my 18th birthday is in 2 weeks

anonymous asked:

I turn 18 a week before my spring break and I really want to have top surgery during spring break. Does anyone know if it's possible to go to top surgery consultations and get it scheduled before I turn 18? In other words, would it be possible to get top surgery a week after I turn 18? I apologise if this is answered in the faq, it's kinda hard for me to read

Jay says:

It depends on the surgeon! You might need permission from a parent for the consult, but specific surgeons’ offices can tell you for sure. I did have one consult without my parents’ permission. I had top surgery consults 6 months before turning 18 and had top surgery 2 weeks before my 18th birthday. It’s all up to the surgeon.


2nd week of school finished, and these are calc homework that I did :)

going to a friend’s house to celebrate her 18th birthday this weekend, so I am excited!

2/36 weeks of school

I was tagged by @thats-so-haiven Thanks!

answer 30 questions and tag people you’d like to get to know better!

1. Nicknames? Sabs, sabsies, super sabrina, sabrina galoshes, bina

2. Gender? genderqueer/gendervague…basically a whole bunch of ??? with a heap of “does that even exist?”

3. Star Sign? Taurus

4. Height? 5′6″

5. Time? 5:26pm EST

6. Birthday? May 18th

7. Favorite bands? Marianas Trench

8. Favorite solo artists? Dia Frampton

9. Song stuck in my head? Here Comes a Thought from Steven Universe

10. Last movie you watched? Uh….Harry Potter probably? I’m not sure. I haven’t watched a movie in quite some time. 

11. Last show you watched? Watching Avatar: The Last Airbender right now. Last week we watched Legend of Kora and I maaaaay be special interesting. 

12. When did you create your blog? This blog? 1/12/2016 My original blog was created back in November 2010

13. What do I post? stuff relating to autism, adhd, disability, chronic illness, feminism, and anything else I find of interest (which, lately, has involved a bunch of Steven Universe)

14. Last thing I googled? my little pony movie

15. Do you have any other blogs? I run the blog @autism-asks with a team of mods. we answer questions about autism. 

16. Do you get asks? Pretty regularly 

17. Why did you choose your url? It’s based on a doctor who quote:

“When you’re a kid, they tell you it’s all… grow up. Get a job. Get married. Get a house. Have a kid, and that’s it. But the truth is, the world is so much stranger than that. It’s so much darker. And so much madder. And so much better.”

18. Following? 788

19. Followers? 2121!!!!! I love all of you so much

20. Favorite colors? Purple, red, and black

21. Average hours of sleep? 4-5

22. Lucky number? 3

23. Instruments? Piano, flute, piccolo, hand bells, guitar, 

24. What am I wearing? A long, soft, black skirt and maroon shirt

25. How many blankets do I sleep with? Two. A soft, fluffy comforter and a heavy comforter

26. Dream job? I would love to be paid for my activism

27. Dream trip? Hm… I really, really want to go back to the Wizarding World of Harry Potter

28. Favorite food? I don’t know… all my tastes have changed recently. 

29. Nationality? American

30. Favorite song right now? Here Comes a Thought- Steven Universe 

I don’t feel like tagging people, so if you want to do it, please do!

I don’t have a lot of time to draw… To much things to do for school. And my birthday is next week. (18th October if you didn’t know) I feel so old…. -sigh-

Whatever I hope you will enjoy these few sketch ! My Graylu family makes me so happy  *^* ♥  I love them so much ♥ I wish someone could make a fanfiction about them. Baby Mila and baby Silver are so damn cute ! >w<

From right to left :
Random boy 1: Look look ! It’s Mila !
Random boy 2: She’s so cute…
Random boy 3: We should ask her to play with us !
Silver: What the hell are these stupids guys saying ?!! (<- He has a little sister complex)

Mila: Big brotheeeer ♥♥
Silver: Mila what are you doing ? Don’t hug me like that, you embarrass me.
Mila: But I love you big brother !
Silver: Damn… You’re so annoying…

