It’s so easy to love someone when things are perfect and everything’s wonderful. But to love someone when things are difficult, when they’re not being perfect, when they’re messing up, flaws are seen, mistakes are made, i think that’s what really allows you to see how much love really is there. Anyone can love someone who’s doing and saying all the right things, being everything you want and need, when they’ve got it all together, when they have it all figured out, but to love someone at their lowest, to love someone despite how broken they feel, when they’re lost, when you’re willing to stand by them no matter how challenging or difficult things may be, i think that kind of love is a lot more beautiful. I think that kind of love is a lot more meaningful. Thank you for loving me both times, when things are good and also when things are bad. Thank you for taking in every aspect and part of me, accepting my flaws, forgiving my mistakes, helping me become the best version of me possible.
BEAUTY AND THE BIG BOSS TURNS 1 MONTH OLD TODAY! 🎈🎉❤️
*clap claps* woohoo! 👏🏻 It’s been a month already? To my followers and frequent viewers, thank you so much for appreciating this blog!~ I promise to continue even after DOTS and will give updates to our one and only Beauty and Bigboss!
DOTS is about to end… And I have mixed feelings for everything about this…. 😢😢😢
Thank you so much for the advanced #monthsary #gifts baby!!! Glad you like yours and hope the other ones can make it on time. She got me the #daredevil figure and the new issue of #batman ! AND since she spent more than $50 at #greenflashcomics , I got a free #batmanday #poster and my choice of four different baby variant images, and I chose #starwars ! #mygirlfriendisawesome #gf #iloveher @rociv25
Relationships are hard. They require work, trust, giving your full self to it and so much effort. People might think it’s not worth it, why get involved into something so demanding? Why give so much and receive maybe half or even less? Why even try?
I don’t have an answer for you, dear reader. I can’t tell you that the love of your life is right around the corner, that they’ll come to you riding a white horse and dressed in blue cause I honestly don’t know that. For all I know you might not even find it - which would suck, let me tell you. What I know is that when you find it it’s like the world gets better. The birds sing louder and the colours are brighter. Not only that, it’s you who change as well. You’re not alone anymore, you have your love, your soulmate. You’re stronger, braver which leads to happiness. Not the kind you’ve always felt, this too is somehow better and at the same time so weird. Your happiness is your love’s too so if you’re sad, they’re sad too and vice versa.
Let me tell you a secret though, dear reader. Being with your soulmate doesn’t mean you get butterflies every time you see them or have your heart skip a beat when you hear their voices. It happens from time to time, sure, but with a soulmate it’s rather calm. Normal. Almost as if nothing happened. Because you two, your lives - although you’ve lived two different ones up until now - are intertwined. You’ve looked for each other and finally found yourselves. You were meant to be. This is the biggest secret of them all. Living a relationship with your soulmate is a quiet, peaceful day. There are “more in love” days and “butterflies and heartbeat skipping” ones, but usually it’s basically the same as always cause it’s just half a soul that’s found its other piece.
I’ve been so lucky to have found mine and I hope you’ll find yours too, kind reader, I really do because it’s really the best feeling in the world. My life before was plain and grey while now it’s not only so colourful but it also has a meaning. So don’t stop looking for it. You won’t regret it, I promise.
100 REASONS WHY I LOVE YOU.
Before this day starts, I’d like to greet you Happy 10th Monthsary, My love. I prepared this list as a simple present in return to all of your surprises, presents and efforts.
You make me feel so important.
You have this sweet voice that melts my heart everytime I hear you.
You make me feel beautiful.
You don’t judge me by my mistakes.
You never made me feel worthless.
The way you laugh.
The way you sigh and tell me you love me.
The way you tell me how much you love me a million times everyday.
I love how I know you’ll always be there when I need you to be.
I love the fact that I will always be there for you too.
I love the way you exert effort just to make me happy.
I love your thoughtfulness.
You understand me.
You’ve given me everything I could possibly want.
I think of you every second of the day.
We are perfect for each other.
You love me despite my flaws.
You do everything just to cheer me up when I’m down.
Your voice when you wake up and tell me you love me.
The way you tell me you miss me when we just talked a couple of minutes ago.
The way you smile makes my world so bright.
You listen and understand me when I get upset over the smallest and simplest things.
You give me butterflies each day.
I can be just myself around you.
You’ve taught me how to appreciate the things around me.
The way you whisper to my ears.
You made me believe in forever.
Knowing that you love me makes me feel like I’m the luckiest girl in the whole universe.
You made me a better person.
The fact that you’re my real definition of happiness.
I love your tenderness and soft hands.
I love the way you talk to my friends and family.
Despite the distance, you still make me feel like you’re right here with me.
I love the fact that I’m willing to do everything just to make you happy.
I love the way you make me feel so complete.
I love the way you try to stay up late just to talk to me.
I love the way you talk to kids and treat them like your child. Sometimes.
I love the fact that you respect me.
I love all the surprises you did for me.
I love the way we dream about our future.
I love the fact that you consider your future being with me.
I love the way you make me feel like anything is possible as long as I’m with you.
I love your sense of humor.
I love you just the way you are.
I love your willingness to share everything and most especially your heart with me.
I love the fact that you don’t really drink alcohol at all.
I love the fact that you don’t smoke at all.
I love your confidence.
I love your ability to talk things through.
