my boyfriend doesn't know about our relationship

anonymous asked:

My boyfriend will want to have sex with me someday But I'm asexual He doesn't know yet If I told him our relationship would be over in a few months I think 99,9999% of men would leave me for not wanting sex and honestly it's a normal "desire" but I don't want to sleep with anyone at all, thinking about it even is extremely disgusting for me

This may not be what you want to hear, but I think you should tell him, its important to be honest because then he won’t feel like he’s being deceived or something. Your boundaries are important also, so if he says no sex is a deal-breaker, then don’t feel pressured to give in. I think it’s a difficult plight of the asexual to be such a minority, but keep trying and be honest because you may find someone who feels the same way.