Silver: Daddy ! Daddy ! Let me see your magic again, please !
Gray: Okay but just one more time.
Silver: Wooooh…
Mila: -try to touch it because it’s shining-

Lucy: Look Gray ! She’s playing with Plue ! Come here with the camera and take a picture !
Plue: Pun-pun…

Gray: Come here Silver. Say hello to your little sister.
Silver: Hello ! I’m your big brother. Can you be a boy please ?
Lucy: Come on Silver… We already told you it’s a girl. -laugh-
Silver: I don’t wanna a girl !
Gray: I think it’s too late…

Silver: Mommy I don’t thing she listen to me, she doesn’t respond. If she was a boy she would say something.

Lucy: And you’re ready.
Mila: Mommy, it’s my turn to brush your hair !
Lucy: Didn’t you brush your doll’s hair ?
Mila: I want to brush mommy’s hair too.
Lucy: I have a better idea. Let’s brushing your father’s hair 

anonymous asked:

goddam boi 😭😭 why didn't you tell me it was your birthday I gotta draw sth for you!!! (might be a little late thoughhhhhh)

MY BOI don’t even sweat it!!!! my birthday’s on the 19th and at least for me it’s still the 18th for like 2 more hours (and then another 24 hours on top of that eyy) so there’s definitely no rush!!! ^^  ❤︎  i’d be super happy if you drew something for me but also no pressure my dude, your happy birthday wish makes my heart blossom too  ❤︎

anonymous asked:

So recently it was my 18th birthday and all of my friends from high school forgot about it. It's been 2 weeks I don't know what to do (don't need to answer if you don't know what to say)

honestly I’m not really sure what to say to this, but I really hope it was all just a big misunderstanding - like if you didn’t mention it and they got the date muddled up? It really sucks though, you should mention it to them though (or at least I would were it me). I hope you had a good 18th nonetheless hon <3

Lads for like 2 weeks in november, the Sun & Venus are both in Scorpio and then specifically the 16th to 18th of November, the Sun, Moon & Venus are all in Scorpio HOW FITTING IS IT THAT MY BDAY IS THE 17TH LOL MY 19TH BIRTHDAY BOUT TO BEAT MY ASS WITH SCORPIO ENERGY SOS

Family Matters|Part 3

TW: Death of a family member. Also please be aware of the next few parts when it comes to triggers. I don’t want anyone upset so please read with caution xx

Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 Part 5 Part 6 Part 7 Part 8 Part 9

His apartment was cool. Full of old books and case files. An unfished chess game sat on a table by the window. You watched as he cleared away the stuff on the couch and grabbed blankets never moving from just inside the doorway. You wondered if that was what your dad was like or maybe he was like his mum. You hadn’t discussed anything about your lives yet, but it would come with time.

“If you don’t mind me asking y/n what is your full name? So I can get Garcia to make sure you are…you know?” he stopped what he was doing to look at you.

“your sister? Sure Y/N Grace Diana Wilson” he looked shocked at something. His eyes were wide again but he smiled. “What?”

“Diana is my mother’s name.” He smiled at you and for the first time he was actually happy “If you want you can get in the shower? It’s right back there.”

“Thank Spencer.”  You headed to the bathroom. Throwing your bag on the floor you locked the door, pulling your sweat shirt over your head and folding your pants neatly. You turned the shower on and let it run to get warm.

Just before you hopped into the shower you noticed the mirror. Stopping and staring at your body you felt old demons creeping in. Looking back on what you used to be. Before she got sick and you had to be the strong one, before you had to keep a clear head. Snapping out of the trance you turned away from the mirror needing to feel clean again you scrubbed at your skin.


Your hair pulled into a bun and your sweatpants on you grabbed all of your stuff and headed back out to see Spencer. Placing your stuff next to the couch you turned around to meet Spencer carrying a bar of chocolate and a bowl of popcorn.

