Do you also sometimes have a "block" with some ppl?Like all of sudden u just can't talk to 1 of your friends and it might be bc smth they did bc of u feell misstreated or some little tiny thing what changed your point of view on them that you just cannot bring yourself to talk to them? Bc it happens to me quite often and I have to PUSH myself SO hard to go through the block. But mostly I don't even want to but I feel like I have to bc they feel bad and it's i e 10years of friendship but Idc
Oh my god yes. I’m actually experiencing this with one of my friends right now. I just can’t enjoy her company anymore, and honestly, I don’t think I’m going to force myself to. Although she has her good traits, she isn’t right for me: she’s very selfish, she doesn’t think of others, she has a ton of negative energy, and I simply don’t feel she contributes to my growth anymore.
But yes, I know exactly what you mean. When someone hurts me or makes me feel bad in some way, I tend to retreat away from them for a bit, like a break, and then I return to them when I’m ready.
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