most important thing in a person

The most important thing a person can do is to respect God and obey his commands, because he knows about everything people do, even the secret things. He knows about all the good and all the bad, and he will judge people for everything they do.
—  Ecclesiastes 12:13-14

JesUS god well kids here they are, all the ridiculous items that go along with my taako cosplay. This is by no means an extensive collection, but I wanted to make the most important and interesting ones while still being able to function as a person with all of these things attached to my body and visible. I’m finally ready for planet comic con bring it onnnnn

 My largest artistic inspirations: this post holy shit and my sword design was influenced heavily by

 Now the real test–how many can you name ??

anonymous asked:

Plz explain INTP's inferior fe to us!!!! ... plz ....

Well, inferior Fe is our weakest, most sensitive point. (Anyone’s inferior function is that, of course.) So, when we have feelings, we don’t know how to handle them. We push them away, because generally INTPs have a tendency to ignore things that bother them. If our feelings are intruding upon our lives, we just ignore them.

Unfortunately, emotions aren’t supposed to be treated that way. After all, having emotions is part of being human. Pure logic and intellect simply doesn’t cut it in our complex selves. We need emotion, too, in order to develop the character traits of compassion, love, loyalty, et cetera, which are so important in the make-up of a mature person. 

Because of this, INTPs generally find that their emotions are what give them the most trouble. Young INTPs, and even older ones, can have a problem controlling their feelings when they well up and refuse to be ignored any longer. When this happens, we usually explode and have a burst of unrestrained ranting. This might be an angry outburst accompanied by tears, or an emotional breakdown, or perhaps a screaming tantrum (I’ve had all three, I’m sorry to say). These don’t generally happen very often, and they don’t last for long, and we can often subdue ourselves pretty quickly after they do happen. 

The problem with them, though, is that they tend to affect the people around us quite a bit. People are not used to seeing intense raw emotions with such fury (I mean, outside of children, of course), and it can shock them and even frighten them. Don’t be surprised if people treat you with a bit of timidity for a few days after an outburst, especially if they’ve never seen one before. And don’t be tempted to just brush it off. It’s always a good idea to apologize to people, even though the first thing you want to do is probably forget that you just made a complete idiot out of yourself.

Now, that’s the problematic side of inferior Fe. The good thing about it is that, if we are willing to mature and face our emotions instead of tucking them away for later, we INTPs have to potential to be among the kindest and most compassionate of friends. Isn’t that a pleasant thought?

See, extroverted feeling defines itself based on the people around you. That’s partly why INTPs get so attached to the few friends they manage to make. Our relationships with other people and things are what generate our emotions (unlike introverted feeling, which is generated within a person and then flavours their outlook). So, when we see someone hurting, we often want to help them. Although we might claim differently, we tend to be pretty soft-hearted and easily touched by appeals to the emotion. Now, thankfully our Ti keeps us from always acting on those appeals (I have something a disgust for purely emotional appeal, to be honest), but it is healthy and human to have those feelings, and coupled with logic, it can produce some good compassion. It’s what makes INTPs who are willing to invest in others fairly good counselors. We want to help, and people often see us as level-headed and good at keeping secrets, so they come to us with their problems. For an immature INTP, this can be a really bad thing, because their emotions don’t handle that kind of stress very well. But for an INTP working on growing, this is a good thing, because it gives them a chance to use their emotions along with their logic. 

Anyway, I think I’ve beaten that dead horse even deader. You get the point. INTPs can learn to use inferior Fe in really incredible ways.

I hope this helps, and thanks for stopping by.

anonymous asked:

That anon who said Mr Min fucks her better. Mr Min sexually treats her however he wants to, the most important thing to him is that he is pleasured while I felt like the sex scene between the MC and Jungkook was more of a give and take. He wanted her to want it, and wanted her to be pleasured just like himself, whereas Mr Min didn't really care about what the MC felt or what she wanted. Jungkook put more of an effort in in my opinion. I'd rather be with a Jungkook personally. But he shady tho 👀

Truth. The only time Mr. Min seemed to be concerned with her pleasure was in chapter 05 which was too little too late.

