power to change anything it was him. he benefited from the slavery from his planet. he had a great life in daxam with parties and women, a priviledge straight boy. then krypton was destroyed, and daxam also suffered the consequences. mon-el woke up that day and ran away, leaving the girl he had FUCKED the night before, begging him to not leave her behind. he started getting dressed and went, he didn’t look back. a coward. 

he got to the pod while people around him were dying. his people. the people he had a duty with. the people who looked up to their prince. he didnt care he left them behind. there were women, CHILDREN he could’ve put in that pod instead. but no. a coward.

then mon-el got to earth and its ridiculous how easy his life still is. he wakes up and immediately chokes the woman in front of him bc yeah thats a normal reaction and after some events finds out his planet is a wasteland. its scary how he doesn’t care. everything about his culture, his friends, people he should care about,  gone, and he just….doesn’t care. he looks constipated for 3 secs and that all he see from him, someone who just found out millions of his people are dead

anyways he arrived to a place where he suddendly had superpowers and some gorgeous and brave girl forced him to find a job and made him interested in becoming a hero to get in her pants. he slept around for a while, he got the easiest job he could find (where they even allowed him to leave during his first day) and then he fell in love with the girl and after a week of rejection she got together with him. he disrespects her, lies to her, annoys her to no end but he still got her. he still got a easy and priviledged life. when he was presented to a situation where he could show a little bit of a change of character, and go back to his planet to help his people and change how things are, he refused. bc thats not what he wants, and HIS wants will always come first, even if the cost is the pain and suffering of others. a coward.

so yeah, he’s just a priviledged manboy. he ain’t even a ‘‘bad boy’‘. he’s just an lazy, mysoginistic priviledged asshole. his existence is offensive. and he most definetly doesn’t deserve kara zor-el. mon-el is no hero and he’ll never be one.

i just watched the girls’ documentary for the first time and i’m so emotional, i cried like five times?? i’ve been a fan of them since early 2012 i think and hearing them talk about that and each other and seeing how much they’ve grown is so… i’m so proud of them? and they inspire me so much and i look up to them but at the same time it feels like they’re my friends. they’ve created this amazing thing where it feels like you know them, and where it feels like you’re special to them even if you’re just another fave in the crowd. i’ve been lucky enough to meet them twice and both times they made me feel so loved. and the safe space they’ve created for me, the support they show like. going to their shows wrapped in a pride flag and hearing them speak about how much they love us and how much they support us was so empowering and special. i cannot thank these girls enough for all the joy and happiness they’ve given me over the past few years, but also for the friends i was able to meet through them and for the confidence i’ve gained. if it wasn’t for them i wouldn’t have dyed my hair pink and i wouldn’t have experimented with make up and outfits. i love them so much and i hope that one day i can get to tell them just how much that is.

I just finished father is strange, and oh god I’m still so emotional

such a truly amazing show, like i loved how they showed each character’s flaws and brought them to a point whee they reformed for good reasons and became genuinely lovable people. i LOVE HOW the males in the show (well most of them) were such good partners, supporting and understanding and being equally there for their partners without expecting too much or demanding. 

love how they tackled issues like marriage, love in relationships, bullying, and miscarriages and the issue of how working pregnant are perceived and the impact it can have.

they are a genuinely good family and they were so realistic in how they behaved. 

The low points for me were Ra Young and Cheol Soo’s storyline, that was personal. i really didn’t care for them after they got together, it was boring.

Cha Jeong and Hye Young are definitely relationship role models. 

Hye young was a brilliantly badass character. Love her vanity and her confidence alongside her pettiness and her vulnerabilities. 

Ahn Joong Hee was such a cutie, and his move from cutely obnoxious rich kid to just a regular guy was nice. His acting is amazing-His and HY’s

Cha Jeong Hwan is husband goals

lissen i could actually go on about how i loved each and every charter barring like the two, but yea imma stop

Im really upset that it ended but it ended well, on genuinely positive notes with a great,neatly tied up ending. Yes towards the end, it got a tad bit dramatic but otherwise it maintained a very realistic family story. 

excuse me while i go cry to marry you playing on repeat