much like the rest of tumblr

I have a weird Tumblr question—

I’ve been away for a bit and now my feed seems like it’s been jacked to hell and back. There’s TONS of content from like five people I follow and very few and far between from the others like ????

So, my question: does Tumblr sort through your feed and only display stuff it thinks you will like or do people really post that many times in one day and drown out everyone else?

I’m not quite sure why I’m only seeing a handful of people’s TONS of posts and very little of the rest, but it’s really fucking annoying.

I think part of it is that I haven’t had time to spend hours on Tumblr when a couple of months ago my schedule was a lot less mad. Also, WHERE IS MY DAMN CULLEN CONTENT?! I’m not seeing much of it except every now and again and that’s literally why I’m here wtf even.

memics  asked:

*drops into your ask* greetings friendo you've just uploaded day 15's inktober pic on twitter and lemme tell you I haven't stopped screaming ever since inktober started and i gotta tell u the p3 and p5 posting is amazing and nOW you started p2 as well and I love me some p2 representation! Bless u and ur art. Have a nice rest of inktober btw!

Omg thank you so much for the compliment, and thank you for reminding me I need to upload these to tumblr as well.

I’ll be doing the rest of inktober as requests. So, if anyone wants more P2 or P1 they can drop an ask with a character name and I’ll randomly pick from the asks.

“When should you let go?” She asked, with her chin rested on her palm.

“When the ‘I love yous’ stop sounding like ‘I love you’,” I answered,

“When they begin to sound very much like, ‘I’m sorry’.”

—  Lukas W. // Forgotten Words #163 // I love you but I’m sorry

To love me means also loving to hear all the raging thoughts in my head at one in the morning when all of my frustrations suddenly burst; it also means embracing all the quirkiness wrapped around my entirety like adoring how beautiful the stars up above midnight or how the clouds move in a slow motion to form warriors and knights; it may as well mean coming with me at Mcdonald’s when I crave for some fries and sundae at two in the morning; it’s also defined as listening to my senseless and repetitious stories about my dreams, fantasies and everyday life. To love me means swearing that you would listen to the songs I would tell to you in the middle of the day because I assure you, you’d be hearing from me talking about them from time to time.

Loving someone like me isn’t easy for I am someone scarred badly in the past. My whole system is composed of heartaches, pains, sorrows and miseries—I am imperfectly flawed but that made me who I am. To love me is to embrace those imperfections stitched through my veins. To love me means allowing me to have solitude once in a while since I have these moments that I want to shut my world down from everybody else; I have those dark times that I never wanted to talk to anybody at all and just want to lock myself in my own world. Just give me some time to think, at the end of the day I will come back to you. To love me is to tell me how much you care for me even in the slightest way—I will surely appreciate that even my form of appreciation and gratitude is to tell how corny or annoying you are, but deep down, your words mean a lot and warmed my heart. To love me means staying with me no matter how messy and difficult I could be. All I ever want is someone who will stand right behind me during my darkest and worst moments of my life.

To love me is to tell me your thoughts and opinions about the things I keep on telling you about even they mean nothing to you. To love me is to allow me to grow with you as a being physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I am a complicated and difficult person. I am crazy, wild, freak, easily hurt and gullible. So tell me you love me when you only mean it. I don’t have time for some franks or what. I have had enough of heartbreaks in my past. I am aging and all I ever want for now is a stable and long-lasting relationship that would make me choose to stay no matter how many rocks were thrown at us or no matter how turbulent and bumpy the roads may get.

To love me means a little bit of sacrifice. But I can guarantee you that I could make you feel you’re the best person in the world and you didn’t make the wrong choice by choosing me over them. With me, I can make you feel disconnected from the rest of the galaxy. I will surely make tons of efforts for our relationship to keep going and last. It will be a tough ride for the both of us but I can assure you that it will be worth it and filled with so much fun. To love me means needing and wanting me like the way I do to you.

—  redserpent42, To Love Someone Like me

anonymous asked:

bakugou gets turned into a baby and the rest of the bakusqaud freaks out but sero's like 'wait guys i got this' and makes one of those babystrap carriers out of his own tape

edit: anon asked for the zoomed in version so here !!!!!

You ask an angel to tell you what heaven was like, and they will tell you it was a prison
With gates that looked too much like bars.

That’s how it starts, you know.
In a small city.
With a small home.
You begin to ache for more.

