anonymous asked:

My boyfriend is poly and we have discussed it before, but latley Ive been realising that I might be more mono that I thought. I dont know what to do, seeing as he hasnt talked about wanting to add another to our relationship. Advice?

Emery says:

I would personally advise to let sleeping dogs lie and not bring it up unless he does, because it’s really not an issue. But if you are the sort who likes to talk everything out, and I totally understand if you are, find a good time to talk and mention to him that you know he hasn’t mentioned this, but you want to be clear with him that you are monogamous and you want your relationship to remain monogamous.

Good luck!