“I figured we’d need something to get us through this. There’s going to be a lot of talking tonight.” You laughed as he dropped all of the food on the table “So? Tell me about your mum?” your smile faded and eyes dropped.

“As I said, our dad left just after I was born so she was the only one I had growing up. We were really close, told each other everything. She was there when people broke my heart and when I got really sick. And I was there when assholes broke her heart, well as much as I could be. She was a writer, wrote crime novels, funny huh?” You both chuckled “Then 2 years ago she got sick. Lung cancer, we fought it. Tried everything but eventually she got too sick and it was terminal. She died on the 2nd June. 3 weeks after my 18th birthday.” You fought the tears but it was no use. It was still hard to talk about her. You looked to Spencer, his eyes sad; he reached out and hugged you. “What about Diana?” you smiled.

“Dad stayed until I was 9. She has schizophrenia and Dad couldn’t deal with her. I helped look after her for a long time but I had to put her into a home eventually. She is a great mother though, she has never done anything to harm me and I love her to pieces. I think she understood what it was like for me, being so different from the other kids, so she always encouraged me to be the best I could be. I will introduce her to you one day.” His face lit up when he spoke about her.

“I’d love that.” And that’s how the evening went. Back and forth with questions about everything; school, work, love. Spencer had so many stories about the people he had dated; the girls and the guys. And you told him about the ones you’d dated. About how you’d lost the house, and been sleeping on couches. Eventually you both got tired. You began to drift off to sleep as he crept to bed.

“Good night little sis”

“Night big bro”


1. Age: 21, 22 in March 2. Race/Ethnicity: Half Jamaican (Mom)/ Panamanian (Dad) 3. Location: South Florida 4. My Tumblr SBs are like my friends. I tell yall ERRYTHING. 5. Fave Sugar Blogs: TBA 6. Sugar Start Date: few months after my 18th birthday 7. How many SDs I’ve had: 3 8. Allowance: 2-2.5 a week (Money for my bills, business, Savings acct, etc). Some weeks He wont give me cash money and im okay with that. He too has bills and things to take care of. He takes care of my needs so on weeks I dont get anything I dont cry about it. Im not a spoiled brat. And I actually respect him because of that. He teaches me the importance of saving what I have, investing and needs vs wants. 9. Perks: Shopping and occasionally a business trip here and there and my school tuition is paid (paid for my remaining 2 semesters because I lost my bright futures :p ) 10. Public or Discrete: We go out in Public together. He doesnt look his age. 11. Secret Life or Open Book: My mom and bestfriends know about him. I dont go putting our entire business out but if a person asks I dont lie. 12. Anything Else: Before I met Jet I had 2 jobs and had money, I model part time, was designing clothes in my house, and did hair. Having a SD shouldn’t be because you are desperate for money because you lose your self worth and will succumb to even the lowest of an allowance. Unless all you want is your phone bill paid for. Main started me off with 500 a week. As our relationship grew so did my allowance. Those just starting off. Simply think about what your needs are and base what you want off that. About Jet (current SD) 1. How we met: Marketing Event in Orlando 2. His age: 40 3. Race/Ethnicity: Half Black Half Hispanic 4. Kids: No 5. Married: No. 6. Sex Involved: Yes You do not NEED to have sex with a guy to have him be your SD. Main and I didnt have sex. He was just obsessed with having me around. Mini Advice: Know your limits and boundaries before becoming a sugar baby. Know your age limit. Are you willing to travel? Do you want something discrete? Would you date a married man? Know why you want to sugar in the first place. Being a sugar baby or being an escort can be risky. Try to find at least 1 friend (sugar baby or not) that is local and close to you that you can keep updated on your whereabouts when going on dates with POTs. Your life is more precious than any amount of money. Also do not compare yourself to another sugar baby. I use to envy MANY sbs when I first started. And it took me a lot of time, research and messups to finally get to the point I am now. Envying them didnt make my life any better or worse so there was no point. Dont try to be someone you arent. Like I stated before. Jet loved how into my business and marketing that its what attracted him to me. So be you and The right person will find you.


