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Protest groups to unite as “The Majority” for massive actions across the country on May 1

  • Activist groups are uniting as a broader coalition they’ve dubbed “The Majority,” an idea inspired by the Movement for Black Lives — organizers first shared with Mic on Thursday.
  • More than 50 partners representing black, Latino, the indigenous, LGBTQ, refugees, immigrants, laborers and the poor will collaborate from April 4 through May 1, International Worker’s Day, when they’ll launch massive protests across the country.
  • The action will “go beyond moments of outrage, beyond narrow concepts of sanctuary, and beyond barriers between communities that have much at stake and so much in common,” The Majority states on its BeyondtheMoment.org website, which officially launches Monday. Read more (3/23/17 12 PM)

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Dear people who condemn polyamory:

I won’t tell you you’re wrong, because I respect everyones opinion. I will tell you, however, the truth as I see it.

Polyamory involves consent of every person that’s involved in it. It is not cheating, and it is not lying.

People who are poly are not “sluts”. Many of us value the emotional benefits of multiple partners more than the sexual ones.

Poly relationships are not “doomed to failure” or “inevitably unhealthy”. Poly relationships do require a lot of trust and communication, but with that in mind they can be very successful relationships.

Last of all, I’d like to point out something important. Polyamory is about love. Sharing and giving as much as you can. And if you think there’s something wrong with wanting to love many people, then keep it to yourself, because we aren’t hurting you at all.

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normalize platonic love

normalize showing your love for platonic friends in romantically-stigmatized ways
kiss your friends
hold hands with your friends
cuddle
say “I love you”
look out for each other

you dont have to be romantically interested in someone to show that you love them

SHOUT OUT TO DR. MORVEN DIGBY- THE UNDISPUTED MVP OF EPISODE 13!

high school au (part two)

(read part one here)

Andrew has spent every Sunday since he got out of juvie either in church or at an Exy tournament. It’s not a future he would have predicted for himself two years ago.

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planets in the 7th house and the type of partners you attract

Sun in the 7th houseMay attract egocentric partners. Your partner will shape your personality. Creative, funny and strong-willed type of partners.  They know what they want.

Moon in the 7th houseYou tend to attract needy partners. They want you to take care of them and act like their parent, they need nurturance. May also attract moody partners.

Mercury in the 7th houseHere you attract the talkative and witty type of partner. Always communicating. May text you constantly.

Venus in the 7th house A charming and elegant partner that is either into arts or in tune with beauty in general.

Mars in the 7th houseAssertive parnter. Strong sex drive. May be a little too agressive.

Jupiter in the 7thI feel like you attract more than one partner. at once They tend to be wealthy and wise. They might teach you things.

Saturn in the 7thYou attract responsible and hardworking partners. They might also be grumpy or straight up cold. They may act like your father.

Uranus in the 7th Unpredictable partners. They may come suddenly and unexpectedly. They may want to change the world with you. Independent partners.

Neptune in the 7thYou might idealize the perfect partner. May attract junkies or partners who don’t have a clear personality or may show themselves completely different from what you thought they were. They might deceive you. You might have telepathy with your partner.

Pluto in the 7th house Intense and dominating partners. You attract the kind of partner who will want to have control over you and be onto you 27/7. Sexually obsessive partners. They might change you completely for worse or for better.

RFA+V and Unknown who are and aren’t virgins and why? love your blog!
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Yoosung:

  • Precious bean baby is definitely a virgin
  • He’s probably has had a past girlfriend or two (they weren’t really serious relationships either), but he’s never given himself to any of them
  • He’s such a nervous guy and he’d really want to make sure he truly was ready and was in love with the person for his first time

Jaehee:

  • She isn’t a virgin
  • She’s regrettably mentioned before that she is not innocent
  • I can see Jaehee having a past, serious partner who she gave her first to
  • Plus she’s probably had more than one serious partner too

Zen:

  • He used to be a bad boy, remember?
  • Though he stated that he never fooled around with girls willy-nilly, he did do the frick frack quite a few times (but only with his girlfriends, not one night stands)
  • Zen does somewhat regret giving himself up so easily though

Jumin:

