So uhhh child services pretty much doesn’t give a shit about you unless you bruise easily, apparently emotional and sexual abuse barely fucking matters and if you’re physically abused then you have to be able to bruise, which didn’t even happen when my dad stripped me down and whipped me with a belt till I passed out and shit blood.
I’ve spent the last week dealing with my school counselor being absolutely fucking terrible to me. When I mentioned being sexually abused, she said “are you SURE? because that’s a very strong accusation” like seriously she needed to shut the hell up. And then I explained the tickle game, and while she was on the phone with child services she trivialized it as much as possible, like “the student was talking about a tickle game that their dad played with them but it sounds like it was all in good fun” and no, it wasn’t, he reached in between my legs, that’s fucking wrong. 1% of rape cases actually end in a conviction, she could at least do me the decency of letting me get away from the person who raped me.
Then she skimmed over the physical abuse even though that’s the worst part for me, and only focused on the emotional abuse, which she told me was the least likely to result in anything.
Then yesterday I was talking about how she called child services to my friends, and she walks up behind me and says “you know, if you keep talking about this, were going to have to call child services again” and she already knew that she called them so she needs to shut the fuck up but SHE SAID IT LIKE A FUCKING THREAT. That is NOT how you treat getting help for abuse! It was fucking disgusting.
My friend has had similar experiences with this counselor, who had said the police probably wouldn’t care if there was no physical evidence for their rape. My counselor in Oregon did the same thing.
Can people just give a shit about kids for once in our fucking lives?
I think my uncle was the one who molested me as a child but I'm afraid to say that because I have no memory of who it was but I know he molested my dad (his younger brother) when they were young and there was a court case of my dad accusing my uncle of molesting me. What do I do?