my friends say i look like him


So hi hello I’m your local friendly Barista that works in a very popular brand of coffee (has a mermaid logo) Okay so I’m Asian, born in China, but I was adopted and have been a legal US citizen since I was 9 months old. Anyhow this middle aged man comes up with his daughter and his daughter brings in a friend (this is important for later) and he orders his drinks for the girls and himself. No biggie. So I start making the drinks and I hear him ask me very clearly “Excuse me are you a refugee?” I legit stopped dead in my tracks, I thought I misheard so I asked him to repeat himself. He did.. he genuinely asked me if I was a refugee or veteran.. and I looked at him like he had 3 heads. And so I explained briefly that I’ve been an American my entire life. And he tries to defend himself by saying that this particular coffee brand company is hiring refugees. That may be correct.. but most of the refugees are coming from Syria.. which is in the Middle East?? I don’t look Middle Eastern at ALL. The kicker was remember the daughters friend? She was Asian.. and heard the whole conversation. I’m ?????

anonymous asked:

So I'm a hetero/demiromantic ace, and I think it's funny how I never really understood what people meant when they thought someone was hot. Like... I found a few guys in high school aesthetically pleasing, and that's simply what I thought "hot" meant. So whenever I would say "so-and-so is hot," my friends would just be like, "Oooohhh! Are you gonna ask him out??" And I would always think, "Frik no. Why would I do that???" Idk. It's just funny to look back on :)


I remember having to lie & say someone I thought looked nice was my crush in middle school

anonymous asked:

so like this guy that likes me knows I'm making a TOG cosplay... and after asking who I'm going as (Aelin) he says "lol what do you think I'd look funny with the white hair? :P" and I'm just sitting there cringing because I was expecting it the moment I told him I was cosplaying in the first place. He's not even hot and he won't do my precious bby justice one bit HaAAALP 😢

Here is what you say my friend

“I just prefer to go on my own, it’s nothing personal.”

No sugar coating, no patting his ego, but not being an ass yourself either. Plain and simple “no thanks.”

If he gets pissy, THEN destroy him.

anonymous asked:

"snalk (snart talk) to me, mick." "Im gonna snunch (snart punch) you in the fucking head if you dont shut up." "Mick youre literally my only friend, damn it, pay attention to me." "Snuck (snart fuck off." "... my coldbabies wouldnt treat me this way."

my favorite part about this ask is that it implies that mick and len use snanguage amongst themselves, I want this to be a widespread thing like I really hope this catches on to where ppl casually slip it in their fanfics where mick is like “PASS ME THE SNALT” and in a quieter voice he says “snart salt” and everyone looks at him like “what the fuck are you talking about” and then eventually it’ll catch on enough to where it gets written into the show, everyone talks in snanguage whenever the rogues pop up anymore

anonymous asked:

What is your honest opinion about the other admins?


So Jamie has been one of my closest friends since at least Dashcon now. She is so absolutely creative and talented and so much fun to hang out with. I’m so glad we’re on the blog together, and did you guys know she’s one of my bridesmaids?

I always forget just how Ravenclaw Caitlin is and then she says and does things and I’m like YUP perfect Ravenclaw right here. She’s like the little sister I never had and I’m so proud of all that she has accomplished??? Like, she’s so smart and creative and free spirited and I think if I was 10 years younger, we would be friends, or I’d look up to her immensely.

Justin is so much fun and I’m so glad we can do stuff together irl. He’s such a wine mom and I love hanging out with him and his people. He’s such a Slytherin and watching his mind work is fascinating.

To boil it down, I LOVE MY FELLOW ADMINS

-Amy (Hufflepuff)

For all the Namjoon stans out there

I just saw a post where a girl said that she told her friends that Namjoon is her ideal type and they told her to stop joking so she is asking herself if it is normal that he is her ideal type. I have a lot to say on this subject, but I’ll try my best to keep it short.
The first mv of BTS’ that I have ever seen was Dope. And I fell in love with Namjoon’s voice and that’s how I got into BTS. I’m the kind of person who falls for things like voice color and personality first, looks second. But, I was genuinly shocked when I saw posts calling him ugly. Because from the beggining I thought he was really good looking. Like above average. And not everyone needs to think that way. Even though general ‘beauty standards’ do exist, beauty is still in the eye of the beholder, and there is so much more to attractivness then looks. However, people’s opinions are greatly influenced by the opinions of the whole group (read about Ash’s experiments for example) and someone labeled Namjoon ugly at the begginig of their career, and now most people, being the sheep they are, blindly follow them, withouth caring to take a closer look. I’m not saying it’s not ok to think he is not good looking, I’m saying that people don’t even give him a chance. And do you ever wonder why they attack him on the basis of his looks? Because they got nothing else. Everything about him is above average, even his looks but someone said that his looks are not good enough so people easily conform to that and use that as a fact. This really irritates me to no end, but what I’m trying to say to you, other Namjoon stans who feel the same way I do is - don’t be bothered by those people because they are a bunch of sheep who can’t form their own opinion. I’m not saying that everyone who doesn’t like his looks is like that, just the people who use that to hate him. And one more thing. I think we’re making a mistake by writing ‘How can anyone call him ugly, he’s gorgeous!’ under his photos because we become a part of the issue that way. By bringing this up, we’ll never be able to let it go. That’s why we should talk in a positive manner, without even mentioning the word ugly and soon enough, it might just go away. I love all of you Namjoon supporters out there and I hope he gets showered with love and compliments for the rest of his life! 💜

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.