my life is what this soup is

This was not the first time I tried to lose weight. It wasn’t the fifth or even the tenth time. I’d tried every diet from South Beach to North Pole. Shakes, soups, supplements and starving plans and even when I’d lose some weight, I’d run out of steam a few weeks in and all the pounds would come back and bring friends.

My biggest problems was my goal. I would set a goal weight and know what I shouldn’t or couldn’t eat on a diet but I didn’t really have a clear picture of what my life looked like at that goal weight. What would I eat? What would maintenance look like? How would I move/stay fit? How did I want to live? How would I make this last forever?

For me, I decided to actuality write out rules for myself, focusing MORE on the DOs than the DON'Ts.

Weight Loss plans focus 90% on the DON'Ts. Instead of feeling deprived, I focused on feeling empowered. I could eat all these incredible foods. I sought after desirable things instead of being so focused on avoiding things that were bad for me.

Here’s a challenge: stop talking and thinking about restrictions and focus on what you DO instead on what you DON’T and instead of trying to STOP being something, you’ll see that you’re focused on BECOMING and CREATING.

anonymous asked:

Hey, did you know that Cas made Dean and Sam chicken soup? Sam says: I don't think we have the kind of mom who's gonna stay home and make us chicken soup for dinner, you know? And Dean makes a facial expression and Sam asks: You talk to Cas yet? And Dean says No. Then Sam is like: So, what, you're just gonna keep walking past each other in the kitchen(where he makes our chicken soup)not saying a word? Dean: Maybe. So if you didn't know that Cas makes chicken soup, now you do

… This has changed my life

What are everyone’s safe foods? I’m really curious if I have any that are the same as anyone else. (Mine are basically chicken noodle soup, chicken ramen noodles, applesauce, and plainer cereals like life or cheerios). I have other foods that are safe, but not the kind of safe like “I feel like I might literally be dying but I should probably eat something” foods, those are my main ones.

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What was your human name though or was it just “Nikki”

Hahaha yeah, it was Nikki. It was LITERALLY ME, like the X-Men broke through dimensional barriers and I’m like “OH MY GOD WOLVERINE’S IN MY LIVING ROOM TAKE ME WITH YOU” and shit, it was very sad.

Does Will Smith know about soup? I’ve been stressing out all day because what if he’s lives his entire life ignorant to soup. I mean, soup is so good! The poor boy mightn’t be aware of it’s existence. How would you describe soup to one who doesn’t know what it is? Maybe “cereal but with vegetables?”

anonymous asked:

friends that inspire you

all of them. they all inspire me in different ways. eva ( @fruit4pals ) inspires me to go out on more picnics and make life bigger then what’s on my phone screen. dakotah ( @dakhere ) inspires me to write more and put myself first. emily ( @the-alphabet-soup ) inspires me to laugh as much as i can and fall in love with every art piece. kayla ( @special-kay ) inspires to me to take no shit. celia ( @midnightlucille ) inspires me to love unconditionally, and be silly. god i could go on, but here are a few :-).

anonymous asked:

Does Will Smith know about soup? I've been stressing out all day because what if he's lives his entire life ignorant to soup. I mean, soup is so good! The poor boy mightn't be aware of it's existence. How would you describe soup to one who doesn't know what it is? Maybe "cereal but with vegetables?"

at first i was like wtf is this ask but now im seeing your point, does he know? how do we ask him? should we make him some soup? can we make him a good bowl of soup if we dont know his favourite kind? what if we made chicken soup and he’s more of a tomato guy???

anonymous asked:

Which parts of Voyager and Drums are you most looking forward to seeing in seasons 3 and 4?

This is less a post about what I’m looking forward to and more of a, “Here’s what I really, REALLY hope they keep.”

  • More than anything else: Claire’s life in the 20th century! The clothes, her house —how does Claire B decorate her home?! I must know these things. And then Joe and (especially) the final fight with Frank, the hospital scene.
  • Claire’s letter to Bree. Don’t know how they’d incorporate it into the show, but it’s a favorite of mine.
  • Turtle soup!!!
  • I really hope they keep the plague ship bc Claire is so hilariously sassy there. See my blog title and this post.
  • The Governor’s Ball.
  • Fergus and Marsali’s wedding.
  • “Damn you, Sassenach!…Damn you, I swear if ye die on me, I’ll kill you!”
  • …And of course, the printshop!

Haven’t gotten far enough in my Drums reread to be able to list any particulars other than Nayawenne and her prophecy.

fave quotes from my philosophy teacher

[while clutching his tshirt and shaking his fist] CONCEPTUALIZE

[with conviction] soup is NOT ice cream. there’s a DIFFERENCE here.

if you’ve ever done psychedelic or hallucinatory drugs you know exactly what im talking about

there are aliens in the andromeda galaxy that like nic cage movies

humans can scream real loud but that’s not echolocation

[after writing TiTs on the whiteboard] it stands for things in themselves. shh, it’s a real philosophical worldview.

[softly] FUCK IF I KNOW

anonymous asked:

What is your favorite soup?

I am, alas, not a fan of soup.

