my nose looks huge

normalize imperfect skin

normalize makeup-free faces

i use ‘normalize’ here because i doubt i’ll ever feel like my eczema is beautiful and i don’t blame anyone for not looking at a huge zit on my nose and sighing dreamily about it so “make these things beautiful” seems less important and realistic than just…make them normal, make them things people don’t have to feel ashamed or embarassed about being seen with.

not everyone has the money to spend on expensive makeup or skin care products. not everyone has skin conditions that are easily fixable or simple to hide. not everyone feels like putting the effort in to maintaining totally perfect skin, even if they have the money and the body chemistry to make it happen. i’d be willing to be that the MAJORITY of people fall into one those categories and we only just feel like that’s not the case because what we see on tv, in magazines, even on social media depending on who we follow are people with soft, smooth, flawless and blemish-free skin.

and this is not a dis on those people because they’re not doing anything wrong by doing with their own body what they want to do with it–that’s their right and it’s cool! but what isn’t cool is the pressure that so many of us feel to look perfect all the time. what isn’t cool is that our self-esteem is so often connected to these little skin 'flaws’ and conditions that very often we can’t control or that going out with a bare face is something you have to build up bravery to be able to do.

people should be able to go out without makeup on and not feel self-conscious about it. people should be able to have a zit or an eczema breakout or whatever the hell your body has decided to do to you today and, while maybe not celebrating it, we shouldn’t have to feel like it means it’s the end of the world or let it stop us from going out and just buying some damn groceries.

we need to see more makeup-free faces in the media (in magazines, shows, movies, everywhere) and have skin that is slightly less than photoshop-flawless represented as much as skin that is but we also need to all work to be a little less judgmental ourselves. if we see someone in our every day life without makeup, with eczema or a zit or something else going on with their skin, and our first thought is something negative, we need to shut that thought down as it happens. we need to be on the lookout for that kind of thinking and correct it when we catch ourselves doing it.

there’s nothing wrong with not wearing makeup and zits happen and skin conditions exist but there’s something seriously wrong with how much we connect our value and self-esteem with these things. a zit should not have the power to ruin someone’s day. it shouldn’t be strong enough to turn someone who feels good about themself into someone who doesn’t. but because of the importance we place on having skin that is flawless and perfectly put together, that zit is as big as a tank that’s headed right in the direction of our self-esteem to run it over. the way to stop that–to stop making people feel so damn bad about it–is to normalize skin that is not 'perfect’ and 'flawless’ and to stop placing these expectations on how people SHOULD look because people should look however they are most comfortable looking. we need to stop thinking that means the same thing for everyone.

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Happy Aroha Selca Day ☀️💛

((Seventeen killed me and Astro are killing me one by one but I promise to do sth better next month qwq))

ratchet steve chronicles pt. 1 ???
  • Steve: *holds his nose as blood trickles from it* Look at my nose!!!
  • Ponyboy: *mutters* It's huge...
  • Steve:
  • Steve:
  • Steve: what the fuck did you just say about me you cry baby bitch i will straight DECK you, SAY IT AGAIN HOE SAY IT AGAIN
  • Two-bit: lmao okay steve,,, tone it down
  • Steve: NAH NAH NAH THIS BITCH HAS SOMETHIN TO SAY ABOUT ME, I'M 👏🏻 NOT 👏🏻 PLAYING 👏🏻 HOE. SAY IT AGAIN.
  • Sodapop: oh my god-
  • Ponyboy: jeez steve, i'm sorry, no need to get worked up-
  • Steve: nAh i'M TIRED OF YOUR CRACKER JACK BOX BOY ASS, SAY THAT SHIT AGAIN bitCH
  • Sodapop: STEVE, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD-
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Dear Diary:

w-well, we didn’t find the bar, but we did find this really cool statue!! o((*^▽^*))o

apparently if you write a wish on a paper bird and get it into leviathan’s mouth… your wish will come true! (☆^ー^☆)

the others… kept making fun of me… for buying more birds… (・・。)ゞ

it’s not like i can help it! i just really want my wishes to come true! (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧

that’s… probably a little selfish, huh… having more than one… (;へ:)

a-anyway! when we were leaving this artist stopped us on the stairs and wanted to draw us (・:゚д゚:・)

did… she have to make my nose look so huge?! ((((;゜Д゜)))

it’s… it’s not that big, right? right?! 。゚(゚´Д`゚)゚。