my babies are friends with my other babies

anonymous asked:

The thing is the baby goes to bed and we're supposed to think he would just awkwardly hang around her family? 1yr olds don't party into the night lol when my sister's baby turned 1 we had a little party in the day just family then we went out clubbing to celebrate with her friends while my mom stayed with the sleeping baby. Nothing louis did yesterday was weird

Then stay in your lane and enjoiy what you got! Why bother coming here and annoying me? As always, your side look at one detail and tries to explain it, usually with the not all mothers/fathers/kids/whatever tool. I look at the wider picture and I go mmm, nope. Have I come and insulted you? bothered you? no, so :)

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A Baby Adult’s Guide for Adults-To-Be

So I’m twenty, which doesn’t really make me a fully-fledged Adult, but it does make me like a level one adult so I’m gonna make a little post of advice for those younger than me who are approaching Baby Adulthood for the first time. Not that there’s a second time. Anyway.

Notes: I am based in the UK so this is true for England; some things might be different in other countries. Also, this is all my personal advice from me and my friends’ experiences so disclaimer: I am not an expert don’t take this advice as gospel.

  • When you leave school: 
    • take last-day pictures. obviously. 
    • it’s true that you will now have your pick of anything you want to do, your everyday life is not dictated to you by law anymore. this is not necessarily a good thing and it will take SOME TIME to learn how to make your own choices and build your own life. 
    • it’s true that as soon as school is over (assuming you get the grades you needed for uni if you’re going to uni), your grades, your social standing, etc. will not mean anything. you know what will? your extra-curricular stuff and your close friends. 
    • (seriously, if it isn’t too late, don’t give up your hobbies. if there’s something you wanna do or try or get into, try it while you’re young; by the time you get to uni, it’s way harder to try things without already knowing how to do them, because a lot of people in the extra-curricular clubs will be ahead of where you are. not getting a head start at skills I wanna build is my obstacle as an adult rn.)
    • try to keep chatting on the group chat. ours hasn’t been dead for a single day in the two years since we left school, and it’s what keeps us all friends. school is such a great friend-making environment, you might not get such a great chance to socialise that regularly again. 
    • (that being said, it’s okay if you’re not close to anyone at school; you can meet new friends as an adult, of course)
  • If you can resist it, try not to watch youtubers’ vlogs, especially those who are your age: their life seems painfully attainable, but you’ll be giving yourself overly high expectations. These are not ‘normal lives’ and you can be happy with far less than they have.
  • Find a hot beverage that you like and start every day by making yourself one. it creates the illusion of routine, which is something you lose when you leave school tbh.
  • On living away from your parents’ house:
    • have a first aid kit containing bite and sting cream, anti-bacterial fluid, painkillers, plasters/band aids, cold medicine, and bandages. yes, bandages. you honestly never know. case in point; I broke my toe yesterday and I am glad af I had bandages. 
    • if your parents are good, get them to keep their phone on or near them at all times, even at night, in case of emergency. never be afraid to text them adulthood-related questions.
    • it’ll feel weird at first, but soon you’ll be amazed at how well you can cope on your own. 
    • don’t forget to pack empty containers/bags etc. it’s the easiest thing to forget to pack.
    • remember your room is truly private now; express yourself however you like in there.
  • You will probably be alone a lot more. be prepared for this; it can be surprisingly hard. But, you’ll realise how invaluable your own inner voice can be to yourself. You might start referring to yourself in third person. that’s fine.
  • If you get to bed at a reasonable hour, set an alarm for the morning even if you don’t have to be up. don’t do this all the time, you need lie-ins sometimes, but waking up at noon by default will screw your body and your day up. 
  • Food:
    • if you don’t buy the unhealthy option, you can’t pick it when it comes to eating time. so buy margarine instead of butter, brown instead of white bread, quorn instead of meat, etc. 
    • but make sure there is always some kind of sweet treat available.
    • always keep an easy/ready meal in the freezer for days when you can’t/don’t want to cook. 
    • make a side-salad while your dinner is cooking to make your meal insta-healthy. 
    • brinner (breakfast food for dinner) is occasionally a good idea. 
  • Walk places if you can. It saves bus fare and counts as exercise.
  • Try not to have lunch/dinner out on your own, if you have a choice; this saves money for when someone asks you to have lunch/dinner with them. 
  • Practical things:
    • forty degrees (Celsius) and short wash/eco cycle is fine for 99% of your clothes. most clothes are less fussy and delicate than our parents would have us believe. just make sure they dry somewhere warm, or outside, or they’ll smell damp. 
    • if you can afford all-in-one laundry pods they make life so much easier.
    • in winter, have the heat on for about two/three hours in the morning and the same in the evening. adjust as appropriate. 
    • multi-surface anti-bac wipes can clean everything. 
    • to clean a toilet, gently pour bleach around the bottom of the rim where the flush water comes out, in a circle around the whole bowl, brush with a loo brush, then flush. clean the rest with wipes. 
    • a no-wipe/no-scrub daily shower spray you can use after every shower saves deep cleaning it. 
    • keep every manual. all of them. 
  • Taking a ton of personality/aptitude tests seems like a gimmick but it’s a great way to start getting to know yourself; you’ll need to get to know yourself now you’re making your own choices. 
  • There is no ‘right way’ to do grocery shopping. there is no ‘right way’ to do most things like that. you just have to let yourself find your own method.
  • Car stuff:
    • if in doubt, pull over and call your parent(s)/a friend.
    • you can drive while you’re having dizzy spells but you probably shouldn’t.
    • the same goes for worn out break pads. 
    • the longer you leave a problem unchecked, the worse it can get.
    • Park and Ride services are great.
    • learning to change a tire is probably a good idea. 
    • if you can afford to fill your car all the way up, you’ll be thankful for it later. 
    • keep an emergency/overnight bag in the boot/trunk. 
  • Choosing your life routes/goals/career/uni course:
    • most other people don’t know what they’re doing, either. 
    • pick a course you enjoy, not just one you want to work in; you probably won’t end up with the job you’re planning on anyway. 
    • having no goals and no idea is not an evil; life is so unpredictable that what you work towards is rarely exactly what you get anyway.
    • don’t make snap decisions not to do things. do make snap decision to do things. 
    • if you can find someone willing to share what they think you should do, it’s fine to ask. they might give you a great idea you didn’t think of. just don’t let them decide for you. 
    • keep a simple diary of everything you do and record how much you enjoyed it, how invested your were in it and how energised/exhausted it left you. then look back and you’ll be able to see what you like doing and what you don’t, and therefore how to choose what makes you happy.
    • ‘follow your dreams’ is nice idea that can leave you super disappointed with a perfectly happy life. choose passion if you can, but always stick to realism. shoot for the stars but don’t expect to reach them; imagine you’re shooting an arrow or throwing a discus, aiming beyond the target in order to hit it. 

