When a boy tells you he loves you, watch the way his mouth forms the words. Is his voice a stuttering apology, or as smooth as honey. When a boy first kisses you, watch his hands. Do they touch your cheek, light as a butterfly’s wing or do they grasp your hip bones. When a boy first breaks your heart, watch the way he leaves. Does his voice rise in anger, or shrink in pain. Does his absence leave a hole, or just a slight crack.