Real talk!! We (well me) can get very comfortable in situations that are unclear, shady, unbalanced. We rationalize for this reason and that. Rule of thumb: move on if you have the same questions you had at the beginning of the relationship. Things change but not that much. We are creatures of habit. If it starts out one way, it will continue that way. No matter how busy, flaky, selfish someone is, it’s human nature to keep doing things that make us feel good. It’s the same for relationships. Your mate should never hesitate to let you know what time it is… If you’re in the same time zone! If you’re questioning where you stand, it’s coz you don’t have a place in line. Moooooooving right along!