more own

okay but

I don’t Discourse, but I get so angry when people dismiss asexual’s people’s problems as something like “Boohoo, you don’t want to fuck, no one gives a shit”.

But it’s so much more than that. Obviously it’s not homophobia, never was and never will be. It doesn’t even compare, it’s not the same thing at all. 

But there are issues asexual people face like - there is pressure, part of it from society, and a lot of it come for ourselves. And that kind of self-hate and self-loathing and thinking you’re broken and unloveable, developping unhealthy sexual behaviour and self-harm - it’s a thing, it’s definitely a thing, not something 14-year-old kids on tumblr made up for attention. It can really mess you up, mess your relationships up, and people are so afraid to talk about it - I read words of older people - and I don’t mean people my age, I mean people in their 50s, their 60s - probably they don’t even know asexuality is even a thing, they got married and had kids and always felt wrong, because they hate sex and they never wanted it and never felt comfortable around it but they did it, quietly, never said a fucking word, and hated themselves a bit more every single time because they never understood why they felt they were missing what they were always told was supposed to be a fundamental part of themselves. They spent their entire life thinking they were broken.

and. it’s not homophobia, it’s not bigotry from an entire society keeping you from jobs and housing, etc. there’s no stats or anything. And maybe a lot of non-asexual people relate to this self-loathing, too. Things are never completely clear cut - there is always some overlapping. It doesn’t make it any less important. It’s still a thing that most asexual people go through, at least for part of their life, and it can really, really mess someone up. And there’s no need to get into discourse or into any (useless and frankly asinine) comparisons - it just needs to be taken seriously for what it is, because people’s health and happiness are what’s at play and it matters, too.

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ps can you believe how ethereal my baby looked in the promo  &  did u hear her fuqqin angelic voice  &  can u believe she’s home !!!! she’s in westeros !!!!!!! she’s on dragonstone !!!!!!!!!!!! she gets to touch the beach w/ her liddo baby hands  &  breathe the air  &  just take in, for two seconds, that everything she’s worked so hard for is finally at her fingertips !!! 

not to sound like an Abused Kid™ but parents and other adults are untrustworthy and can turn on you without a moment’s notice

iconic moments in the get down part 2:

  • shao drop kicking some rich white boy who used the phrase ‘nigga coke’
  • rara trying to ask a girl out
  • MYLENE’S TOY BOX PERFORMANCE
  • dizzee realizing and admitting to himself that he’s in love with thor
  • SHAO REALING DIZZEE IS IN LOVE WITH THOR AND REASSURING HIM 
  • shao’s real name is curtis!!!!!
  • rara using star wars metaphors to bring the dj kingdoms together
  • Shaolin Fantastic: Adventures in White Boy Land
  • the iconic scene with all the crews and kingdoms coming together to defend the get down
  • ZEKE GOT IN TO YALE