saying that every cis person is mildly transphobic , but i think you should clarify your meaning in this statement. Branding them as transphobic is a large statement, and it implys they actively seek to marginalize all trans people, but they don't. Their "fear" is just humanities implicit fear of change and differences. They might feel uncomfortable, but that can change. It is quite the dammning, overarching statement to brand every cis person as transphobe when really its just initial confusion
kids aren’t born racist. people aren’t “afraid of difference” they are taught to be disgusted/afraid of minorities by society and the media.
but furthermore, i don’t care somebody’s reason for having mild transphobia. they are likely to hurt me either way.