🌴 6th June 2015 🌺

Hi folks! Realised it’s been an absolute AGE since I checked in on Tumblr, so I thought I’d pop back in to bring myself (and you guys) up to speed.

It’s been a crazy few weeks, what with the last week of secondary school, graduation, and of course the ol’ Leaving Cert, which I’m currently half way through (Hence why the attic looks like a bomb hit it). Thank goodness for the weekend!

Thankfully English, Geography and Maths 1 are done, so this upcoming week consists of Irish, Maths 2, French and Art History. Finishing on the 11th, which happens to be my 18th birthday! So yeah, things are looking up - only 5 days until FREEDOM! ☺️

How have you all been? To any of my fellow LC students, hope the exams have been treating you well, we’re almost there! 🌸

anonymous asked:

You're so young to be thinking of marriage~!

I mean, I’m not just “thinking” about marriage… I’m in the early stages of planning a wedding. At this point, my marriage to Joey is not an “if” but a “when”. 

But you’re right. I’m not even 20 yet (I will be this month). But it’s not like I met Joey at a frat party 6 months ago. I met Joey when I was 15. Our parents had to drive us on our first date because neither of us had a license. 

This is us in 2010:

(yes, this is me with braces)

(yes, this is Joey with his skater-kid hair cut)

I’d never had a boyfriend. I didn’t know anything other than that I liked this guy, and I wanted to date some before college. There was no intention (on my end) of our relationship lasting a long time. I just wanted to have some fun with this guy from class who liked my music and made me feel special. 

And it was fun. It was great. 

We went to carnivals.

We went to Junior homecoming

We went sledding

We went to Junior prom

And somewhere in there, I stopped wondering when it would end and started working on making it last. We learned to deal with disagreements and family troubles and my depression and his anxiety. We learned about each other, really getting to the heart of what it meant to love each other.

And then it was my 17th birthday, which meant we had been dating for a year, and I thought that was pretty neat. 

Then we went to Bayou la Batre, Alabama on a mission trip. I got to see Joey’s heart: his tireless servant heart, his patience, his willingness to do anything to help others. I fell in love a little more, and he met Jesus there.

(still a skater kid at heart)

We went on more adventures.

Johnson shut ins:

A float trip:

And I was realizing that Joey and I were a pretty great thing, that maybe, despite the odds, our high school relationship was something that could last. But it was scary; I didn’t want to be that person who was so set on their high school romance that they miss out on the cool parts of growing up.

We also knew that, with me pursuing interior design and Joey heading toward physics or engineering, there was little chance of us going to school together. So that meant long distance. What did that look like?

But it seemed silly to end a relationship because of what-ifs, so we started our senior year of high school together.

Our senior homecoming:

And when I look at these pictures, I have to smile at how much more comfortable we are together here than in the pictures from our Junior year.

I cheered him on at his robotics competitions (and brought cookies for the whole team, because I’m definitely that girl)

We went bowling with our youth group; we were the oldest ones there, and we always had so much fun

I threw him a surprise 18th birthday party on our spring break 

And then it was senior prom, and our senior year of high school was winding down:

And then… it was time to graduate. And it was my 18th birthday. And we had been dating for 2 years. (It was a crazy week)

We knew we were coming to a crossroads in the relationship, and that was hard. We milked that summer for all it was worth. 

We went to Shakespeare in the Park (my favorite date; we go every year):

We went to Chicago on another mission trip. We were very diligent about no PDA, so anyone who didn’t come with our group didn’t know we were dating. The girls from other groups really liked Joey and kept talking about how amazing he was. He was so oblivious.

We went swimming

And then… we left. The night before he left, we cried a lot. There was a sense that nothing would ever be the same. We knew that this was the testing grounds; long distance and living on our own would help us know if we were going to make it as a couple.

We didn’t see each other much, but when we did, it was magnificent. Our time together was very little and very spread out, tied together with Skype calls and text messages.