This got way too long. I’m thinking I should stop.

Going out when you’re the mum of a newborn is so stressful. Well not exactly newborn, James is three months today my baby. I think I’m going to cry, well that might be the exhaustion. Even if I can’t drink much I feel like I’m tipsy on exhaustion. Don’t let me drive. But yes, yesterday was fun anyhow, I got to look good for a couple hours before getting back into my ugly clothes. Anyway, for those who don’t know me I’m Lily, and apparently I make no sense. Hi.

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Here are the requests from the 400 follower stream special except for 2 of them cause they are bring saved for later today. Cause I was given no context for them I’m saving them to do something with them to hopefully make the requester very flustered >:3

Here is what was requested:

Baby Bones Underswap Papyrus requested by @jumpyscaredycat

Sans with Katana requested by @crendor-loves-cox

Burgerpants Happy World requested by my sister Joy

Chibi Goat Hadoken requested by my friend Jarod

Pre-Core Gaster requested by @fluffymilktea

Underfell Baby Bones  requested by @qthorror

Sans and Papyrus in Kilts requested by @bd0011

The other 2 requests are from @seraphiixiao and @do-not-tough-my-tardis but those are saved for later today~

anonymous asked:

if niall is your unplanned third baby who are the others?

Listen, I’m glad you asked. I am very passionate about this subject of them as my kids. My friends have suffered.

Louis is my first born. The one I expected the most, anxiously so. From the moment I found out I was having a baby to the first time I held him, it was all new and unique and magical.

Liam is my second born, the one I swore it’d be the last therefore he was my lil’ baby for a long time and even when he is a little annoying, now all grown up, I still love him so so much and know he is trying his best.

Then comes along a divorce. A new marriage and my new partner brings Zayn with them, from their old marriage. We never had an easy relationship as I am not his real mom and after the second divorce, we don’t talk much anymore but I carry the good memories with me.

Then there is Niall, my unplanned third and he knows he is unplanned so things are a little strained but he is talented and bright and just a joy. His siblings adore him and nothing makes me happier than to see them all coming together.

And last, but not least, my little boy. The last one. The tiny spoiled baby Harry. As youngest children go, he gets whatever he wants from me. All he needs is a smile and sometimes a pout and I will steal the moon and stars and give it to him, just to make him happy.

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Here are some final pictures I took of my girl, Hyori. She was the sweetest, most well tempered pet I’ve ever had. She loved people and other rats and loved to play, climb, and give kisses. She’s been staying with my best friend @i-m-snek while I was planning my wedding and, recently, finding space in my house. Due to unfortunate events, she birthed a litter of babies and began to bleed internally, as something must have gone wrong with her birthing moments. In these pictures, you can see her ears and skin are white, the pink gone. My bestie took wonderful care of her, made sure she stayed warm, and gave her lots of final treats. I gave her a tiny piece if Mandarin Orange to lick on before we put her to sleep. She left peacefully and with just as much love for us as she’s always had. She was definitely tired and I didn’t want her to suffer anymore.
Laura found some shiny stars and soft substrate to lay her in so she looked comfortable and natural as we put her in the box.
I love you baby girl. You’ll be a part of my yard for good ❤✨💛

I’m checking the muses I tend to rp more, and apparently they’re quite the opposite of my own personality in some points: they’re sociable, brave and strong (not necessarily physically), I also consider 3 of them gryffindors (this including Vivi). Of course it’s not a rule for my main muses but. I kinda really wish I was more like them.

