my friend wanted me to do this

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a good mm loving// ♡

Kisses with Jimin...

Jinmin

Very much the type to kiss a lot, even in front of their friends. Not to a disrespectful level, but, say, if one of them is leaving while the other is staying, expect to see a quick peck on the lips between the two of them. Mostly gentle and sweet kisses–comparable to the softness of angel food cake. Think of kisses under the mistletoe. Good-night kisses and sweet see-you-later kisses.

Yoonmin

Kisses between them would seldom be seen by their friends. They have no problem showing off their love to the world, but they feel no need in having to be physical about it. Private kisses in the comfort of their own home, ranging anywhere from short and sweet to deep and passionate. Think of perfect kisses for the current mood. Never awkward.

Jiseok

Think…messy or sloppy kisses. These two are so gross, they probably don’t even think about other people around them when they feel like kissing in public. Their friends would hate being around them when they get into one of their moods. Innocent kisses? What are those? Sure, they may happen on the rare occasion, but Hoseok can’t really control himself when it comes to Jimin’s irresistible lips.

Minjoon

When it come to Jimin, Namjoon is a bit more gentle than people would expect. Kisses between these two would almost always be comforting and reassuring. Sweet kisses that make Jimin’s heart flutter. That’s not to say that Namjoon doesn’t have his moments where he just wants to devour Jimin. Who doesn’t get those moments?

Vmin

This the perfect kiss. Anytime. Every time. All the time. These two have such telepathy, and the best understanding of each other. As for the types of kisses, well, they would depend on Jimin’s behavior. Imagine soft and sweet kisses when Jimin is in one of his nice moods. Now think of more possessive kisses when Jimin gets just a little too flirty with other people, and Taehyung kisses him like he wants to remind Jimin who he really belongs with. Think forehead kisses. Kisses on the hand, and even cheek kisses.

Jikook

Jungkook is such a fluff ball that he probably showers Jimin with the sweetest kisses any time he wants them. Still, Jungkook can be quite possessive over Jimin, so every kiss, no matter how gentle or rough, seems to be a reminder for Jimin of just who it is that he belongs to. Butterfly kisses are definitely a thing with these two.

Person: “Sure I like Captain Kirk!”

Me:

Person: “He’s like Han Solo! That devil-may-care hero trope is my favorite!”

Me:

Person: “Plus, talk about a ladies’ man!”

Me:

One of the hardest things is to watch someone slowly lose interest in you.
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The first time Nishinoya asked him out, Asahi’s insecurity made him question why somebody so optimistic would want somebody like him. Nishinoya decided to take this opportunity to help Asahi understand his reasons before he made his second attempt.

Asahi kept finding new notes long after they started dating and kept every single one as a reminder.

Right to Left ples.

based on this post

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Day Five: Emptiness / Late Night Talks

For @bsd-rarepairweek !!!! Sadly I didn’t have time before the week to get ready for various reasons so this is the only day im doin,,,, im sorry;; /);O;/) ;;

When every social media platform you log into has Valentine’s Day DLC spoilers

Originally posted by wonderlandforgirls

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I brought some oranges to work yesterday but didn’t eat them so this may have happened =D

[ image description: A screen shot of a post that reads “Don’t cross oceans for people who wouldn’t cross a puddle for you.” Someone has crossed this out with a big grey X and underneath added “No, do it. Do cross oceans for people. Love people, all people. No conditions attached, no wondering whether or not they’re worthy. Cross oceans, climb mountains. Life and love isn’t about what you gain, it’s about what you give.” End of descripton ]

I hate this post, I hate it so much. And let me tell you why.

At first it seems like a pretty good post, right? You should love people and do things for them because you want to or because it’s nice, or just because you love them, not because you expect something in return. Yeah. We learn that as kids. But listen. Listen to me. It is not that simple. Yes you should do nice things for people. Carry in your grandmother’s grocerys even if she forgets to say thank you. Sure. But you should never, never, pour yourself into someone who does not give back to you.

Doing everything for someone who gives you nothing in return is not love.

A friend of mine worded it really well “The point of the original post was to emphasise that your own mental/physical health is more important than someone’s selfish needs.” It’s not romantic to run yourself into the ground for someone who can’t even be bothered to care about you. And not only is it not romantic, it’s unhealthy.

I have, on more than one occasion, “crossed oceans” for people who I do believe loved me, but who didn’t even come close to crossing them for me. And do you know what I got out of that? The first one I lost 10 pounds because I was so miserable I could barely eat and I was throwing up what I did eat. And I was still doing whatever I could to be with them, and make them happy, even though they didn’t seem to be willing to put any work in themself. Why bother, I was always there. The second one I ran my own mental health so thin that that literally could not do anything for him, all I could do is sit in the bathtub and think about how I coudln’t feel anything. But I still refused to turn my phone off and ignore his messages. I still made myself avaible to him because he “needed me.”

There was nothing romantic about either of those situations (note: only one was a romantic relationship but the idea of giving and giving and giving when you’re gettin nothing back is romanticized whether it’s in a romantic or platonic relationship.) There was nothing beautiful or selfless about it. It was miserable. I was miserable. I can remember one of my friends telling me he missed me because all I could talk about was the person I had allowed to become my whole life.

And in the end, both of them stopped talking to me.

Don’t believe anyone when they say the second part of that post. It’s bullshit and I’m really tired of seeing it romanticized. It tells people (especailly young girls) that this is an okay way for a relationship to be, that this is what they should be doing. 

There is nothing selfish about demanding that your emotional labour be reciprocated. That’s what makes a relationship (romantic, platonic, or otherwise) healthy. That’s what love is. Both people giving. Both people supportin each other. Not one person giving until they have nothing left for themself. 

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Some YOI! Iwaoi babs ☆ For @tartatail​, Happy Belated Birthday Ell

  • Nino: ok wait I have an idea
  • Nino: you gotta call out 'babe!' and see who looks up
  • Nino: I'll go first
  • Nino: BABE!
  • Adrien: lmao nobody even flinched
  • Nino: you try then
  • Adrien: I will
  • Adrien: BABE!
  • Nathanel: what?
  • Marinette: yeah?
  • Chloe: you called?
  • Nino: what the fu

MY PARENTS JUST SURPRISED ME WITH AN EARLY BIRTHDAY PRESENT BIRD
I HAVE A BIRD
IVE BEEN WANTING A PET SO BADLY EVER SINCE MOVING OUT
I HAVE A BIRD OF MY OWN GUYS
IM CRYING SHES SO CUTE

my life is 1000% better when I’m listening to carly rae jepsen

LEMONY SNICKETT’S A SERIES OF UNFORTUNATE EVENTS IS NOW ON NETFLIX PLS GO WATCH IT.

Pros of watching this masterpiece:

  • Stays close to the source material (though im only on the 3rd episode  so)
  • Niel Patrick Harris as Count Olaf
  • Kronk’s actor is Lemony Snickett
  • gives each book 2hrs, unlike the movie which shoves 3 books into an hour forty-five
  • Montgomery Montgomery exists and is a good uncle
  • this is a great series and everyone should experience it
  • netflix made it so no commercials
  • there are jokes bout the no commercials and other meta jabs

Cons:

  • There are small bits of filler that might take away from the intense mystery, BUT they aren’t bad and explain a bit
  • its 8 hours of content at least so you might not sleep tonight
  • its only goes to the fourth book this season
  • nothing else, my only complaint is that i cant watch it all tonight.

Please go watch the show, I love these books and more people need to experience this story, its delightfully dreadful.