And then the first year was over, and we breathed out, and I knew this was it. For sure. I wanted him with me for the rest of my life. I wanted to marry him. This is the only picture I have of our 3 year anniversary:

It took awhile for us to realize that we weren’t in a high school relationship anymore. But we settled into being adults a little bit more, and we were 19, and it was exciting. Our parents got rid of curfews, we started planning the future, and it was all so exciting. Summer is the only time we aren’t hours apart, and we take advantage of that.

More Shakespeare (this was the perfect night; it shines so brightly in my memory):

Trips to the zoo:

And back to school for year two of four. He came down to see me, and we had beautiful times:

And Christmas came again…

And we went to look at rings, and I realized that this is it. This is my life. And I love it. I love it so much.

He turned 20 in March:

I cried that night. I was so insanely happy that I couldn’t keep it inside me. The silly boy I flirted with in class became an amazing man who loves me sacrificially and beautifully. He paints my world with adventure and happiness. He leads me through life, he walks beside me, he looks at me with love in his eyes. He sends me texts like these:

And he dresses up with me and goes to balls where we escape with me carrying my heels to sit on the roof and look at the stars. 

Yes, we’re young. We’re wonderfully young. We’re so young that he is the only love of mine. When my kids ask about my firsts: dates, kisses, hand-holding, I will be able to say that those all belong to their daddy.

Our age isn’t something I’m scared of; it’s something I rejoice in. I get to spend my whole life loving Joey. I do not know what the future holds, but there’s a chance that I will get to love him for over 60 years. Isn’t that wonderful? That I am so blessed to have found my heart’s love so young? 

I think it is. I’m so excited. My story has been wibbly and wobbly and scary sometimes. Having Joey with me is a gift. Every day is a gift. I’m not going to waste a single one.


Emily Bett Rickards Birthday Appreciation Week (Day 1): Favourite On-Screen Role(s)

Is it bad that I’m so tired but can’t sleep because I’m dreaming about all the characters I hope to one day play? #dreambig ALWAYS

Weight Loss Journey

BMI (Now): 40.7: 260 lbs :Obese

BMI (Future): 24.9: 159.2 lbs: Normal

SW: 260

1GW: 234.8 by Dec. 31 2017

2GW: 209.6 by Mar. 31 2018 (My 18th Birthday, BTW)

3GW: 184.4 by Jun. 30 2018

FGW: 159.2 by Sept. 31 2018

LBS to Lose: 100.2 LBS

Days to Finish: 395 days

Weeks to Finish: 56.4 weeks

Years to Finish: 1 year, 4 weeks, & 2 days

hey im baku and im mentally ill trans + poor and my birthday is coming up soon on july 18th! i never do much for my birthday cause money is always tight but if you have any spare change and you wanna grab me something off my amazon wishlist that would be mighty kind of you. theres no pressure + feel free to ignore this but i thought i might as well throw this up. thank u!! love u all lots darlings

the one with the boyfriend tag



Originally posted by hemmo-butt

“Cal, can you do something for me?” You asked sweetly as you set up the lights and camera equipment to film your new video.

“What is it?” He replied, looking at you suspiciously.

“Will you film a video with me for my channel?” You said and Calum instantly rolled his eyes.

“Why do you want me to be on your channel so bad? You always just talk about make-up and clothes and hair! I know nothing about that stuff! Besides you always secretly film me for your vlogs and do weird commentary,” he laughed.

“That’s because I’m hilarious and everyone loves it! Please, you only have to answer some questions. The Boyfriend/Girlfriend Tag is the most requested video on my channel, I must give the viewers what they want!” You begged.

“Fine but let me go fix my hair and change my shirt,” he said and walked out of the room.

You finished setting up your equipment and pulled up the questions on your phone. You scanned through them and squealed with excitement. Calum came back in with a clean shirt and neat hair.

“You ready?” You asked as you fixed the focus on the camera.