I love your attitude.
I love waking up to your long good night text messages. Sometimes.
I love your stubbornness.
I love the fact that you’re close to your family. Especially to your dad and kuya.
I love the fact that you always tell me that I’m yours.
I love the fact that you always tell me that you’re mine.
I know that as long as your by my side, nothing can go wrong
The way you do things for me without a question.
The way you tease me.
I love the way you call me baby.
I love the fact that you find it easy to get along with everyone.
I love the way you kiss me through the phone.
I love every minute when we sleep and the call is still on going.
I love the way you put up with all of my crap and childishness.
I love the way you pinch my cheeks.
I love the fact that you care so much about me.
I love the way you dance to me.
I love the way you inspire me.
I love the way you snore :p
You don’t like it when I cry.
You are just so sweet.
I love how you duck face to the camera.
I love the fact that you can easily tell when something’s bothering me.
I love your patience with me.
You take my breath away.
You’re the reason why I’m so happy.
You never get sick of me.
You never get tired of me.
You explain slowly all the things that I couldn’t understand.
The way you tell me these corny jokes yet you still manage to make me smile.
I love how I love you.
I love the ways you choose to show your affection for me.
I love your passion for your hobbies and interests. Except for online games =_=
You tell me that I never have to worry about anything at all.
Everything is fine when I talk to you.
The fact that we haven’t been together yet it feels like I’ve been with you for a long time.
The way you remember the smallest things about me.
The way you remember the smallest things about us.
You mean the world to me.
The way you tell me you’ll marry me someday.
You make me forget all of my problems.
I could just be with you forever.
The fact that you’ll never give up on me.
I love the way you light up my life.
How you read my messages no matter how long and dramatic they are. Hahaha.
You make me smile even when I’m crying.
The way you know me better than I know myself.
You are my soul mate.
I love the fact that you’ll never leave me.
And the last one, I love the fact that I didn’t even have a hard time writing all of these and still could go on and on just to let you know why I love you very much.
Idol ko to sila e :)) 2 years and 8 months na sila ngayon. If I’m not mistaken :)) HAHA. Hi ate Daph and Kuya Angelo! :) Happy monthsary sa inyo! :) Tagal niyo na at mas tatagal pa yan! :) Sana, kayo na talaga. :) Tangina kinikilig ako sa inyo e :)) kayo ang dahilan kung bakit buhay na buhay dash ko e :)) ang sweet niyo sa isa’t isa. Kahit nabibitter ako kasi wala ako ka-lover dito sa tumblr. WHAAAT :)) HAHAH. Godbless sa relationship niyo :) I love you both :“”> Shet. Sweet ko nu? XD HAHA. :* Yuuuun lang :))) Labs ko kayo dalawa ;3 Mwa mwa :)
Akala niyo lang walang “forever” kasi yung description niyo ng forever eh:
Yung lalaking mag e-effort ng bonggang bongga. Yung kada monthsary halos magpa flash-mob na, ma surprise ka lang.
Yung kapag mag-aaway kayo eh pagtingin mo sa bintana nandun na siya at may dalang gitara para haranahin ka.
Yung kunware maghihiwalay kayo, tapos mapupunta kayo sa ibang lugar tapos isang araw magkikita kayo, tas may magkakagusto sayo, tapos kukunin ka niya sa kanya, tapos magiging kayo ulit.
Yung gusto niyong relationship eh gaya nung mga nakikita niyo sa movies at nababasa niyo sa mga libro.
Sobrang perfectionist niyo. Ang dami niyong gustong mangyari.
Tingin niyo kasi na porket masayang masaya kayo ngayon, siya na talaga yung lalaking makakatuluyan niyo. Eh sa mundong to, wala namang kasiguraduhan diba?
Ang “forever” kasi, yun yung sa hinaba-haba ng panahon, sa sobrang daming problema na dumating sa inyo, at sa sobrang dami ng taong gustong maghiwalay sa inyo eh hindi pa din kayo sumuko. Hindi niyo binitawan ang isa’t isa. Ang “forever” kasi isang unending journey yan, yung hanggang sa huling hininga niyo eh yung taong yun pa din yung mamahalin niyo.
But now I came to realized that they will never figure out why until someone like you enters their life like you have barged in mine. They will never know how amazing you are and how lucky I am because you are mine. I always tell you that out of all the relationships I’ve been, ours is the easiest. No complications. No serious dramas. Less fights. Less mistakes. And I used to think that we are compatible like that.
But no. We are not. Watching my Mom’s wedding made me realize things about us. We are not really that compatible and everythinh doesn’t fall perfectly into places. But it’s you— who made all those things happen. You worked on our compatibility like it’s your job. You’ve deal with every shits and tantrums that I’ve thrown in you so patiently and quietly.
Two people are meant for each other not because they are compatible but because they work for the relationship to keep going until it can. And that made me appreciate you more. For all those times that you have to swallow your pride and for all those times that I’ve cut you off, instead of saying I’m sorry, I’ll just say thank you for letting me.
I have wrote you appreciation letters before but this one is in my most sincere state. You make me better. You make me go out and experience the world. You introduced me into your family and let me see who you are inside your core. And in those months that we’ve been together, you never even once intentionally hurt me. I salute you for consistency and I thank God that in a few men like you, I got one.
You are a blessing to me.
I’ll always answer them like that.