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Anna: No. You see, if you had a child, and that child was taken from you, if the child was sent to the moon, there’d never be one day when they were out of your thoughts, nor one moment when you weren’t praying for their welfare, even if you knew you’d never see them again. 
Molesley: That’s you and Mr Bates? 
Anna: That’s me and Mr Bates. 

“But you see, when your only child dies, then you’re not a mother anymore.  You’re not anything really.  And that’s what I’m trying to get used to.”