In my opinion, pursuing a relationship is all about realising that you are so content and happy with life, that you are now prepared and excited to invite someone else in, because you know what you possess internally will compliment their life and provide you both with the ultimate living experience - together. It’s when you understand love and know you can genuinely reciprocate that energy too. If you aren’t in this place mentally, take some time out and focus on yourself, improve your life and then entertain the idea of bringing somebody new into your space. Otherwise, all you’re going to do, is waste time and possibly cause damage to their soul.
I love your art so much. You should draw some Finn x flame princess