“Yep,” Calum smiled and sat down on the couch. You fiddled with the camera some more and then sat down right beside him. After a couple takes, you finally got a good intro.

“Are you ready for the first question, Cal?” You grinned excitedly.

“I feel like I’m taking a test in school but yeah, I’m ready,” he said.

“How did we meet?” You said and Calum’s eyes went wide.

“Umm,” he said and scratched his neck nervously.

“You don’t know how we met?!” You cried in horror. “You’re the worst boyfriend ever. I’ll answer that question, I suppose.”

“I’m sorry, baby. It was like 5 years ago,” Calum whined.

“Whatever. I was a friend of Luke’s and I was at his house one day and Cal and Michael came around unexpectedly and Luke introduced me. We knew each other for nearly a year through Luke but we weren’t really good friends but then we grew closer and after about 6 months, Calum asked me out,” you said.

“Oh yeah! I remember now,” Calum said and wrapped his arms around your shoulders, pulling you in for a hug. “Sorry, I forgot. I’m a bad boyfriend.”

“True but I love you anyways. Next question, where was our first date?” You said. “Get this wrong and you’re sleeping in the spare room, Hood.”

“I know this! We played laser tag with Luke and Michael, it was us against them, and afterwards I took you out for dinner. The laser tag wasn’t really the date part because Michael and Luke were there but I guess it still kinda counts,” Calum said and you gave him a high five.

“Okay, what was your first impression of me?” You said and gave him a stern look as if to say, ‘Answer wisely.’

“First of all, I thought you were dating Luke because you were laying on his bed watching a movie together. I honestly thought you were really pretty and friendly. You were funny and you laughed at everything, you were really happy. You were super out-going and you seemed really trustworthy even though I had literally just met you,” Calum said.

“Aww, baby!” You gushed. “Give me a kiss.” You took his cheeks in your hands and pressed your lips to his.

“I’m on a roll, hit me with the next question,” Calum laughed when you pulled away.

“Where was our first kiss and how was it?” You laughed, thinking of your horrid first kiss.

“Oh God. It was in Michael’s granny flat and it was just horrible. We were so awkward and then in the middle of it Michael’s mum came in looking for Mike! Thank God, our kisses aren’t like that anymore,” Calum laughed.

“That kiss used to give me nightmares!” You laughed. “Okay, the next question is, when did you meet my family?”

“The first time I met your mum ever was when she gave me a ride home with you after school because it was raining and the next bus wasn’t for another 45 minutes. The first time I officially met your family as your boyfriend was at your brothers 18th birthday so your whole family was there, as in your grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. I was totally shitting myself because I was terrified of your brother and I was really nervous to meet everyone else in case they didn’t like me and we’d only been together like 2 weeks. To make it worse, you looked absolutely gorgeous that night,” Calum said.

“You were scared of my brother?” You laughed. “You guys are like best friends now! I think he comes over so much to just see you, not me.”

“Hey, I was this scrawny sixteen year old and your brother and his friends terrified me but then when we started talking it was cool,” he defended himself.

“Okay, next question is, do we have a tradition?” You said.

“Um, I don’t really think we do. We go to my parents for dinner every second Sunday. We do date night every week, I guess that’s a tradition,” Calum said.

“Yeah, we don’t really have a set tradition. What was our first road trip?” You read off your phone.

“Oh, this is a funny story. So Michael and Ashton had gone to Melbourne for something, I cant even remember what it was, and when they were coming home their flight got cancelled. There wasn’t another one until the next day but they needed to be home because Ashton had an exam at Uni at the same time as the next flight. They called me and asked me to drive 8 hours to Melbourne and me being the idiot I am said yes. I called (Y/N) and asked her to come and that’s it really,” Calum laughed.

“Oh my God, that was so much fun but I didn’t want to get in to a car for 2 weeks after that. Who said 'I love you’ first and where were you?” I asked.

