why are other people complaining of other people’s posts of their sadness or pain or problems? like haven’t you thought that maybe talking or writing about it online is their only way of dealing with it? not everyone is as strong as you are if you are suggesting that “they should just cheer up” or “just be happy” instantly because if they can, they definitely will. if you don’t feel like reading those kinds of blog posts then unfollow them. if they trigger something in you then unfollow. if you can’t help or comfort someone, don’t make it worse by complaining to them anonymously.