happy birthday bro

so, @warof-hormone. it’s your birthday today and I guess that means I’m obligated to do something special for you. (I joke, this is something I wanted to do). keep in mind, this post is very last minute. I was going to write you a fic but my final exam and moving out of the dorm kinda shut that plan right down. so instead I decided to make a post detailing why I love you so much, things that remind me of you, and just any thoughts about you that make my heart so warm. it’s going to be a big mess full of love

Originally posted by taeyangspecs

so here we go~

  • you’re the most important person in my life
  • we sin together and laugh together and without you I don’t know where I’d be
  • you are beautiful. now, this one is important, so read it a few times. you are beautiful. I don’t care what you say, you are so incredibly gorgeous. your heart and your exterior both. you’re a natural kind of beauty, and you remind me of a summer afternoon. calm, bright, quiet, still except for the light breeze. it’s such a effortless beauty, and it’s my favorite kind. 
  • when I’m feeling down you send me hobi to help me through it and all your efforts help me smile
  • I love how selfless you are, but sometimes you forget that you’re important too and I want you to remember to take care of yourself because there are people who love you and want to see you happy and healthy 
  • you love ducks and loons and all birds really, and I’m still not 100% convinced you don’t have a bird kink
  • your love for seunghyun makes me extremely happy. I care about that man so much and when you figured out you love my son, it felt right. he deserves your love and you deserve his
  • I love all the times we’ve drank together. we’ve gotten loud, happy, emotional, very emotional, and messy. but I love it all
  • I feel like you understand me best, and you’re truly my best friend in this world
  • your laugh. any type, really, but I love when you “honk” because it’s your uncontainable amount of joy. it’s so real and it makes my heart warm
  • your love for your sister makes me think of the most pure and wholesome form of good this world has to offer, light the cleanest light that shines through rain clouds. you’re lucky to have one another 
  • you’re a mitters, never change 
  • your singing is what I imagine angels sound like. maybe it’s the soprano aspect, I don’t know. but heaven is filled with voices like yours
  • your writing is amazing. I’m glad I have someone to write me hobi shit whenever I need it
  • life has tried its best to defeat you, but you’re still fighting. I am so proud of you for that. keep fighting
  • flowers remind me of you. maybe it’s because you love them, or maybe it ties back into that natural beauty thing. they’re delicate and beautiful, just like you. and you both need something bright and warm to thrive 
  • please don’t inject tea into your veins. I don’t care how much you love it. don’t. do it. 
  • you never judge me and that says a lot about you
  • you’re too sub for your own good and it makes me laugh when you act like you could ever be dom. one more reason you and seunghyun would be perfect 
  • I loved going to bts chicago with you. coldplay was amazing too, but the bts trip means more to me. I love getting lost with you. let’s do that more often
  • your hair, though hard to maintain, is lovely and very pretty. how many bobby pins have you lost in there?
  • you are the pickiest damn eater I have ever met ever. it drives me crazy, but it makes me happy when you try new things. whether you end up liking them or not, I enjoy it when you try 
  • I think you like chicken a lot ?
  • let’s have another star wars/harry potter marathon soon because we need to geek out together
  • some of life’s happiest and most beautiful moments are when you smile 
  • I can’t wait to spend summer nights with you on the back deck, alcohol in our hands and our eyes on the starry sky. maybe we’ll see another aero!!
  • I could say more but I’m stopping now before this post gets way too long, but lastly: I can’t wait to make more memories with my beautiful and amazing best friend. may we never lose touch and may your smile never fade 

happy birthday, kat. thank you for being my best friend. I wouldn’t trade your friendship for anything. (and don’t say “even hobi?” because I don’t need this in my life just happy birthday okay).

dope birthday… Congratz!!!

Originally posted by julla

Y’know, the double standard whereby bisexual men are presumed to be self-hating gay dudes and bisexual women are presumed to be straight trendsters totally makes sense if you’re starting with the premise that the most important thing about a person is whether they’re attracted to men.

Like I said, I don’t think I’d ever, you know, say exactly what it’s all about. I think for each person, uh, to kinda take away what they get from something like that is more important. But I think ‘Sign of the Times’ is probably the most literal song on the album. I think it’s just a view - kind of a lot of things that go on.
—  Harry talking about the inspiration behind ‘Sign of the Times’
Zodiac Signs in general

(Check your sun sign [DOB] and/or ascendant/rising sign)

Aries: Very chill, impulsive in decision making, dislikes restrictions; whether in personal space, relationships/friendships, loves tomatoes and anything spicy, enjoys eating and being free, their vocal range is powerful, medium to large sized lips.