So perhaps pain is the cost.
Stabbing, tearing, a shredding of souls, and scars that sank deeper than skin.

At least it meant freedom.

And so Lucifer fell and made a home out of darkness, and then the rest slowly followed.
—  If the angels feel trapped, at least the devil sets them free // L.H.Z
Still Alive

I’m sure many of you are wondering where I’ve been these past few months. I’m afraid there isn’t an easy answer to that. Not one I can explain easily. My health has worsened once again. I’ve had to deal with kidney stone surgery and stomach issues along with a deepening depression and an increase of severity of my chronic fatigue. It has been a struggle to get through every day and I guess tumblr just didn’t seem like it mattered much anymore.

I lost touch with close friends and I stopped talking to my parents very much. I went into a shell and honestly I’m still not sure how to get out of it. I’m having a brief moment of clarity so I thought I should say something because I think some people might be a little worried about me.

Right now I am resting comfortably and keeping myself occupied with cartoons and other various shows. I try my best not to think about my predicament because as of yet, a solution has not presented itself. I’ve tried all of the depression medications. I’ve looked into new treatments. I just haven’t found anything that has any promise. For the time being I an stuck like this.
I probably won’t be around much. It’s really hard to even write this. But I’ll try to write a little more frequently if I can.

As it stands, right now I am focused on getting rid of my last kidney stone. Apparently there is a procedure that blasts it with sound waves and breaks it up into tiny particles. They put you under for that, but you get to go home the same day. I will be doing this in the next week or so. Hopefully it will make me feel a little better, but I can’t say for sure.

Chris and I are still putting out the monthly Patreon comics. I hope you still enjoy them.

I am going to get back to resting and trying to occupy my mind. I hope you all are well and I appreciate you always sticking with me, even if I disappear for a while.

Watch Katie McGrath be embarrassed by her own fans at SDCC this year if they ask inappropriate questions to any of the Supergirl cast members. And yes, i understand that not all of you are that immature but there are people belonging to the SC fandom on twitter and tumblr planning to spew hate and even boo Chris Wood. Like really, y’all are stooping that low over a ship on a tv show??? I have been a part of many tv fandoms and i must say Supergirl has the absolute worst. Fans go as far as attacking characters, actors and even show runners, so much so that an actor called out one side of the fandom for being toxic, when he was just on the show for one episode. Imagine how the rest of the cast must feel at the daily hate some people spew at them. Y’all don’t have to like certain characters, but have some respect for the actors and people who work extremely hard year round to make this show. Oh and newsflash, no one is being forced to watch the show - if people have such a dislike for the show and new characters, feel free to stop watching and feel free to stop throwing hate as well. Ship whatever you want to ship, canon or not but stop throwing hate around. Even if ya’ll don’t have class, please ACT like you do at Comic Con and be respectful to everyone.

An animated comic based on the end scene from “Not What He Seems”

This is only the first page! See the rest    HERE   !!

So Gravity Falls has quickly become one of, if not my favorite, shows on television right now. Like most, the latest episode had a huge impact on me. I loved everything about it, the writing, the animation, the visuals, the voice acting, characterization, etc. There was so much love and thought and talent that had gone into every aspect that it really inspired me to make an homage to my favorite scene. So I hope you enjoy! And join me in pensive agony as we wait for the next episode this summer. 

I will never understand those who don’t ship things. Like what do you do just like a couple on a tv show or movie or book and be like “they’re cute I hope that happens,” and then it’s ambiguous or doesn’t happen and you’re like “oh guess I was wrong. That’s the end of that then” and don’t obsess over it for the rest of your life?

Some eventful days at college

-my best friend was accused of attempted murder by my uni. It was so scary and ridiculous at the same time. We were freshmen. She asked me to witness at court, in the end the charges were dropped.
-me and my other friends trespassed into a morgue. We got caught and the guard let us off with a warning. He told us not to get spooked on our way down.
-kids deadass watching porn on their laptops while the professors do not give a single shit
-there was a bomb threat on the day of prelim exams and everyone was evacuated. The bomb threat was apparently made by a bunch of seniors who wanted to delay the exam dates.
-I forgot to watch the weather while on my way to Uni and I was asleep on the bus. Too sleepy to notice it was storming. The bus got caught in a flood and as I went down, the water reached to my knees. I had to wade through waist-deep flood to go down like four blocks to get home. It was Bad Scoob.
-literally just. Professors showing up to class /reeking/ of weed. One professor swaggered into class and started teaching analytical geometry and everyone was just. Sitting there trying to tell him it was a Marketing Strategies class
-I accidentally joined a one day recreational class on veganism.
- I get this sounds like a Classic ™ Tumblr story but I had this professor who was always an emotional Mess. He showed up to class one day hungover, with his shirt inside out, stained, eyes red, and flip flops.
-he went into class and asked us to turn off the lights. He went to his desk while the rest of us were sitting in silence and the man just. Starts crying. “I don’t even know why I’m crying, guys. I’m sorry. Give me a second to gather myself.” And he slammed his fist on the table. “I hate this class so fucking much.”

