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وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ

And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.
Surah 30. Ar-Rum, Ayah 21

Women’s Class: How to Have a Fruitful Discussion with Your Spouse

The Monthly Sister’s Class from the Book: A Woman’s Guide to Raising a Family, by Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan, Read by: Jameel Finch. The topic of this reading was: “How to Have a Fruitful Discussion with Your Spouse.” The date of this class was July 2, 2017.

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Marriage is so much more than love and romance. It HAS to be.
A couple struggles together to cope when there is a miscarriage, and the loss of love, dreams, and excitement they had for that child.
A couple struggles together when the bank account is low, hospital bills from a sick child are stacking up, and more work or a higher salary is hard to come by.
A couple struggles together when one of their parents becomes ill, and after years of care, finally returns to our Lord.
A couple struggles together through the tantrums of the toddler years, and the storms of trying to keep a close hold on their kids in the teens and young adult years.
A couple struggles together when facing the loss of their home, or car, or job and how to recreate stability at a time when there seems to be none.
A couple struggles together when one spouse’s iman is low, and their faith is teetering on the edge, while the other strives hard to keep them both at a safe distance away from that same sharp edge and dramatic fall.
Marriage is not just about love and romance. It’s also about fulfilling this ayah:
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find *tranquillity* in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” Quran 30:21
Love and romance are what surrounds the marriage to make ease in hard times, laughter in the midst of stress, passion at the most ironic times.
But it’s depth, the meaning of love, and even romance, should be given so much more depth and value. Hollywood romance doesn’t even come close to this kind of beauty.
Love is worth the struggle, and the struggle is beautiful.
—  Via Wives of Jannah

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When a person loves Allah (swt), it says much more about them than any words they could possibly say. A person who loves Allah (swt) shows something about their character - that they are fearful and grateful to the Unseen; they will be true and trustworthy to you. Always look for one who has love for the deen of Allah Almighty Insha'Allah.

Ketika hati kita memilih seseorang individu yg akan memdampingi kita lalu melamarnya atau kita dilamar, kemudian pinangan itu diterima atau menerima. Itu bererti bahawa Allah SWT telah mentakdirkan kita mnjadi pasangan dengannya atau jodoh yg tertulis.. 
Maka dialah individu yg terbaik utk kita. Walaupun sperti byk yg lebih baik dari dia tetapi percayalah, dialah yg terbaik menjadi pasangan hidup kita dan yakinlah juga, andalah yg terbaik baginya…