Taurus: Not agressive but forceful, has good taste in outfit picking and food dishes and everything else in aesthetic, dislikes people without common sense, loves material possesions, loves gifts, very nice voice or distinct tone of voice, does not learn at the pace of others, prefers their own rhythm of doing things, vocal range is second highest to that of Virgo, sensual lips and throat is prominent

Gemini: likes sparkly things, very vocal, can burn your ass with their word phrasing, likes to talk for hours, enjoys reading books, magazines and anything informative, likes to work or do something with their hands, needs mental stimulation instead of physical stimulation, adapts easily to immediate environment, hates being pinned down, has an instinct to detect bullshit, can easily deceive making it real, their vocal range is scattered, uncontrolled vibrato, hands/arms are prominent

Cancer: very sensitive people, likes to cook, they consider themselves chefs, LOVES music, full-round faces, talks about emotions, most likely to cry during sad or touching movie trailers, home is their secure base, attached or close to mother and women figures, soft but firm vocal range, chest is a prominent feature

Leo: Confident, leader in anything, hair and eyebrow are their prominent features, may have ‘Lion’ characteristics, very theatrical, loves to be praised and be the center of attention, other people are their ‘servants’, stands out immediately, strong vocal range

Virgo: very musical, loves analytical things, detail-oriented, very high vocal range, strives for perfection, fussy at home regarding cleaning, detective stuff is interesting, clean image, stomach is noticeable as their feature

Libra: wants to get along with others, since Libra and Taurus are both ruled by Venus, Libra too has a pleasing aesthetic, attractive, gives beauty to anything it touches, you can’t hate this sign no matter what they do ‘cause they do it well, anything fits this sign, dresses well, sexy but not vulgar, very artistic, likes fashion, makeup, needs a partner or wants to be with someone committed, face looks pleasing

Scorpio: magnetic personality, you hurt a scorpio and hell breaks loose and you get stung, powerful and demanding voice, prefers dark shades of color, sex is their thing, very passionate, demands the same attention it gives, penetrating stare, motherfucking sexy as f’, smells bullshit from a mile away, their sexual organs are a prominent feature

Sagittarius: ‘foot-in-the-mouth-disease, blunt, says things like they are, very nice legs or well-formed legs, likes to be physically and mentally stimulated to be happy, prominent smile, walks like a horse (or their walk is like a ‘trot’), red/orange, purple and other warm color hues are their thing, loves music, straightforward, very direct voice.

Capricorn - disciplined, endures good and bad shit, likes to stand out in public, fame is what they strive for, most likely to be in the public eye, there’s always something recognizable about the sign, thin appearance, the elderly are important to them, success is always sure for them, executive look, chiseled chins and knows what’s up, shins and knees are what they deal with the most

Aquarius: very fucking original, a feature always stands out, eccentric, electric, very strong personality, visionary, sets trends in anything you can think of, musical prodigy, technology is their thing, needs mental stimulation, intellectual, calf (leg) are their noticeable body part

Pisces: a very sensitive snowflake, is liked by everyone, green/blue colors fit them, ‘mermaid’ look, breathes music, any look fits them due to their ability to fit like water in a cup, extremely musical, possesses all the qualities from the rest of the zodiac signs since it’s the last sign, silky hair, well-shaped feet, big eyes

dating people with bpd

written by a girl who loves a girl who has bpd

disclaimer: i do not have bpd (borderline personality disorder) and this was written from my experience dating a beautiful girl who has bpd and she proof read it!! i just want to help others whose partners have bpd! this may not apply to everyone because everyone is different but these are things that i have experienced in my relationship!

this is important for every relationship whether the person you are dating has bpd or not, but it’s crucial for when you’re dating a person with bpd. this is important because certain things that you may not even think about can make them sad or even a bit angry. it’s important to talk about what triggers them and be super understanding when their triggers seem a bit uncommon, and let them explain their boundaries and symptoms they experience. it’s important to be patient and listen to them.

some people with bpd have a blurred sense of reality and need to be told what’s real and what isn’t. even if it’s just the color of their jeans, it is still important.