However, back in 2000, I went on a school trip to see Paul Gross’ Hamlet at the Stratford Festival, and before the show started, we had some time to wander around and get food.

I stopped off in a little pub called The Boar’s Head, and for the first time in my life, I actually ordered soup (probably because it was the lowest priced item and I was a broke-ass student).

It was Potato Bacon, it was made entirely on-site, and it was AMAZING.

So, short answer: My favourite soup is The Boar’s Head Potato Bacon Soup from the year 2000.

Positives for the day are pretty tough, cos I’ve been ill all day…

- found some chicken soup in the cupboard, this was a great win as I didn’t have the strength to leave the house
- my friend from work, Kris, brought me painkillers to my flat, what a hero and life saver.
- I’ve spent most of the day napping, so I’m quite well rested, still need more
- cos I’m ill now it means I won’t be ill in America 😊
- got a nice message on here from a follower
- I had lots of toast with peanut butter and banana, love that stuff
- I had a short lush bath, big blue


Hindsight is 20/20 or so I’m told.
It’s like a dream while still awake.
I still can’t seem to find what I need in a dream.
While need matures into a simple desire and feelings whither away, what I was looking for comes out as if it had been the one searching but I can’t meet the gaze.
Time seems to distort the truth as feelings become reality and even that just becomes an abstract ideal that becomes the rhythm of my life.
The colors shift and days melt down into a ring of condensation from a glass on the table.
Oh when I dream I don’t see this, it’s only in my waking hours that this reality of everything and still nothing like a primordial soup that I drink up before a new universe can be borne and leave me alone in new silence.
When I full under this is what I see, it’s desires and hopes, it’s aspirations and dreams, sometimes I miss them, other times I wish I could rip it from my skull.
Mostly they haunt me because of you, your face, eyes scanning for something you need more than what’s on the surface, greedy to consume all that you can of me.
I let them, I know it’s in the past yet in all of these dreams of waking they still grip my mind and clamp it down for another ride and another yet I still know it will never happen again, it’s all just a bad memory.

acacophanyofsilence  asked:

all of the asks in the last post!

Lavender: Name something that relaxes you.               

C a t s

Incense: List your three favorite scents.               

Lilac, moss from the forest, snow

Roots: How do you ground yourself or recharge?                

naps? I’m not sure to be honest

Silk Sheets: Any ways you treat or spoil yourself?                

 eat way too much candy

Paintbrushes: Do you have a creative past-time?             

Sometimes I write fanfiction!  

Scars: Share something difficult you’ve been through.            

I mean this wasn’t that bad or anything, but the time that dude who wouldn’t leave me alone for a year started yelling at my window was not so fun.   

Bones: Name one strength and one weakness.                     

strength: strong fingernails weakness: polite

Soup: Comfort food?  

man proper cooked food…. but like…. Seriously anything. A proper meal.

Pocketwatch: If you could be immortal or have an extremely long life span what would you pick and why?             

extremely long life, cause that sounds like there’s at least the option of death

Honeybee: Name something positive you have done for yourself or someone else in the last two weeks.             

I went to see Rogue One, that made me very happy

Typewriter: If you had to come up with ten words to describe your life story so far, what would they be?             

carefree, lucky, Whuffles, coasting, stupid, fine, away, jerk, gay, here

Blue Hair Dye: One thing you like about your appearance?     

I like my fingernails because they are pretty AND fulfull their function (that’s why I didn’t say eyes because I have glasses)

Poetry:If you have one, name a favorite book or poem.           

Hard every time… “The Book Thief“ is really amazing!!

Thank you for asking Cacaphony!

Also bonus extra Polaroid: Post a picture that makes you feel good about yourself.         

fave :’)

svd-boys-clvb  asked:


1. You woke up naked next to the last person you texted, what would you say?

“morning stud”

2. What’s going on between you and the last person you kissed?

We…talk and stuff

3. If your boyfriend or girlfriend was into drugs, would you care?

hell yeah, it’s not my place to tell you what to do with your life but i can still be concerned

4. Is your last name longer than six letters?


5. Was your last kiss drunk or sober?

sober but the ones following it weren’t

6. Have you ever wanted to have someone but you messed it up?


7. What does your last received text say?

“if you’re still not feeling better by later on tonight i’ve got you with a ginger ale, soup and a back massage, let me know”

8. How many times have you kissed the last person you kissed?

uhhh…..i don’t keep count

9. Where was your last kiss at?

in a car

10. When is the last time you saw your sister?

dont have one

11. What do you drink in the morning?

whatever is available, i used to be a big tea drinker but not so much anymore

12. Where did you sleep last night?

my bed unfortunately

13. Do you think relationships are hard?

they’re as hard as you make them, they can be smooth sailing if you communicate your needs and listen to your partner- life can also get in the way of a good relationship but again its all about communication i think

