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This is for anyone who can’t really relate to Mother’s Day sentiments due to cutting themselves off from toxic parents. Eternal hugs to all of you. I personally haven’t spoken to my mom in over 4 years so it’s always kinda white noise for me when this time comes around. Always remember your feelings are VALID.
“But she’s your MOM.” has to be one of the most insensitive, ignorant, pious fucking statements I’ve ever heard too many times in my life. I can’t stand people who say that to me.
It’s really so generalizing and damaging when people say things like “But they’re you’re family…” as though that mandates that you to continue to enable someone to treat you horribly. IT’S NOT OK.
For those of you who are still dealing with toxic family members, even more hugs to you. It’s a difficult path and we all have our own journey. I wish you strength and peace. You’ll get there.
Ok but I have a ghostbusters mothers day headcanon;
Patty is like the over protective mum friend, so the other Ghostbusters get her a joke mothers day card and a bunch of historical newspapers she’s been saving up for. Erin stresses out about going to see her mum, so Abby decides to go with her and Erin finds that it’s not so bad with Abby there. Kevin invites his mum to HQ, and Holtz studies them and writes a bunch of notes about how they’re actually robots with occasional laughs from Dr Gorin who pretends not to know Holtz actually asked her to come over because it’s mothers day.
So since it’s mothers’ day i’d like to give a shoutout to all those who aren’t close to their moms/have abusive moms and feel out of place amongst all the celebrations. You’re awesome and just as valid and important.