some individuals with bpd have an intense fear of being abandoned, which usually comes from early childhood abuse, and need constant validation to reassure them that you aren’t going to leave them. be patient when they ask if you wanna breakup with them, or if they ask if you’re mad at them, or when they say their sorry for even the slightest of mishaps.

personality disorders have tons of bad stigma surrounding them and individuals with these mental illnesses are demonized and made out to be like monsters in the media. it is important to ignore all the articles and posts about bpd that demonize them written by neurotypicals. people with bpd aren’t inherently bad.

impulses are things you want to do. some impulses can be self destructive while others are not. most people with bpd don’t have impulse control like those who don’t have bpd do. a thing that works for me when their impulses are self destructive is (assuming that you’re their fp) asking them how they would feel if i did that, or asking them to do virtually anything to take their mind off it. and if that doesn’t work, it’s important not to get mad at them if they do it. they don’t know when an idea is bad or good, so just be patient and understanding and don’t be a fuckass.

educate yourself on the disorder and read about the symptoms. the best person to talk to about bpd is your partner. because everyone is different, it’s important not to limit bpd down to certain symptoms. figure out what your partner experiences and read about those. i suggest following the bpd tag on tumblr or even browse it a bit to get a general understanding of the disorder. bpd is very complex so it’s important that you get a general understanding and realize that it’s not relatable to you. certain posts may be relatable but do not think that you can reblog them, because the extent in which they are felt is extremely different. most people with bpd have very intense emotions and feel things that we feel to a much higher level.

to conclude, dating someone with bpd isn’t hard or scary. however, it is different from dating someone who doesn’t have it. it’ll be hard if you don’t research it or ask them questions or get a general understanding of it, but if you do it’ll be easier for the both of you. people with bpd aren’t inherently abusive, and it is possible to have a stable relationship with your partner.

If you want to know what heart break sounds like, ask someone why they don’t talk to the person that meant the most to them in high school.
—  Things I realized when I went away for college, part VII
Lilac in Magick

“The lilac branches are bowed under the weight of the flowers: blooming is hard, and the most important thing is - to bloom.”  - Yevgeny Zamyatin

Lilac Meanings Through History

  • The Celtics regarded the lilac as “magical” due to their incredibly intoxicating fragrance.
  • During the Victorian Age, the giving of a lilac was meant to be a reminder of an old love. In fact, widows were often seen wearing lilacs during this period.
  • In Russia, holding a sprig of lilac over the newborn would bring wisdom.

Lilac Symbolism & Colors

There are many meanings that lilacs have that can best be classified by color.

  • White; Purity and innocence.
  • Violet; Spirituality.
  • Blue; Happiness and tranquility.
  • Magenta; Love and passion.
  • Lilac, the color for which this flower is named, is a light purple that symbolizes first love.

Although various colors of lilacs have different meanings, the lilac has always had a strong association with love and romance throughout history.

Other Magickal Information;

The Lilac Tree
It is the fragrance of the Lilac tree that is considered magickal. The fragrance is believed to carry humans into fairyland and the supernatural world. English tradition considers the Lilac to be an unlucky flower to be brought into the house because it is associated with death. This was perhaps fear of the power of the fragrance of the lilac.

A favorite of the forest nymphs and where they are surely Pan is close. Lilac is sacred to the Greek Twins Gemini. Associated with the element of Air. 

Magickal Properties: Lilac wands are good for magic dealing with romance, love, and passion. Superb when utilizing magicks for the realm of intellect, communication, mental concentration. Enhances sexual pleasure. Lilac provides protection during travel. When dealing with illusion magick, this wood is very adequate, as with the divining arts. 

(I don’t claim any of this information, most was found off various sites. This is just for quick guidance/grimoire use.)

Zodiac Signs in general

Aries: Very chill, impulsive in decision making, dislikes restrictions; whether in personal space, relationships/friendships, loves tomatoes and anything spicy, enjoys eating and being free, their vocal range is powerful, medium to large sized lips.

Taurus: Not agressive but forceful, has good taste in outfit picking and food dishes and everything else in aesthetic, dislikes people without common sense, loves material possesions, loves gifts, very nice voice or distinct tone of voice, does not learn at the pace of others, prefers their own rhythm of doing things, vocal range is second highest to that of Virgo, sensual lips and throat is prominent

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“The epitome of a butler”

I don’t know if anyone else has talked about this, but I think this line is extremely important in understanding Sebastian’s feelings.

