misandry don't real

Don’t you just love it when people say shit like this, then block you and run because they can’t handle the reply? Here it is anyway, sweet thing.

To anyone out there who agrees with this darling little bigot: BUCKLE UP KIDDOS, WE’RE GOING ON A WILD RIDE <3

~*~* THAT’S CISPHOBIA *~*~

~*~* THAT’S HETEROPHOBIA *~*~

~*~* THAT’S MISANDRY *~*~

~*~* THAT’S RACISM, AS DIRECTED AT CAUCASIANS *~*~

As a serious side note, I never said that they were oppressed. I said that they suffered hate. Being a member of a majority group/not currently being “oppressed” does not make someone immune from recieving hatred just for the way that they are.

"For the Men Who Still Don't Get It" by Carol Diehl

What if
all women were bigger and stronger than you
And thought they were smarter
What if
women were the ones who started wars
What if
too many of your friends had been raped by women wielding giant dildos
and no K-Y Jelly
What if
the state trooper
who pulled you over on the New Jersey Turnpike
was a woman
and carried a gun
What if
the ability to menstruate
was the prerequisite for most high-paying jobs
What if
your attractiveness to women depended
on the size of your penis
What if
every time women saw you
they’d hoot and make jerking motions with their hands
What if
women were always making jokes
about how ugly penises are
and how bad sperm tastes
What if
you had to explain what’s wrong with your car
to big sweaty women with greasy hands
who stared at your crotch
In a garage where you are surrounded
by posters of naked men with hard-ons
What if
men’s magazines featured cover photos
of 14-year-old boys
with socks
tucked into the front of their jeans
and articles like:
“How to tell if your wife is unfaithful”
or
“What your doctor won’t tell you about your prostate”
or
“The truth about impotence”
What if
the doctor who examined your prostate
was a woman
and called you “Honey”
What if
You had to inhale your boss’s stale cigar breath
as she insisted that sleeping with her
was part of the job
What if
You couldn’t get away because
the company dress code required
you wear shoes
designed to keep you from running
And what if
after all that
women still wanted you
to love them.

An important thing to remember about cisphobia/heterophobia/misandry/racism against white people and whatever else

When I call out and complain about abuse hurled at majorities, I am not trying to say that it’s more important than the abuse minorities recieve, and have recieved through history.

It’s not a competition.

It’s not about making comparisons, it’s not about weighing the importance of one against the other. It’s about stating a simple fact: that regardless of which group you belong to, you never deserve to be bullied or mocked for the way you were born.

Everyone is capable of recieving abuse, and being hurt by it, regardless of their race/sexuality/gender. No-one should be able to hurl abuse and be excused or not held responsible, regardless of their race/sexuality/gender.

Hate is hate. Hate is bad. Don’t be a dick.
End of story.

rxvenclaw-deactivated20141229  asked:

okay so please excuse me if i sound really ignorant, but isn't it wrong to make fun of cishet white boys as well as white girls? like on tumblr i see a lot of "but first lemme take a selfie is so bad!" and "stop generalizing things as 'white girl'", but nothing against "omg white boys with their nike pros and stupid $200 shoes" idk i probably just don't get it because i'm a cishet male myself, so sorry if this sounds super ignorant and dumb. thank you for your time!

“white girl” jokes are usually just misogynist jokes disguised as being subversive, whereas jokes about cishet white boys (as well as other privileged groups) are a coping mechanism of marginalized groups in the safe spaces of our own blogs.

joking about straight white boys won’t perpetuate the systematic oppression of straight white boys(because there isn’t any), but joking about “vapid teenage white girls” will and does perpetuate misogynistic world views as well as painting the image of “a modern teenage girl” as being a naïve, body-negative, thin, white, blonde girl who is hella into fashion and social networking and starbucks and uggs and marina and the diamonds.

(which is neither a bad thing or a necessary thing)

jokes that punch up only hurt if they’re not paying attention, jokes that punch down always drive us further into the dirt.

and thank you for letting me answer this publicly, btw. i’m sure others will benefit from this :)

This is for real what she said.

If all the women disappeared it would quickly degenerate to a Lord of the Flies situation – with most of the flies hanging around men’s dirty underwear. Boys would quickly become objects of desire and “slave” (domestic) labor would revert to them. All interesting and meaningful conversation would grind to a halt. Suicide rates would be off the charts and finally society would implode when the penny finally dropped that their existence is essentially selfish, hate filled and meaningless.

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Cats real. Misandry don’t real. Cute song. Cats are cute. Correlate.