  • Virgin
  • Despite with the whole 50 Shades of Jumin Han thing, before his route in the game he really disliked women
  • Jumin tends to be really uptight with these sort of things (canonically not believing in moving in before marriage, for example)

707:

  • He’s had to seduce women for his agency work handfuls of times, so he’s not a virgin
  • It always made him feel dirty and guilty, but he never thought he’d actually fall in love so what did it matter
  • It wasn’t until MC that he changed his perspective

V:

  • Maybe a virgin, maybe not
  • Rika probably never got that intimate with V, and he respected her wishes 
  • But V most likely has had past girlfriends, and he is a very trusting person
  • So who knows? He is the ultimate enigma of the RFA after all

Unknown:

  • With being trapped in Mint Eye almost all his life following some cult, I think it’s safe to say that he’s a virgin
  • And if anybody in the cult tried to come onto him I don’t think he’d care about them either way
MBTI types different versions of love:

INFJ, ENFJ, ISFP, ENFP: A passionate physical & emotional love based on aesthetic enjoyment; stereotype of romantic love.

ESTP, ISTP, ESFP: A love that is played as a game or sport; conquest; may have more than one partner at once.

ISFJ, ESFJ, ESTJ, INTJ, ISTJ: An affectionate love that slowly develops from friendship, based on similarity.

INTJ, ENTJ, ISTP, INTP: Love driven by the head, not the heart.

ENFP, ISFJ: Obsessive love; experience great emotional highs and lows, a bit possessive and sometimes jealous lovers.

ISFJ: Selfless altruistic love; spiritual; soulmates.

Chara’s a needy prick that demands attention 24/7. Frisk just learned to deal with their random affection cravings.

Thoughts on Galra and Altean family structures:

Originally, far back before Allura and Coran’s 10,000 year cryosleep, Galra and Alteans were once a single race of shapeshifters that began to diverge as one group (the Galra) slowly lost their abilities. Because of this, though, their family structures are very similar, namely when it comes to childrearing.

Past Galra and current Alteans don’t really do gender as a general rule, because their power to adapt allows them to change their presentation and secondary sex characteristics at will, so any Galra or Altean has the ability to reproduce with any other Galra or Altean. There is no such stigma against same sex couples or having more than one partner because concepts like having a specific orientation or cheating don’t exist for them.

Galra (and Altean!) children are raised communally by multiple adults at once, many of whom have no connection to their actual parents. After growing up together, sleeping together, playing together, children are never alone for even a moment, and this fosters strong attachment to their own loosely-defined “community.” In the Galra’s case, all the Empire is one’s family and they traditionally greet each other by calling one another terms like “brother” or “mother” depending upon age, even if they’re strangers as a sign of respect. Alteans did this at one point, too, but as years passed, it became less and less common.

The loss of Galra shapeshifting was gradual over a period of thousands of years. Alteans, with their famous diplomacy, mostly restricted their interbreeding to more advanced (read: humanoid) alien species. (After all, what better way to forge an alliance than through tying families together and raising children?) Whereas Galra didn’t discriminate and preferred ones that were more animalistic because they believed they were naturally better at combat. Generations passed and their natural ability to shapeshift waned until it was practically nonexistent in anyone except the Druids, which are atavistic throwbacks to previous generations, thus their relatively human appearance.

Over the past 10,000 years, conception between Galra has been growing increasingly difficult, to the point where it’s rare for new Galra children to even be born at all. This isn’t too big a trouble because Galra are naturally long-lived, but because of that, children are highly prized. Any new Galra child born in the last few centuries is automatically elevated to royalty status, mostly as a formal title and little else, but it means all younger Galra are considered family of Zarkon and granted status within the Empire. This also means that the discovery of a long-lost Galra child would cause quite a stir among the Empire, but where in the universe would they manage to find such a thing?

Can a Relationship Survive When One Partner Is More ‘Spiritually Evolved?’

As souls, we come to Earth to have a human experience, each one of us seeking to learn different lessons and meet different people. We are all on different paths, and for those of you in relationships, you may notice that your own path differs from that of your partner’s. Do you feel more spiritually evolved than your partner? And if so, what does that mean?

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