Through the series we can tell that the only person Sebastian truly cares about is himself. There are instances where he shows concern for Ciel, but I believe this is a projection of the lofty position in which he regards the contract. The contract aside, the one other thing Sebastian most important to Sebastian is his butler aesthetic.

We know how much Sebastian cares for this aesthetic. Hell, he nearly died in the Campania arc trying to maintain it while fighting three reapers. It’s obviously a source of pride for him, else he wouldn’t be spouting the fact that he is “one hell of a butler” at every given opportunity. He is arrogant, we know this, and he holds himself in the highest esteem.

Yet Agni surpassed him, and he knows it.

Sebastian obviously respects Agni’s death immensely. “The epitome of a butler” is not something Sebastian would say lightly. (Assuming it translates) the implication is so much stronger than “one hell of a butler.” Sebastian implies that Agni has fulfilled the ultimate duty as a butler and by doing so has surpassed Sebastian. Can you imagine the utter respect Sebastian must feel for this human to put him in higher esteem than himself? 

“The epitome of a butler” isn’t Sebastian brushing the death of his only friend aside. This is Sebastian offering what he considers to be the highest honour he could possibly bestow on a human.

Do You Wanna Fight?

Aries Mars:

Originally posted by mariaslittlestuff

An Aries mars is very explosive and the smallest thing will set them on a rampage, destroying everything in their path. They can be very blunt and tell it how it is, regardless of if they hurt others’ feelings. After all, they need to know the truth! They are absolutely savage and rip apart anyone that decides to cross them. This often means bridges get burnt quickly and in a rapid bush fire of anger. Unfortunately for an Aries mars, they move on much faster than everyone else. So they may try to talk to someone hours after an argument to find that person has blocked them and wants nothing to do with them.

Taurus Mars:

Originally posted by chicastrology

A Taurus Mars is very hard to anger and they take a lot of pushing to finally react but when they do, it’s time to give up. It becomes like talking to a brick wall. They refuse to listen to anyone and will only do what they want which is frustrating to people around them. Their pride and stubbornness shines and blocks their ability to even consider doing anything but saying no, to everything. Their need to control themselves becomes very apparent in situations where they are distressed or under pressure.

Gemini Mars:

Originally posted by shitthesignssay

A Gemini Mars often shows anger through acting superior or disinterested rather than aggressive. They seem to believe they are better than those who are more argumentative. Their ability to outwit any opponent often means they win fights, but only because they become unresponsive and sarcastic rather than actually having conversations. They move on very quickly but in the back of their mind, they love to think they are now more intelligent because they won a fight and will use that to their advantage.

Cancer Mars:

Originally posted by yourreactiongifs

A Cancer Mars is literally the most dramatic person you will ever meet. They are savage and go straight in for the sore point but as soon as you even slightly retaliate, they cry and act as though they have been horribly betrayed by their oldest friend and now they must live in anguish. They get defensive before they have even been accused which actually starts most of the arguments they are involved in. They seem to make every disagreement become a personal attack by everyone else onto them.

Leo Mars:

Originally posted by dragwillamgoddammit

A Leo mars has this need to be the most important person in the room and when they’re not, they throw almighty tantrums. If someone does not pay enough attention to them, they become self-conscious and moody, especially towards that person. They won’t tell you why, though. You’re just left to wonder what you did to deserve the silent treatment. They work hard for attention and when it is not received, they are personally hurt. Also very stubborn, they have a really hard time letting things go.

Virgo Mars:

Originally posted by ziwe

A Virgo mars generally isn’t aggressive but they rip you apart with their criticism that quite often becomes personal and nasty. Their anger is usually shown through complaining and cynicism. They are very prone to “just doing it themselves” rather than having to explain things to other people because they believe they are the only ones that can do anything the right way. Often, they will shut people down before they get a chance and are able to make people feel as though they are inferior which means they are avoided when anything doesn’t go to plan as those around them know they’ll be on a rampage.