“Aww, things are about to get mushy,” Calum laughed and pulled you closer to him and kissed your head. “One day, (Y/N) was sick in bed so I decided I would be a good boyfriend and I brought her over some movies, junk food and a McDonalds. She was laid out on the couch with tissues everywhere and I gave her a hug and handed her the McDonalds. She went 'I love you. Thanks so much.’ and I literally froze in her arms and I didn’t know what to say so I just said 'Your welcome.’ and pretended I didn’t hear it.

It was like a month later and it was our 6-month anniversary so I took you out for a dinner. You came back to my house to watch some movies and just chill out and I just said this huge speech about how much I love you and how much you mean to me. I didn’t even plan it out but you just looked beautiful and I thought I never want to do this with anyone else and I’d been thinking for a little while that I think I loved you since before you said it to me first so it just sorta came out. You said that you love me so much too and when you said it to me a month ago that you meant it.”

“Yep, that’s how it happened. I cried and Calum cried too,” you nodded.

“I did not!” Calum said.

“You so did! When I went home, Luke texted me that you went over to his and you fucking bawled your eyes out saying that you love me,” you laughed. “Just admit it, you're a big softie and you were head over heels for me.”

“I still am head over heels for you, baby girl,” he grinned and kissed your nose.

“I’m going to have to edit out so many kisses,” you whined. “Control yourself, dude, you’ll have me all to yourself when this is finished.”

“Dude?” Calum laughed and with a roll of his eyes he added, “Just ask me the next question.”

“What do we argue over the most?” You said.

“I know, it doesn’t look like it in public but behind closed doors we argue about everything. No, actually we just fight with each other the whole time, even in public,” Calum laughed.

“It’s not even fighting like we literally argue over the dumbest things and then we just start laughing and that’s it. For example, we could be in town or something and we would be deciding where to get lunch and Calum would purposely say something the total opposite of what I said. He does it on purpose, just to annoy me! If I said we should get Italian, he does be all whiny like, 'But, babe, I got a pizza last night with the boys.’, and it’s so freaking annoying,” you said.

“No, what about you when we go shopping? I would be reading off the list and I’d ask (Y/N) to go get shampoo or something and it would be like 10 minutes later so I’d have to go look for her and she would be standing in front of a display of shampoos comparing about 10 different bottles. It all does the same thing! You only need it to wash your hair,” Calum said.

“Okay, I must stop you there. Buying shampoo is the hardest decision of my life because I always use the same but if I want to try out another one I want it to be great. You guys can back me up in the comments,” you said.

“I cant believe we’re arguing over what we argue over,” Calum laughed. “To answer the original question, we’re both super annoying people and we love to annoy each other so we argue pretty much everyday over everything.”

“That’s pretty true. Next question is, what’s my job?” You said.

“YouTube counts as a job, right?” Calum asked.

“Yeah, I guess it does. I mean, it’s how I make a living so,” you shrugged.

“Well, that one was easy,” he laughed. “Next question, please.”

“Who wears the pants in the relationship?” You asked.

“Uh, I’m scared to answer this. I want to say you but I wear them sometimes so it’s sorta 50/50,” Calum said.

“Yeah, that’s true. Like we kinda have on leg each in the pants,” you laughed.

“We share the pants,” Calum chuckled.

“The last question is pretty deep, Cal, so you might want to get the scuba gear out. How did you know I was the one?” You asked.

“Oh, that’s easy,” he shrugged. “Like when I was a teenager, I’d get a girlfriend be with her for a couple months then just get bored or realise there was nothing there. When we started dating, I was still only 16 but there was something about you that I just loved from the beginning. You are my best friend in the whole world and before anything else you are my best friend and I think that’s what makes us work. We love each other more than anything but we’re not just boyfriend/girlfriend, we’re best friends and we always remember that. I realised what I was looking for wasn’t a girlfriend, it was a best friend, and that’s when I knew you were the one.”

“Aww, Calum. You’re the sweetest boy ever,” you giggled and hugged him tight.

“And just a disclaimer, boys if you watch this, you’re my best mates too,” Calum laughed.