The types as I’ve experienced them (me being an INFP)

Estj: So hardworking ALL THE TIME. Even when it’s something you hate doing you do it to the best of your ability. HOW??? Totally jealous of you beasts 🙌🏼

Istj: Not gonna lie, at first you guys scare me but once I get to know you, I find that you are truely a caring and genuine soul. When I need advice on something I go straight to you because your opinions rock

Esfj: COOL MOMS 😎I envy how you are so charming and smooth. Also your cooking is A+

Entj: You people can NEVER LOSE. Your attitude and amazing skills simply won’t allow it. Surprisingly we get along quite well. I don’t like taking leadership roles all the time so I love that you take the initiative so confidently

Isfj: I get along with you and constantly fight with you at the same time. But your sweetness always draws me back which leads me to believe we will be lifelong friends

Intj: tbh I find you silently condescending. But even that can be a positive trait (not that you need my encouragement you self assured megamimd you). If I find one I get along with, we have the most intriguing conversations to which I am a slave to

Entp: Ok firstly, I love you. You bring to life so many twisted ideas that I find so funny, random, and genius. And that’s what you are, a genius. I think you are honestly some of the most non-traditionally intelligent beings on this earth. Please continue to learn and share your knowledge/ideas with the world!

Intp: Ok it’s time I share a secret, I LOVE OBSERVING YOU! You are so funny in ways that you don’t intend to be humorous in! From my experience, you probably don’t realize how much people like you. You are totally likeable. (Also people love to hear all the random facts you tell)

Enfj: HOW ARE YOU SO DANG HAPPY ALL THE TIME?? Do you have a secret happiness elixir exclusive to enfj’s alone? But seriously, I know you are soft and hide a lot of hurt. It’s ok to get help from someone instead of always giving help. I love your sense of commitment and loyalty. We should hang sometime.

Infj: Ah yes the therapists and kind wizards from folklore. But you and I both know that you are just as clueless as the rest of us at times. Always has an answer to everyone’s problems but your own. Seriously though you are so much fun and I love teasing you in a sibling-like way

Enfp: Is it possible to not totally want to be your friend?? Even when I want to hate you I can’t. Tumblr makes you out to be on a constant acid trip but I know you’re way more down to earth than that. Don’t get me wrong, you are the craziest bunch of weirdos I’ve ever met but you have an incredible amount of understanding and wisdom that is unfortunately often overlooked

Infp: Ayyyeee my tribe! As an infp myself I recognize that we are SO FRUSTRATING TO GET TO KNOW. I see that in other infp’ as well. But I also see how we desperately want to be friends with everyone but our social energy and awkwardness makes it incredibly difficult. Once people get to know us they are blown awayyyyyy by how twisted and fun we can be ;)

Estp: Either you sleep for 0.63 seconds or 15 hours. In either case there’s a Red Bull in your hand. Also, please show me how you jumped over that park bench because I can barely even jump over a small pebble.

Istp: I don’t need to look at you to know that you are ultra hot. Your fingers are so nimble when you play guitar, and it’s really mesmerizing. Plus, please teach me how to be cool like you!!!