My Jealous Boyfriend

WARNING: NONE, This imagine shouldn’t contain anything which could hurt you

Posted on Instagram: 4th November, 2015

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It was Wednesday evening. Jason was in his gang meeting. Yup, Jason McCann is my boyfriend. He’s criminal but when he’s with me he’s maybe the best boyfriend whom anyone can get. 

I was sitting on the couch and texting with my best friend Harry. We have known each others since we met each others first day in school. He could always make me laugh for his stupid jokes like now too. I heard how front door opened and Jason walked in the living room where I was.

“Heyy, baby! Have you missed me?” he asked and throw his jacket on the couch next to me where he sat later too. “Have you?” he repeated but I didn’t still answered. “Y/N! Is anyone there?” he wawed his hand in front of my face. “Mhh.. yeah..” I mumbled and started giggle. “Who with are you texting, baby?” he asked and grabbed my phone.

“Harry.. hmm.. ” he read before I was able to grab my phone back quickly. He looked me suprised. “Again? What’s so cool with that guy?” he asked. “Hmm.. maybe because he’s my best friend and he’s actually really nice guy” I snapped and continued texting.

“That makes me even more suspect you for texting some inappropriate things with him” he hissed and walked in the kitchen. “Aww.. is my boy jealous?” I teased and smirked. “No.. I just..” he mumbled but stopped quickly. “Aww..” I tilted my head and walked after him in the kitchen and sat on his lap. “It’s okay, Jason" 
He shook his head and chuckled.

“What are you talking with him?” he asked. “Just normal things. We’ll probably go shopping later” I smiled. “No way!” he raised his voice a bit. “Why not?” I asked suprised of his comment. “Because you aren’t.. you stay here with me” he said and tried kiss me but I stood up from his lap quickly before he was able to do it.

“You can’t stop me hanging out with my best friend so I’ll go now even without your permission” I said and took my jacket on the stand. “Y/N!” he raised his voice again. I tried took the car keys but he was quicker and grabbed them on the table. “Give it to me!” I said frustrated. “No.. you stay at home when I’m here now” “Jason, now!” I yelled and looked him angry but he didn’t give them still.

“Okay not then.. I’ll go by my bike” I groaned. However he grabbed me by edge of my jacket sleeve and pulled me closer him. “Why are you so persistent?” he asked and kissed me softly. “And why are you so jealous?” I mumbled between the kiss.

I pulled off and took my jacket off. “Okay. I don’t go there but you have to tell me why have you been so protective these days? I mean about that Harry thing. He’s just my best friend nothing else..” I said and waited his answer. “Oh really? What are those messages like: ‘I miss parfym smell of yours’ or ‘I can’t stop think about you and your..’ ? Huh?” he said and walked closer me.

“What? Are you kidding me? Where did you heard or saw something like that” I asked shocked. “In your phone.. and don’t act like you wouldn’t know” I said and now he was inches away of me. “I know that all, darling” he whispered.

“Jason.. those messages were just a rude jokes..” I giggled and looked him. “Jokes? Haha.. baby you’re bad liar” he chuckled and picked me up on his arms. “Maybe I should show you who you belong to, shouldn’t I?” he asked and smirked. “No need to.. I already knew. I belong to you, Jason and only for you. We can call Harry and ask about those messages if that will make you feel better” I said and kissed him.

“I believe you, baby. Maybe I should learn to be better boyfriend and not suspect you” he mumbled blushing. “You can’t be better because you’re already the best” I giggled. “Okay.. whatever.. what do you wanna do tonight?” he asked. “Let’s just chill.. maybe order a pizza or something” I said and we walked in the living room. “Sounds good”

anonymous asked:

baby gay story: when i was like 6 i had the biggest crush on my best friend and i kissed her on the forehead and i was like,,, um why did i do that???? and i was super confused and then i asked my mom if i could marry my friend and she said that friends couldn't marry each other only boys and girls could marry and it broke my poor little gay heart

this is sad but also kind of funny bc this implies that 1) people who get married aren’t friends, only lovers, and 2) boys and girls can’t be friends

anyway I hope where u live u can marry a girl someday anon to help mend ur poor little gay heart

larendipity replied to your post: Its funny that after we said that the pic Phoebe…

It’s definitely super weird considering the circumstances. For example, my best friend is also super close with my sister so she posted pics of my niece to her instagram when it was her first birthday. My sister was a single mom so we spent a lot of time around our friends so my niece grew close to my best friend. Louis’ situation on the other hand is completely different.. He doesn’t have custody and the baby doesn’t have that close ~relationship with his sisters friend

exactly. that person met “freddie” once and there’s still the privacy request to be considered too.. but i’m honestly not surprised, they already placed her with the baby before christmas, it’s equally funny and inevitable