my hair is doing things today and i'm like what

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can you believe that this bat actually got some sun today??? 🦇☀️

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lgbt-wholock-idk  asked:

Hey. So. I recently came out a gender fluid to my boyfriend and my friends. And my boyfriend keeps acting weird when he says she and I go he today. He says he's not ok with me when I'm masculine he said he can't deal with it. I don't know what to do. He's not supportive with my decisions (like wearing boxers, not shaving at all, and that fact that I'm considering getting my hair cut to eat length). I know I should break up but I don't want to. It seems like such a harsh thing to do.

It’s definitely not a harsh thing to do. You deserve to be with someone who respects your identity. It isn’t harsh to cut toxic people out of your life - if he wants to be with you and is worth anything, he’ll change and accept you. Don’t sell yourself short, I’ve been in the same position where my partner would literally laugh at me when I brought up my gender and say he only saw me as a girl (I’m afab). I ignored it because I loved him but it’s extremely unhealthy to be in a relationship where the person doesn’t even respect you enough to use the right pronouns. Run far and fast. 

- Peach

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this became one of my favorite shirts from like the very moment I found it so naturally I’m going to wear it to therapy today ✌

My morning routine has always been to wake up, shower and get dressed, nap, and leave for school or work. No makeup, no hair care, no particular thought about what my clothes look like. Mostly because I’m lazy and value sleep more than how I look. I am not going to take the time to do beauty things, I just don’t want to.
But the thing that’s kind of fucked up is that my family used to shame me for that. My step mom told me I was depressed (I was not at the time she said it). My dad told me I’d be prettier with makeup. I always had to defend my lack of beauty.
Nothing’s changed much since then except that I’ve grown into a more naturally pretty type of person. My hair is long and straight, my face is usually clear, I wear dresses because I like them and they’re easy. I no longer have to defend my lack of maintenance on my looks. But goodness knows if my hair was still short and messy or if my clothes were still dark and baggy, if still be fielding these types of questions.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing hair, doing makeup, caring about your clothes, etc. Y'all rock that shit! Your personal beauty standards are awesome! But I think some people need to be reminded that it’s okay to choose not do those things as well. Don’t tell someone they’d be prettier if they did x or ask why they choose not to do y. Let us all exist in our own type of beauty, not just your type of beauty. The only comments on people’s appearances should be that they look good with whatever they choose to do or not do.

The sag-man
  • Nope, this is not a story about a superhero ("THE SAG-MAN", lol), but a sagittarius blew my mind today.
  • So! I work at a church this summer, the only thing I do is to sit in a chair wathing people come and go, and then this bikerdude comes in and starts talking to me.
  • Sagittarius: So, you work here this summer?
  • Me: Yep!
  • Sag: Do you go to church regularly? You know, besides working here?
  • Me: No, I'm not christian. I just work here, but I think it's pretty interesting to see how christians act and behave in church. Like, what they do when they are in a church.
  • Sag: But do you believe?
  • Me: Noo, not really.
  • Sag: But you have to believe in something? Almost everyone believes in something, and then there is those who believe in nothing. They still believe, even though it's nothing, it's believing.
  • Me: Hm.. I've never thought about that. Well, I don't know what I believe in I guess!
  • After this he started to talk about people believing, and then he said:
  • Sag: Do you believe in the big bang?
  • Me: Yeah
  • Sag: I don't. Stephen Hawking has walked away from his own theory, beause it doesn't make sense that it's suddenly a big bang out of nowhere. It had to be something before all this. How could a big explosion happen if there was nothing?
  • Me: Huh.. I've never thought about that.. It makes sense
  • Sag: And there are sooo many galaxies, planets and stars, and are we supposed to be the only one living here? If so, what's our purpose? If we're the only planet with life, there has to be a purpose to that. And if there's other planets with life, what's the purpose of that? Are we supposed to meet?
  • Me: ....*mind blowing*
  • Sag: If you walk outside, look at the nature. Look at how beautiful and unique it is. Why? There has to be some meaning of all this, that's hidden. That we don't know about yet, or we'll never know about it. Nevr know the meaning of why we excist. Or is there a meaning? Why us? Or why not us? And the universe is constantly expaning, or maybe it's just pulsating?
  • Me: .....*mind blowed*
  • Sag: WELL! I'm going to buy a cookie now. Really nice church, bye.
  • Me: ..........Whaa..t..