This post is for all the new doms and subs who joined the dd/lg community. Hello and welcome! I’m Princess Kitten and I want to give you some tips for finding the perfect spouse for you.

-Consent: You must get eachothers consent to do anything, even talk. Never talk to little who has a daddy. And never talk to a daddy who has a little. They already have their spouse and have a bond that cannot be broken. If you’re looking for a friend, ask to be introduced before anything.

-Doms: Always talk and love your little! They need all your attention!!!! If you dont give them attention, they become sad or neglected and feel like they’re worth nothing. Always tell your little the truth and everything about your day. We love listening to your voice. Pleaaaaaaseeeeeeeeee be kind to your little. They’re little of course. They dont act big for a reason. If you force them to act big they’ll get scared and wont go to you. Never force a little to do something they dont want to do.

-Littles: Its alright to be needy. Its alright to be worried. Go into your little space as often as you can. Its important to balance your big and little side. Make sure you love your dom as much as they love you. Always listen and follow directions. Dont be bratty and dont break rules! Your dom will punish you very badly. Also tell your dom what you are doing and how your day went. Always be honest. You dont want an angry dom.

A dd/lg is just like a normal relationship EXCEPT its stronger. Most people will not understand and thats perfectly fine. Dont be afriad of it. Embrace it! If you have any more questions, message me or send it through my asks. You may never know if someone is in the same situation as you and may need the same help. I love you all so much! Have a wonderful night!



Today Sam and the kids are going to lunch with sams mom, their all excited Simplicity loves her grandma and I’m only going to assume E does too lol, and Ellis is sill really go with the crowd.. not that he has a choice❤️ I can’t wait to hear about the visit with grandma! Besides everyone loves grandma ☺️

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