Esfp: I haven’t met too many of you, but you seem very opinionated and carefree simultaneously. Super talented and a go-getter (much to everyone’s surprise). I really do wish I knew more of you guys because I feel like we would really get along

Isfp: You guys also need to give me lessons on coolness!! Ugh you are “everything goals”. I love that everything around you creates some kind of reaction from you 😂 So soft but kinda badass too


HELLO TUMBLR.COM, HELLO TAYLOR SWIFT! i just want to tell you all about my friend haley!!!!

i met haley (@kissinbarsyoufool​) on tumblr in 2011 and she is one of the funniest, kindest, BEST people i have ever met.  i feel so lucky to know her. she makes me laugh harder than anybody and she’s funny in a way that never makes other people feel bad. i’ve been having a hard time for the last few months and haley constantly goes out of her way to message me and make sure i’m okay, even though she’s gone through way more than i have. she lost her beautiful mom to cancer in august of this year and even tho she has been unbelievably brave (#fearless, if you will) about it, her mom is her best friend so it’s been hard

haley’s mom was also a huge taylor fan and she was the first person halely would tell whenever taylor did something so even tho she’s been shitting bricks over reputation like the rest of us, the album release has understandably been bittersweet for her and she hasn’t been able to come on tumblr to celebrate as much as she normally would

SoOOooOO taylor, if you’re reading this, i just want you to know that you have helped haley so much over the last 2 months (and the last 10 years before that) and i know you would love her as much as i do. i hope you guys get to hug soon because u both deserve it and i just thought you’d want to know that she exists 

love you endlessly 💞💕

i love the characters in bh6 so much like. you see that badass girl riding a motorcycle? she’s a nerd. that girl who owns a successful online fashion boutique? nerd. how about that rather buff guy over there? a major nerd. that school mascot guy? he’s “not a student, but a major science-enthusiast.” and rich. that guy in a cardigan and hat? god what a hot nerd. and that fourteen year old kid? he goes to college gosh look at that nerd.

Favorite Summer Albums of 2017

summer is almost over ;-; but these 10 albums made this summer v special for me and i highly recommend all of them :)

10. Aminé - Good For You

I’m not a big fan of Aminé but this album proved that he’s not a one hit wonder and has a LOT of potential. the album is very colorful, at times it sounds like the band fun. made a rap album tbh. also i personally care a lot about album covers and they actually affect the way i judge & listen to music, and this cover art is absolutely one of my favorite album covers of the year as it perfectly visualizes how the music sounds.

9. Haim -  Something to Tell You

ok maybe this album is not as strong as their first album but it’s the most “dream-girl-californian” type album that I’ve heard in a very long time, it’s like a soundtrack for all these tumblr blogs dedicated to highly stylized pictures of California and California girls and it’s amazing.

8. Calvin Harris - Funk Wav Bounces Vol. 1

honestly, i never expected to like this album as much as i do but it’s like literally the definitive American summer album. and like it’s like one of those albums that no matter how much they tried to fuck it up, they couldn’t make it any less good than it is with the list of artists that are featured on it. i mean Frank Ocean on the first fucking track?? and then the rest of the album being equally good? double amazing! “Faking It” is one of my fav song of the year despite the fact that i almost threw my headphone the moment i head Lil Yachty screech at the very end of it to compliment Kehlani, smh.

7. Brockhampton - Saturation

Kevin Abstract is amazing. American Boyfriend is an amazing album and Saturation is like Brockhampton’s take on that album and beyond. extremely fresh sounding, the rapping of every member is unique and exciting, the band knows their audience and so their lyrics resonate extremely well in a genuine way which makes the album very relatable for people in their late teenage years/early 20s.

6. Mura Masa - MURA MASA

the cover art is great but clearly a rip off of The Life of Pablo. but that doesn’t change the fact that Mura Masa is consistently amazing. despite releasing half of the album before the official release, the non singles - particularly “Who Is It Gonna B” , “Nothing Else!” and “Messy Love” - are phenomenal and it has such a London sound, and he even described the album as a love letter to London. every time I hear it, it makes me wanna move to London <3

5. Queens of the Stone Age - Villains

okay i can’t really judge this yet because i only listened to the shit quality leak, but MAN, even with that shit quality, this album fucking RIPS. less accessible and more experimental than “…Like Clockwork” and heavier too. lyrically and conceptually, though, it sounds like it comes from the same headspace that resulted in “…Like Clockwork” but this album to me is like a very epic epilogue to the previous album. “Villains of Circumstance” is a masterpiece and a strong contender for the best closing track of any album this year.

4. Vince Staples - Big Fish Theory

i’ve talked about this album before but the more rap albums i heard these past few months, the more amazing this album became for me. i mean just go listen to Mike Will Made-It’s new album (or any other generic trap album from 2017) and Big Fish Theory back to back, and the difference in production and atmosphere says it all.

3. Tyler, the Creator - Flower Boy

i’ve also talked about this album before but this album this summer is what Blonde was last summer for me. it’s Tyler’s most defining work, and it only makes me excited to see how he will follow it up.