Libra Mars:

Originally posted by welcometoyouredoom

A Libra mars wants drama, no matter where or who it’s coming from or involving. They are always the instigator when issues arise and love to light the fire and then run away to watch from afar. Then, when it’s all said and done, they decide to come out and mend the situation to make themselves look like heroes. Very passive aggressive to anyone that crosses them but rarely take action, instead they will talk behind peoples’ backs and spread rumors which solves nothing and in fact, makes things worse. 

Scorpio Mars:

Originally posted by i-am-a-daemon

A Scorpio Mars has an almost concerning amount of self-restraint which is even scarier than an explosive Mars sign as you can never tell what they’re thinking. They know how to not only cut deep, but leave scars for years on end. They have a very black and white outlook on life - it’s this or that. Pessimism is common and often alienates them from more happy-go-lucky people. They’re not bothered though, because anyone that sees the world in rose coloured glasses is an idiot, right? They’re able to destroy your self-worth without blinking an eye which means a lot of people tread on egg shells around them. 

Sagittarius Mars:

Originally posted by thatshortfunnygirl

A Sagittarius Mars often starts fights that they can’t finish. They rarely look at the facts properly before diving in with their opinion and then get offended if you don’t agree. They are violent when they are irritated and literally will throw a chair at someone if they’re not doing what they want. They get bored super easily and will (literally) run away if things aren’t fast-paced enough to keep them interested. If you want someone you know will always be on your side, don’t ask them, their opinions and moods can change in a flash.

Capricorn Mars:

Originally posted by orangemoons13000

A Capricorn Mars believes they can do absolutely no wrong. They are big on betrayal and backstabbing, making it unfortunate for you if you cross them because you won’t hear about it from them, you’ll hear about it when there are rumors circling about you and you’re getting the silent treatment from 4 of your friends. They seem very unenthusiastic and placid but they are very convincing when they set their mind on something. They are very calm when angry which makes it more uncomfortable for everyone because they become distant and quiet when you have upset them and it is very hard to come back from that.

Aquarius Mars:

Originally posted by etudiant-en-ph2

An Aquarius Mars is unbelievably clever but they often are bit by the “know-it-all” bug which makes them hard to converse with as they really don’t believe anyone can be on their level. They will fight back if they are forced to follow rules or requests they don’t agree with. They have a tendency to develop a god-complex and believe they are smarter, wittier and better than those around them. They become detached and disinterested when angry as if people are not worth their time which often leads people to dislike their blunt, entitled nature.

Pisces Mars:

Originally posted by 99percentskins

A Pisces Mars is endlessly fascinated by everything around them. They rarely get involved in any sort of disagreement or fight as they’re very chill and prefer the onlooker role instead. They are passionate about their opinions and beliefs and often take on a martyr role, even when there is no one going against them. It is as though they want to be defeated, so later they can prove themselves which can get on the nerves of people when they play the victim just to be redeemed.

jackson puked in front of a fan, fell off a chair and fainted… and, honestly? i am so exhausted. i am so exhausted of waking up with things like “jackson has fever”, “jackson is sick”. he is literally the most important person in my life and it kills me every time something bad happens with him. when will he understand that his health is a priority for us? that we don’t care if he skips an event to take care of himself? that we want him to be okay more than anything? and how this fucking company allowed this to happen to him? regardless of what made him sick, its their job to take care of him and keep him healthy, but, for fuck’s sake, how many times did we complain already about how much they neglect this boy? jackson really needs to fake he’s okay and i wonder if he does this constantly… anyway, it’s heartbreaking the amount of times we use the hashtag “#getwellsoonjackson”, it shouldn’t be like this…

Some important things from Hamilton last night

-after Its Quiet Uptown, Madison enters crying with a handkerchief and desperately responds “please” when Jefferson says “can we get back to politics”
-James Monroe Iglehart DABBED during The Reynolds Pamphlet
-Brian D'arcy James as King George. That’s it.
-Anthony Lee Medina’s dancing as John Laurens. So many body rolls.
-“I’m a general WHEEEEEE”
-During the line “I’ve been chosen for the constitutional convention” Jevon McFerrin started off very serious but then slipped into a happy dance at the end
-Thayne’s voice/accent as Samuel Seabury
-The lighting design was AMAZING
-“Southern mother fucking DEMOCRATIC REPUBLICANS”
-Anthony Lee Medina playing 9 year old Phillip
-The symbolism in the choreography
-The whole show