14. If you could go back and change something in the past 5 months, would you?

mmm yea i guess

15. You’re locked in a room with the last person you kissed, any problems?


16. Would you rather it be sunny or rainy?

right now i just want more sunny days

17. Do you know anyone with the same middle name as you?


18. Are you wearing jeans,sweatpants,or pajama pants?

no pants

19. Do you think you will be in a relationship 3 years from now?


20. Does anyone like you?


21. Have you ever kissed someone with a name that starts with an S?


22. Is the last person you kissed gay?


23. Is there a person you CANNOT stand?


24. Have you ever considered getting a tattoo?

hell yeah but i keep changing my mind

25. In the past week have you cried?


26. What breed was the last dog you saw?


27. Do you dry off in the shower or out of the shower?


28. Have you ever kissed a football player?

mmm no

29. Do you think you’re old?

i feel old when i hear my joints crack

30. Do you like text messaging?

i do

31. What type of day are you having?

an awful kind- ive been on the verge of hurling all day

32. Have you ever thought about getting your nose pierced?

trying to decide whether i should go through with it now actually

33. Do you prefer warm or cold weather?


34. Is there a person of the opposite sex who means a lot to you?

for sure

35. Would you prefer a relationship or a fling?

a relationship i gotta admit…

36. Are you a simple or complicated person?

simple-just talk to me

37. What song are you listening to?

Love$ick-mura masa & A$AP Rocky

38. When you say you’re sorry do you mean it?

for sure

39. Is there a girl that knows everything or almost everything about you?

yeh two of em actually

40. What made you start liking the person you like now?

he’s so fucking smart and is constantly teaching me things- he’s also so much like me we just click

41. When did you last receive a text message?

uhhh a couple of minutes ago

42. What is wrong with you right now?

ive gotta hurl

43. How well do you know the last female you texted?

surface level for sure- coworker level

44. Does anyone disgust you?


45. Would you date someone right now if they asked?

i guess

46. Are you in a good mood right now?

surprisingly yea

47. Who was the last person you talked to in person?


48. What color shirt are you wearing?

blush pink

49. Has someone recently told you something you didn’t want to hear?


50. Anyone you’re giving up on?


51. Do you hate the person you fell hardest for?


52. Have you ever thought about giving up on someone but couldn’t?


53. Do you like rain?

yell heaHHH bud

54. Do you care if your boyfriend/girlfriend drinks?


55. Have you ever liked somebody and never told them?


56. Do you like to cuddle?

very much so but i overheat quickly unless ive been out in the cold so i have to back off for both of our sakes during summer times unless the ac is on blast

57. Are you shy?

at times

58. Do you get along with girls?

for sure

59. Have you dated the person you texted last?

i have gone on dates with em yeah

60. What do you carry with you at all times?

uhh my necklace is always on me … does that count

61. If you were paid 1 million dollars to spend the night in a supposed haunted house, would you?

yeah, give me charger, an outlet and my phone and i will be chillin in a corner there

62. Do you think you can last in a relationship for five months?


63. Think back to October, were you in a relationship?


64. The person you like kisses you on the forehead, do you find this cute?

you get positive reinforcement for that shit with me bud

65. Did anything “cute” happen in the last week?

i fell asleep and woke up to him playing with me hair

66. How old are the last three people you kissed?

oh fuck i know one of em is 23 … the others ….23+ ….sue me i dont know for sure

67. Would you rather pay to get your nails done or do them yourself?  

i like to do em myself

68. Which do you like better- Zebra print or leopard print?    


69. Do you have any stickers on your car?    

seeing as how i dont drive or have a car to call MY own…no

70. Would you rather listen to Luke Bryan or Lil Wayne?    

tf is a luke bryan?

71. Blackberry, Anroid, or iPhone?    


72. When’s the last time you had pizza from Pizza Hut?  

four nights ago

73. Do you like diet soda?    

ugh no

74. What color are the walls in your room?    


75. Are you 16 or older?    


76. Do you watch Pretty Little Liars?    


77. Do you have a job?    


78. What are your initials?    


79. Did you ever have braces?    


80. Are you from the south?    


81. What does your last status on facebook say?  

dont have one  

82. Do you still talk to the first person you ever kissed?    


83. Are you closer to your mom or your dad?  

mo right now

84. Have you ever done cheerleading or gymnastics?  


85. What’s the last movie you saw in theaters?  


86. Do you smoke?    


87. Would you rather wear heels or flip flops?    


88. Is your phone touch screen?    


89. Do you normally wear your hair straight or curly?    

however it is in the morning is how i wear that shit

90. Have you ever snuck out of your house?    


91. Would you rather swim in a river, lake, or pool?    

in a river if i could

92. Have you ever made out in a car?    


93. …Had sex in a car?    


94. Are you single or in a relationship?  

not single  

95. What were you doing last night at midnight?    


96. When’s the last time you saw fireworks?    


97. Do you like the camera on your phone?    


98. Have you ever had a friend with benefits?

yeah buddy  

99. Have you ever passed out from drinking?    


100. Are you friends with people on facebook that you actually hate?  


101. Have you ever had a pregnancy scare?  


102. Name your favorite Kesha song:  

kiss n tell is the only one that comes to mind

103. Do you have any tan lines right now?    

not right now

104. Would you ever wear cowboy boots with shorts?  

cowboy boots? i have nothing against it so yeah i guess