2. Lorde - Melodrama

this masterpiece soundtracked a lot of my sad & happy summer afternoons and nights. every time I listen to it, it reminds me what’s like to be 20 years old, and “Supercut” is the ultimate Lorde song ever tbh; amazing dance beat + intensely emotional lyrics. and that applies for most of Melodrama, every single emotion and feeling that Lorde expresses is actually felt.

1. Arcade Fire - Everything Now

believe it or not, in 2017, it’s unusual to like Arcade Fire. I’m still trying to figure out if the disappointment that this album brought to fans and critics is as a result of power of our absurdly high expectations, or the marketing campaign that pissed a lot of fans and critics off. either way, what matters for me is that I loved both the album promotion and the album itself. this is the best summer album (and potentially my favorite album) of 2017 for various reasons. for me a great album is an album that creates a world that makes me feel like I’m living in it for the duration that it has, and if it’s great enough, it makes me wanna live in that world forever (no matter how good or bad that world is). Arcade Fire are masters of teasing and promotion, and through a genius marketing strategy, they created a world for this album before it came out and after listening to the album few times after my initial disappointment with the singles, everything about it just made sense. the great irony about it is that despite its ridiculously complex and seemingly confusing promotion, the album itself is extremely direct and heartfelt. yes, the songs are extremely well produced and multi-layered, but what makes it amazing is just how personal it is. even in a song as colorful as “Everything Now”, there are some really dark lyrics. “Peter Pan” is about reaching an age when you start losing your parents (Win wrote it after realizing his dad is sick). “Put Your Money on Me” is a song where Win directly references his religious family and the dissatisfaction of his mother at his wedding, since Regine is apparently not of their faith. “Creature Comfort” and “Good God Damn” are both about a suicidal person (Win’s close friend) and why life is always better, even at its worst. and finally, “We Don’t Deserve Love”, an amazing heartbreaker about the simple concept that no matter how much we rely on people of higher status, whether our parents or religious figures, for love and connection, love and connection are inside us right from the start without us even realizing it sometimes. i think this album is the one that makes the most sense to me along with Father John Misty’s “Pure Comedy” - as both albums talk about the absurdity of our modern lives, yet in the end, both albums conclude with the statement that love is what matters the most at any stage of our life.

anonymous asked:

How would RFA react to seeing MC in her wedding dress for the first time?? (Like her being walked down the aisle) I would say include V and saeran if you wanna ((I'm tearing up just thinking about this :,) ))

i’m going to start a petition on this is my third time writing this because tumblr kept crashing

but this request is super cute and i love it so much omg


  • “God, she always looks gorgeous, but she’s fucking stunning.”
  • He never had any doubts about wanting to spend the rest of his life with you, but now he was absolutely certain that this was the best decision of his life
  • When you finally reached him at the altar, he couldn’t take his eyes off of you, even when he was supposed to be looking at the wedding officiant


  • “Preeeeettttyyyyy!”
  • Every thought going through his mind had disappeared
  • Now he could only think about how pretty you looked and how excited he was for you to get to him so you could finally get married
  • When you got up to the altar and were standing right in front of him, he couldn’t get over how beautiful you were
  • He was blushing so hard, oh god, can everyone see how hard he’s blushing?


  • “She looks beautiful… her hair looks better than mine, she’s so pretty.”
  • As the two of you walked towards each other at the beginning of the isle, she couldn’t get over how gorgeous you looked
  • When you finally reached each other and started walking towards the altar, she couldn’t stop looking over at you and blushing
  • How could she be so lucky?


  • “We’re getting married, she’s going to be my wife…”
  • He had waited for this day since he first met you, and it was happening
  • He simultaneously wanted this moment to last forever and for time to hurry up and have you be right next to him


  • “God she’s so beautiful.  What a fool she was to show up.”
  • He always knew he wanted to marry you, but he still couldn’t understand why you wanted to marry him
  • But any of his insecurities disappeared as you walked closer and he was able to see all the details of your dress and hair and makeup
  • He was so excited to spend the rest of his life with you


  • “It’s finally happening, i’m getting married.  And to her.”
  • Even if his vision wasn’t very good, he could still see how beautiful you looked
  • He’s just… ecstatic
  • It had been a long time since he had been so happy to be with someone, and he had no doubt in his mind that you’re the best person for him to spend the rest of his life with


  • “She looks so gorgeous… Don’t cry, don’t cry, don’t cry.”
  • Being the huge tsundere he is, he has to stifle as much emotion as he could
  • But he couldn’t help the huge smile creeping onto his face
  • He was so happy to be able to marry you
  • He couldn’t believe how lucky he was for you to want to marry him, too
I Know I Want to Be a Sugar Baby...Now What?

