I really disagree with the reblog you just posted about being polyamorous and being careful to never fall in love with a monogamous person. This hurts me personally because as a mono person who is in love with a poly person, it can work wonderfully and just because I'm mono doesn't mean that I can't be open and excepting to the fact that my partner is poly. Just saying.
I’m very sorry! The reblog really was not intended to hurt anyone’s feelings. Relationships with monogamous and polyamorous individuals can be beautiful and work brilliantly.
My metamour (Bee’s partner) M is monogamous and is perfectly happy that way, and she love the relationship Dani and I have with Bee. Many monogamous people are okay with a polyamorous partner, and many feel compersion when they’re partner and meatmour(s) are together.
I have no ill feelings for relationships with a monogamous and polyamorous person! I mean, it can be a challenge (like any type of arrangement) but that doesn’t mean it can’t or won’t work. However, sometimes it is really hard and it does really impact the relationship, which is what I thought the post in question was referring to in a hyperbolic way.
I thought the post was meant in a humorous way, but by the responses and few other messages it obviously wasn’t taken that way. I’ll be removing it!
Once again, to you and others who have commented, I’m very sorry for any hurt feels. Let us know if you have any questions or concerns!