You finished up the video, doing your usual outro and telling everyone to come back next week for a new video. You shut off the camera and put the memory card in your laptop to edit later.

“That was really fun,” Calum said. “When can we do another?”

“You want to film again?” You asked in shock.

“Yeah, I had tons of fun. Can I be on your channel every week?” He replied.

“Honey, I have videos filmed for the next couple weeks but as soon as I need you, I’ll call you,” you said.

“Okay, I cant wait,” he grinned and kissed your cheek.

the ending is kinda weird but idrc I hope you all enjoyed it. I’m back to school on the 31st of august so updates wont be as regular sorry :/ requests are open again

lets have a little chat if youd like :)


taylorswift Hey girl! So a few weeks ago I bought a pair of tickets for my best friend (Maddie) and I to see you on my 18th Birthday (September 29th, St. Louis Night 2)!!!!!!!! I’m beyond pumped to spend my first night as a legal adult with you, and I have a request…

Maddie and I have been friends since we were 11, and now we’re approaching being adults and living through senior year, and it’s just amazing to me how long we’ve stuck by each other. St. Louis is our last show for this tour, and I was wondering if you could sing Long Live for us. It would mean the world to me to hear that on my first day of being 18, to hear it as we finish senior year, to end our tour run, and it would be so so perfect to stand in the crowd with my best friend and sing along to a song we’ve been listening to since 7th grade. 

I’m gonna wear waterproof mascara regardless of whether you see this and decide to song it or not… but I’ll definitely need it if you start singing “I said remember this moment…” 

Love you long time, see you on the 29th :)


Dearest taylorswift,

I wish I had the time to plan out my outfit and make a great sign for when I see you this Saturday the 11th at MetLife, but I work 40+ hours a week and I’m on a tight college student budget so unfortunately that wasn’t in the cards for me. 
This’ll be my first time going to one of your concerts, and I know this will never reach you but I wanted to thank you for a couple things (or, moreover, for a couple of songs in particular:

  • Thank you for Teardrops on My Guitar, which got me through my middle school crush telling me I was ugly and that I didn’t have a chance with him.
  • Thank you for Last Kiss, which will always remind me of the boy I loved and hung out with for the first time on July 9th.
  • Thank you for Mean, which helped me get over the 8+ years of bullying that I went through.
  • Thank you for The Moment I Knew, which got me through my 18th birthday when that same boy didn’t call.
  • Thank you for Out of the Woods, for releasing it two days before my Accounting midterm. I had it on repeat for 6 hours the night before.
  • Thank you for every song, every interview, and everything you’ve done that has helped me with my self harm/depression issues for the past 7+ years. Thanks to you, I’m finally clean.

I dream about meeting you every week (like literally dream, to the point where I wake up and start to believe it’s real for .2 of a second). To be given the chance to thank you in person for everything you’ve done for me would be mean the world to me, but even if I don’t, seeing you live this weekend will be enough. I’ll be sitting (with one of my best friends). I’m at work right now so I don’t exactly remember where my seats are, but I’ll reblog this again later to add it.

Love (forever and) always, Lexi

(also: here’s what I look like!):

Hello!!!!! Welcome to the (4th? Idk) phandom meetup I am sammmmmmm (happylittlehowell) an I organised it, I do musical theatre and I am in a pretty crappy mood rn do anything to cheer me up would be great! I’ll be popping in and out of this meetup as I’m going out for a meal!

Have a photo from my 18th birthday 2 weeks ago(: x

Make friends, have fun!

Sam xx


Stuff I’ve worked on last week (which apparently are both very girly in nature):

1. Watercolor drafts. I’ve been meaning to learn more techniques on flower painting, so hopefully I get to squeeze that into my schedule!

2. My sister celebrated her 18th birthday last weekend - and being the “creative” big sister, I designed all her materials for the event. I also taught her a bit of watercolor so she painted her own invite. 

Happy start of the month, everyone! :)