What Should You Do Once You’ve Decided to Become a Sugar Baby?

I can remember it like it was yesterday, best friend. I was fresh out of what I would on some days consider my best vanilla relationship and decided I wanted to be a sugar baby. Well, I didn’t decide. The Joker decided for me. “If you’re good at something-never do it for free” That one line changed my life. I googled how to become a sugar baby and found Tumblr. Within an hour of finding Tumblr, I had an SA account. The rest, as they say, was history. 

But, girl, I get it. It’s not like that for everyone. Analysis paralysis. Fear of failure. General confusion. Overwhelm from too much info. It can be a lot. So I’m going to offer you a list of the things I did when I first started sugaring. 

  1. Research! Research, research, research. Duh, I can see you saying. Sis, I can even see you rolling your eyes. I know. Everyone says research, but no one says what you should try to learn or who you should learn from. Let’s tackle the first half of that problem now and the other half in a moment. There are basic things that you want to know. If you decide to sugar online (baby, please don’t), learn how to set up a profile. Learn how to set up a fake phone number whether it’s on Google, WhatsApp, or some other provider. Learn a few things about table manners so that you’re comfortable no matter where you are. Learn how you should dress to blend in with several different types of venues. One of the easiest ways to decide if advice is legit is by consensus. If you see that same advice repeated on Tumblr profile after Tumblr profile after Tumblr page, then it’s probably something you want to commit to memory. But keep in mind that you don’t have to follow every piece of advice that you read- especially the ones that try to tell you what to say word for word. I suggest you avoid those. They most likely won’t work for you.
  2. Figure out EXACTLY why you’re doing this. I spent so much time spinning my tires because I couldn’t figure out what I was doing or why. Know why you’re getting in this game. No really. Sit down and write it out.
  3. Make a business plan. This is a business. Act like it. I’ve already put together 13 questions that will help you develop that plan. It covers everything from what your ideal SD looks like to how you plan to market yourself to how much you should ask for as an allowance (the answer to this is-however the fuck much you want because it’s nobody’s business but yours). Take the time to go through it.
  4. Figure out what makes you uncomfortable about sugaring. What scares you the most? I’d actually like to hear about this one. Send me a list of all the things that scare you about sugaring and while I may not be able to get back to you the same day I promise you I will respond so we can talk about what scares you. BUT DO NOT send me just a list of things that scare you. Send me what you want to do to address those fears too. 
  5. Get ready to freestyle. If you aren’t convinced that it’s for you read this. If you need help on how to freestyle read this.
  6. Go freestyle. Read this. If you’ve already read it, reread it and decide which parts of it you like and which parts you’re going to ignore. It’s your life. My feelings won’t be hurt, and I won’t think you’re a failure if you don’t do everything I say exactly the way I say you should do it. Be safe. Live life in a way that makes you smile. 
  7. Get ready to be rejected. A lot. You will be rejected a lot. You will hear no a lot. You will see white SB’s, Asian SB’s, Latina SB’s make it before you. If you decide to sugar online, please god don’t get on SA, you will see men say that they don’t want you just because of the color of your skin. It will hurt. You will wonder why you bother. But the successful girls? The @brownstatuesquesugarbaby ‘s of the world? They’re the ones that hustled their asses off, celebrated the victories, shrugged off the losses and DID THE WORK. You gotta work bitch.

Speaking of work, I want to leave you with this final note. The women that make it in this world have one thing in common: they are not waiting for someone to do the hard work for them. They are ready to research. They are ready to put in the time and effort. Are they afraid to reach out with their questions? No. But their questions show that they took the time to learn independently instead of expecting things to be spoon fed to them. These are the big leagues, sis, you can build a career or at least jump start one with the money and gifts you get in this lifestyle. Don’t waste your time, don’t waste your big sugar sister’s time, if you don’t want this enough to work for it.

There it is, best friend. As always, I want to know what you think. If you’re just starting out was this helpful? If you’ve been in the game a while, did this sound like what you did when you first started? Let’s talk about it!